You should be getting some. a) youre good looking dude ur sound cool c) youre a dj <insert shameless plug for Love Late here> But ur approach is wrong. a) not drinking enough trying too hard (the romantic thing is just so overkill) c) wrong type of buds to hang around with maybe. <reinsert shamelss plug for Love Late here> You should be getting some, seriously. Have you considered Love Late?