Not that your friend is one, but there are countless dudes that go to strip clubs cuz they are basically lonely guys. They will sit there in a lap dance and just be happy to have someone to talk to for 45 minutes. A pretty face, that smiles, and seems interested, for them, can make their week. It seems like a waste of money to the rest of us, but for these dudes, it's worth every penny. A good number of lap dances that go, approx, 6 and more songs are basically lonely dudes that are discussing their life stories with these girls and will come back a week later and pick up where the conversation ended last week.