Actually .... <<< has .... been known to give great advice (but for some darn reason never follows his own advice lol) I think ( is the easier question. Guys need to make the first move ... it's awesome if a girl does make the first move ... but a guy shouldnt sit around waiting for her to make the move twitling his thumbs. And if you make a move, and she says, "slow it down cowboy" (why girls are always calling me a cowboy, i have no clue lol ... i digress) ... if she says, slow it down, hey, dont worry about it. It doesnt mean she'll never see you again. (And often, lol, girls change her mind, often 1/2 hour later.) You never wanta go home thinking "what if, what if, what if i had" ... just go for it. In terms of angle, romantic or not, it's your call. Every 2 people have a different vibe. I can have a vibe with a girl at one end of club at 10 pm and have a totally different vibe (that also works) with a diff girl at the other end of the club at 1 pm. Just go for what feels right. That's always the best approach. And dont plan too much. Be able to switch in midstream if something good, or wonderful, comes up. Ok, now (a) a) where do i take her to eat? (how much money do i spend. ?) Answer - where the pitchers of beer are cheapest, j/k Okay, now ladies, dont come in here shouting at me on this one but ... lol ... it's a super turn off for a guy when a girl says "i only wanta go to eat at Here" and Here happens to be $30 entrees. You know the girl is a keeper if a) there is a collective effort between you and her on what to choose (not her telling you where to go) and she knows her food (ie. "bling, there is this place that makes an awesome plate of ...") or similar. Good luck!