Honestly, honestllllly, it's a bit strange how he's talkin. Honestly, I'm a bit torn on how to analyze this dude. Cuz it sounds like there is one of two possibilities at least.1. He's a wus. I mean, come on. He gets some. It's good. And then he wants some more. So he calls you up, or pm, or whatever. And he doesnt talk macho or sh#et or anything like that. He talks sort of like he wants charity sex. It's a bit strange for a dude that just got some to come back and sort of whine, like a wus, for more. It's very ..... well ... un-manlike 2. The other analysis is the perhaps "scary" one: He loves you. People generally forget sometimes that sex (except when perhaps it's all claw pulling, hair yanking, bed breaking, rough as hell sex) is a vehicle for changing emotions. It's the "wake up the morning after and think I love this person laying next to me" syndrome. It happens. And it may have happened here. There may very well be something else going on here with him. As someone who has been in this situation, sort of, I can understand the emotions involved. But I sort of dont understand the way the guy is talking. Here's my suggeston - F. the PM! Please. Never ever use pm when its something important like that. You really need to hear the person's voice - to hear the anguish, or sarcasm, or sillyness, or hurting, or whatever. Words on a screen only say so much. If it's someone you've been with a few times, I really think he deserves a chat with you, and you with him, at least to understand what each other feels, and maybe, if its what you want, closure.