Try gaining 3 kids at once...I know it was my choice and I don't regret it a bit but I am 21 yrs old and will soon be married to a guy with 3 children..I am thier mother and have been for the last 1 1/2 yr of their live..not to mention that there are 19 mo. old twins involved...they were 3 mos when their mother abandoned them and their now 4 yr old brother, and the father and I have had them since then. Its a strange situation..I know, but I couldn't be happier! Goodluck and U will be a good daddy!!