You ought to start by not using slurs and being such a homophobe. New York nightlife welcomes all kinds of people, at least somewhere, and having worked doors at a couple of them, I'll say that a good doorperson knows who should be in there or not. There are power-trippy jerks for sure, but there are also General Managers and Owners who may not like your 'type' and we could therefore lose our job by letting you in. Try other venues and getting over yourself a bit. It's not all that serious.