dreams2 Posted July 5 Report Share Posted July 5 I have seen it brought up in a few other threads so im kinda curious how many people have actually gone clubbing alone. And what your take on it was. good/bad?I personally never have - i just dont have the nerve to. although sometimes i wish i would. ------------------*~*In 3 words I can sum up everything I have learned about life - IT GOES ON*~**~*Leave nothing but footprints, take nothing but memories*~* *~*There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.*~* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bolts Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I came to New York last summer, and went out clubbing, then wanted to go to Twilo (a night Sascha was there)and my buddy didn't. So what can I do? I went by myself, but forgot my ID the first time. Went all the way back to my hotel to get it. On the way back two guys robbed my cabby, freaked me out-FUNNY SHIT-so I went back to the hotel smoked a dube and relaxed. Long story, but the whole point is, wanted to, but didn't end up doing it.BOLTS------------------RE DEL MONDO, CAPO DI TUTTI I CAPI Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Bunch of times. Usually its pretty good. Going with people's better, but when you can't sleep or need to bounce around....Sometimes, if I really wanna hear someone and everyone else is staying in - the music keeps you happy! Lot's of dancing and there really are a lot of good, cool people happy to hang with you. Great way to meet new friends! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubjunkie Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I've gone alone lots of time but usually i know there's going to be someone i know there. i love going with big groups though. having a big crew is awesome but face it, not everyone is a clubjunkie and wants to go clubbing three times a week. ------------------* emily * Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xpander Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 A lot of my close friends either don't like the music, or aren't the "clubbing" type. So I went to clubs alone alot. But if the music's good, it doesn't really matter.------------------...it's quiet now...and as I think my thoughts alone...I try to keep my head straight... but i thnk i'm too far goneeeeeeee................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Solo cluben is sometimes required.Especially if your friends arent into it.Or theyre into it too much..too drunk or stoned to have any fun.Sometimes I just want to go and enjoy myself instead of worrying about everyone...getting lost, getting sick, getting in trouble...i dunno maybe im just a worry wort...oh the worst is when your ride is drunk ..gahAnyways...Rock on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldoan Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I've never had to go to a club alone. I wouldn't really want to party without my friends. But the situation has never come up, I guess because someone always wants to go out but if there was ever a time when I was solo then I'd go out by myself. Why not? Do what you want to do and don't do it for others is my motto. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ecstatichigh35 Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i have twice. My friends definitely arent into clubbing as much as i am, so a few times i really felt like dancing and none of my friends were down, so i went a lone, the first time i was totally straight, well i took a couple jello shots but thats it, and i danced most of the time, i didnt really like it that much. the second time i drank in my car before the club like 10 shots in 10 min thinking i would be drunk and would have a better time, but i ended up throwing up in the bathroom and blacking out for a couple hours at the bar, then i got up went and slept in my car for a couple more hours felt like complete shit, woke up around 4-5AM and drove home, after that i'm never going clubbing aslone again.------------------"Emotions touched...with feelings running high....it seems right...no need to run and hide....we live fantasy...upon reality...to the other side of life...of life...of life...of life...of life.....as you take me away....one feels into my fantasy...I find with you I break free....as I drift on a dream...I pray to you with hands held high....I find with you....Ecstasy........" I'm the one with the whistle at Sound Factory Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tribal Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 yup, a few times, most of my friends are Dave Mathews type people, no "repetitive electronic dance music" for them. its definitely better with friends, but if im solo i just make new friends at the club. i had the best time when i went for sasha n digs, and digweed dropped Way Out West "The Fall" with like a 7 minute build up, the whole place was on fire, you could see it in peoples eyes,but otherwise if the music sucks, that can be a real downer.------------------ <IMG SRC="http://www.angelfire.com/ny3/hydro22/bedrock.gif""> sometimes you just have to say "what the fuck!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vixenfoxxy Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I did it once as a promoter in DC. I was working with one club and we'd just started the party. We were only a few weeks into it and I'd promoted it pretty hard, so I felt obligated to show. Well, I did, and my PM introduced me to his friend. This friend tried to lure me, then force me, into a tiny private party room at the back of the club thinking he was going to get some. I was saved by this guy who happened to be in the back at the moment and distracted this dude so I was able to run. My PM and my ex were at the door and I just kind of ran out to them in tears and they made sure I got home okay. Overall a really scary experience and I don't think I'll try it again. ------------------"Since we cannot hope for order, let us withdraw with style from the chaos." ~Arcadia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slayer2k1 Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Yeah, going to the clubs can be a great way to meet new people, I've been out to the clubs a couple of times and have found some really cool people to chill with. Although, I mostly meet up with people nowadays!!!! My friends are quite into the electronica that much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
househeadnyc Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Just get high and enjoy. Usually someone from the opposite sex more fucked up than you will come up and start chillin wit ya. And that's where the fun comes in... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aphelion Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Originally posted by clubjunkie:not everyone is a clubjunkieHey babe, check your PM's..------------------ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msoprano Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 ive gone alone but i alwayse knew that i was gonna meet a few people out.....i love taking train rides in with like 20 people though. thats always the best------------------ "don't get attached to anything you're not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you spot the heat coming around the corner"Robert DeniroTUNNEL SATURDAY'S "SOPRANO GUEST LIST"AIM:MSOPRANO13Email: msoprano13@yahoo.com im gonna make you an offer you cant refuse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dw Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Originally posted by xpander:A lot of my close friends either don't like the music, or aren't the "clubbing" type. So I went to clubs alone alot. But if the music's good, it doesn't really matter.I'm much the same, so all the time...I like clubbing solo better - I can stay as long as I want, cuz I don't think any of my non-clubbing can last as long as me.I should try going out with clubbing friends though. I run into them at the clubs anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trancedkitten Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I've never....but have wanted to a lot of times....don't think I have the guts though....-=*TrancEdkittEn*=- =^..^=------------------ ::::::Trancin' Is a Way Of Life:::::: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rld2g Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i've gone clubbing by myself more times than i can remember...and i love it...i never did, but started getting pissed when my friends would cancel and i would be stuck at the crib twiddling my thumbs...just decided to take control of my own destiny...clubbing alone is actually better than going with people to me because you dont have to deal with any whiny softcore bitches who dont wanna stay till 11am...heh heh...------------------"i was the real star...just because his mother died he got all the attention...they even named the movie after his no acting ass" - quote from an unidentified rabbit on the set of bambi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 the only time i ever went out alone is when i was a promoter. i would goto the club and pretty much know people. now it's alittle different. going out alone really sux. ------------------~~all those who dance may enter my life~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diehardone Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I have gone out alone before.Even though the times I have I always bump into people I know from being out any way.Also what happens when I go out with friends is I go for what are known as my famous walks were no one can find me for about a good three hours.So its kind of like being out alone.The most strangest thing that happens when im out alone I always hook-up with the hottest girls and have the craziest night I guess i just have to make sure I have company ...Two thumbs and toes up for going out alone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjr203 Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 I keep trying to go clubbing by myself but there are always hundreds of people out whenever I go. -MJR------------------In spite of all evidence to the contrary, the entire universe is composed ofonly two basic substances: Magic and bullshit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vipsonly2000 Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i went to soundfactory a couple of years ago by myself.....not a good idea. Lets just say if your GIRL best idea is NOT to go to a club ALONE. if you would to know more information on my experience or want to share clubbing experiences email me at mntnbluice@aol.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i usually go by myself because most of my friends get out of work at 4am and i dont wanna wait for them. it can be pretty scary if youre a girl going out by yourself, especially at certain clubs like SF or exit. but i tend to see a few girls by themselves at vinyl...i guess its the friendly atmosphere thats less intimidating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6pmc6 Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 yeah, we've been talking about this on the other boards. I've done it some times.While it can be a liberating for a while, a lot of times its sux. But if none of your friends are into going, what can you do?Pete Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silente Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Clubbing alone can be great or miserable, depending on the crowd. If the beats are jumpin and the place is packed, it doesn't matter who you're with - it's gonna rock anyway. But if there's no one there...well...that kinda sucks ass.------------------Nothing can be as savage as love...one taste is never enough...Music is my destiny...my escape from reality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dialectics Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i haven't gone to a club alone on purpose, but a few times its ended up that way, ie my friends were too tired to stick around, supposed to meet someone that didn't show, etc. usually when i go out 99% of the time i'm in the zone, dancing by myself, wandering around and stuff. but for that 1% when you're chilling out its nice to have your friends around.When you're all alone there is sometimes too much pressure to meet people. i don't think i could _ever_ roll by myself tho rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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