dgmodel Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 how do you all feel about a woman proposing to the man to get married??? do you think thats a cool twist on a on old tradition? do you that thats not a good idea do think it should always and forever be the male??? what do you think??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Call me old fashioned, but I think it's the man's job to propose. While I may bring up the topic of marriage to my significant other for further conversation, I would never drop down on one knee and present him with a ring. The proposal story itself is something that is repeated time and time again. I can't imagine explaining the proposal story to my friends and family. I want to be proposed to. I want to feel like I am wanted. I want to be deemed as marriage material. I want the perfect engagement ring with that classic Tiffany setting. Me, me, me. Not him! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 truthfully, i think if a woman wants her man to be all hers, then she should pop the question.we live in 2003 no? where females want all the shit that males have...so fuck it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 i think we live at an age that there is no more "right" way. you can do whatever you want, or whatever feels right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by mala Call me old fashioned, but I think it's the man's job to propose. While I may bring up the topic of marriage to my significant other for further conversation, I would never drop down on one knee and present him with a ring. The proposal story itself is something that is repeated time and time again. I can't imagine explaining the proposal story to my friends and family. I want to be proposed to. I want to feel like I am wanted. I want to be deemed as marriage material. I want the perfect engagement ring with that classic Tiffany setting. Me, me, me. Not him! Hold on here... It also always was the man proposed and bought the ring and the womans parents took care of the wedding. I am sorry but day by day this happens less and less and both the bride and groom pay for the wedding. So throw the old fasion shit out the window. But then again what the hell do I know. Either way is fine if you ask me. But personally I think I would like to be the one doing the proposing. Cause I am a sucka and if I really want to say no. And I feel bad. I will wind up saying yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 21 Author Report Share Posted January 21 women still get the rings but we still dont get the hope chests... wtf is that all about!!! cheaf pucks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by atomicapples truthfully, i think if a woman wants her man to be all hers, then she should pop the question.we live in 2003 no? where females want all the shit that males have...so fuck it... true...but i'm a sucker for tradition... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 this is one of those time honored traditions i respect...men should propose...its just the way its meant to be.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by dgmodel women still get the rings but we still dont get the hope chests... wtf is that all about!!! cheaf pucks... muah ha ha......if all goes as planned....i won't even be able to lift my arm when i get the rock i want;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by ghhhhhost this is one of those time honored traditions i respect...men should propose...its just the way its meant to be.. i agree so...when are you proposing again?? hurry it up, already *taps foot* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by suthrnbelle i agree so...when are you proposing again?? hurry it up, already *taps foot* would you marry me? *offering a big fatty rock (83 karots)would you except this ring, to be my wife to wed? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 21 Author Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by misk muah ha ha......if all goes as planned....i won't even be able to lift my arm when i get the rock i want;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by dgmodel women still get the rings but we still dont get the hope chests... wtf is that all about!!! cheaf pucks... misky--- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 if marci married apples....how fucked up would their kids be? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by incredulous i think we live at an age that there is no more "right" way. you can do whatever you want, or whatever feels right Agreed. No, I can't imagine doing the proposing, and yes, I'm really hoping that when the day comes, that he's going to pop the question in some amazingly romantic way that we can one day tell our little cousins (we don't want kids, so little cousins it will have to be ).BUT as for what is "right," only the couple in question can decide that... it's too personal of a thing, I don't think it's anybody's business to decide whether they did the "right" thing or not. As long as they are happy why should anyone give a fuck??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by incredulous i think we live at an age that there is no more "right" way. you can do whatever you want, or whatever feels right That is so true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dknybabe2929 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by misk muah ha ha......if all goes as planned....i won't even be able to lift my arm when i get the rock i want;) oh yeah babyyyyyy...KISS the hand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by dknybabe2929 oh yeah babyyyyyy...KISS the hand if you get a ring that misk described, you wont be able to see the hand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 I guess I'm old fashioned, but I can't see myself ever proposing..... It's all him!I just hope to be asked in a creative and memorable way... It doesn't have to be anything super spectacular, but just not in a way that's been done tons of times....Originality is key! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaysersoze Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Guys, do you all remember the Robert redford & Michelle Pfeiffer movie?...... She did propose to him to him.....Wasnt that that the cutest thing a girl ever did???....Aaawwwww...call me a sappy S.O.B !! I can take it...but DAMN!! You gotta agree wiht me, it was the nicest thing a modern day girl could do,...take heart matters into her own hands.!! God !! They dont make girls like that n e more !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by atomicapples would you marry me? *offering a big fatty rock (83 karots)would you except this ring, to be my wife to wed? awwwww, after that wild night when you "shagged me rotten", of course i will Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by legend38 That is so true OT: but i am sooooooo in love with legolas(sp?)--love your sig pic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by suthrnbelle i agree so...when are you proposing again?? hurry it up, already *taps foot* there willl be no proposing...as long as ur in love with an elf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m0chi69 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 i'm an aggressive gal so i probably would end up proposing... but i'm sure it wouldn't be a "proposal" in the traditional sense... probably like a "discussion/ultimatum" which plenty of women give as well... do you count those as women proposing since they're bringing the subject up?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by m0chi69 i'm an aggressive gal so i probably would end up proposing... but i'm sure it wouldn't be a "proposal" in the traditional sense... probably like a "discussion/ultimatum" which plenty of women give as well... do you count those as women proposing since they're bringing the subject up?? It's a proposal when you "pop the question," not when you simply initiate a discussion on marriage... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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