eckobarbie Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 I'll try not to make this too long...I've been seeing someone for a about a year, I see him maybe two times a week. I do what I want, he does what he wants blah blah blah..he does NOT WANT TO COMMIT.Thing is I have a thing for his FRIEND.. he asked me out for drinks on wednesday.. and EVERYONE knows what happens when you drink and youre attracted to that person..SOOOOOOOOthe question is : should i? or should i not hook up with him? is that a really bad thing if i do?? The kid I'm seeing is bound to find out.SORRY to ask you all this retarded question, i hate reading other ppl's bullshit issues in their lives, and this one is pretty lamethanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highmay Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 fuck them both at the same time...no j/k...uhmmmm, if you dont want to hurt either, just get the fuck outta that situation and figure out what the hell you REALLY want...you confusing bitch... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 i would say that getting involved with this friend would get messy, but it sounds like you're already in a mess. relationships that are phrased as "i do what i want, he does what he wants" aren't really relationships, they're convenient situations. if the guy you've been "seeing" is so nonchalant about whatever it is that you two share, then he shouldn't care who you like, kiss, have sex with, etc. i would, however, assume that this would not be the case, and that he would most likely throw fits and nasty names in your direction. it's easy to have an "open" situation when you think the other person won't meet someone else first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by highmay fuck them both at the same time... yeah i agree with highmay.do whatever u want hehe. if somene doesnt wanna commit after a year, who gives a shit what happens, obviously he doesnt care either. go for his friend if u feel like it. maybe you can have something with him/. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by somebitch yeah i agree with highmay.do whatever u want hehe. if somene doesnt wanna commit after a year, who gives a shit what happens, obviously he doesnt care either. go for his friend if u feel like it. maybe you can have something with him/. can i make something with you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by atomicapples can i make something with you? haha. im a lewser... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by somebitch haha. im a lewser... not to me. somebitch, reply to your PM... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 hmmm well, go to your current boyfriend and tell him that you´re gonna go out with his friend and check him out since you want a relationship and he might be the right one for it. since your current bf doesn´t want to commit (-> open relationship) he shouldn´t object, maybe you´ll even open his eyes and get him to commit for fear of losing you all along. whatever you do, make it known to him. most important thing about any relationship, open or not: honesty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by tastey hmmm well, go to your current boyfriend and tell him that you´re gonna go out with his friend and check him out since you want a relationship and he might be the right one for it. since your current bf doesn´t want to commit (-> open relationship) he shouldn´t object, maybe you´ll even open his eyes and get him to commit for fear of losing you all along. whatever you do, make it known to him. most important thing about any relationship, open or not: honesty. I concur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by eckobarbie I'll try not to make this too long...I've been seeing someone for a about a year, I see him maybe two times a week. I do what I want, he does what he wants blah blah blah..he does NOT WANT TO COMMIT.Thing is I have a thing for his FRIEND.. he asked me out for drinks on wednesday.. and EVERYONE knows what happens when you drink and youre attracted to that person..SOOOOOOOOthe question is : should i? or should i not hook up with him? is that a really bad thing if i do?? The kid I'm seeing is bound to find out.SORRY to ask you all this retarded question, i hate reading other ppl's bullshit issues in their lives, and this one is pretty lamethanks! if ur questioning it, then apparently u have some thoughts that its not rightare u looking for some "go ahead" from the boardwell my assesement of the situationthe friend probably knows that u hook up with his friend for over a year and no commitmentthis is probably what he wants a fuck buddyso if ur looking for a relationship from the friendwell he probably doesnt want onethink about it, who would want something serious from a girl who used to or still hooks up with his friend??sounds kind of shadytheres the truth, delivered to u by the nympho.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eckobarbie Posted February 26 Author Report Share Posted February 26 ehhhh.. i still don't know what the fuck to do, i guess you'll all find out tomm night what a big slut I really am!! lol j/k sigh.... fuck it, i'll just enjoy whatever happens. thanks everyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 F the S out of both of them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 So you like him, and he asked you out for a drink...so what? The question remains, how does he feel about you?What exactly do you want from him? A relationship? Committment? Fiery, animal sex? A shopping buddy?And I'm sorry to rain on your parade, but ask yourself this question- if he's a good friend of the guy you're going out with (I won't say boyfriend, because apparently, in YOUR eyes, he just doesn't cut it) and he asked you out, how do you know that a few months, weeks, or god forbid days later, he wouldn't go behind your back and ask some other girl for a drink? Nympho's right, this whole thing is just too shady... :nono: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eckobarbie Posted February 27 Author Report Share Posted February 27 I guess I didnt add enough details to the whole scenario, cause i didnt want to bore the fuck out of anyone who read the post, but im sure he def wants me, it's long of a story, there's more to this whole retarded dilemma, but (ha) i guess it's really not a big deal, whatever happens, happens.thanks though everyone!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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