exit24e Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 I met most of my friends at clubs so i dont ahve this problem... sucks for you people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris817 Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 Been out a lot of times by myself, most times it's been really cool. Other times its been kinda lonely. kinda depends on the night and music. If you really want to check something out then go even if by yourself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kutekimee Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 good question rachel...i go out by myself more so when i'm traveling too--it must be due to feeling anonymous. anyway, i was down in miami with my sister & friend and they didn't want to go out! so i went by myself to check out george acosta at level and i had a blast. i almost went to arc by myself last weekend after going to webster hall and "losing" my friend! i was so ready to go dance my butt off some more, but had to tell the taxi driver to take me home instead because i had $5 bucks left on me and didn't bring the atm card. damm...lolanyway, i'd go out alone more if i felt safe, you know? other than that, i'd do it. you can hardly talk to people u come to a club with anyway. plus, i have only one buddy who loves clubbin to the same music i like. we should all do a meet up some time...i'm up for it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crizface Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 Rae! you know if I'm in the city we can always hit up events together! I wanna go to marvo v but I dont think I'll make because money is tight right now.. but anytime let me know! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crizface Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 I met most of my friends at clubs so i dont ahve this problem... sucks for you people. Who says going out by yourself has to suck? Theres times when I rather go out alone.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PCR Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 I too have gone out by myself quite a bit....and still do from time to time.As a matter of fact it looks like I will be dancing alone this Sat at Arc... (ooops, I mean with the entire crowd of clubbers). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattm2o Posted September 12 Report Share Posted September 12 Originally posted by mala I always went to Tunnel by myself, but only because I knew I'd run into people I know. EXACTLY MY POINT! And the best part aboug going by yourself is you can leave when ever the fuck you want. You don't have to look for anyone, or listen to anyone bitch that they wanna go home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doublehelix Posted September 14 Report Share Posted September 14 Well, I'm new here and this is my first post on this board (congratulate me). I love clubbing- the music, dancing, atmosphere, and meeting people, but none of my friends are into clubbing the way I am. It sux... every weekend i want to head to NYC, but all of my friends want to see a movie or something like that. And so many of them are into going to Irish pubs Honestly, I think i've done like 20% of the clubbing that I've wanted to do since I started college. Sometime last winter, I did go to Webster Hall by myself (first and only solo trip i've ever made), but it was way too awkward... it wasnt a good night there anyways. Hey, if anyone here ever wants to go out or meet up at a club, I'd definetly be in. I dont know if the members on this board have a their own clique or anything, but PM me if you'd be interested in adding one more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
househead24 Posted September 14 Report Share Posted September 14 Originally posted by t0nythelover i only go out by myself, most of my friends dont like clubbing Same here....Well I always go out alone during the school year cuase all my friends including myself are aaway at college and im the closest to the city so, yea i dont care i'll go out by myself anytime, doesnt bother me.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funeralhome Posted September 14 Report Share Posted September 14 Originally posted by xxrachael1xx does any one else here go out to a partie by yourself? if you know the music will be good and just want to have a good time, but have no one to go with? (of course ull know people there tho!) i do it a lot. sometimes i like it better that way.. don't have to deal with anybodies personal shit..i usally meet up with ppl there anyway..but in the past i've met some of my best friends just by going out alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 i wish i had the balls to go out alone. i feel kinda awkward if i am by myself... i guess if you have a bar stool that would be ok but if you cant get a seat, what do you do?? just wander around and watch or try to meet some people to talk to?? the best part of going out is being with the company you want to be with. i like to communicate with people & friends, if i was alone i wouldnt know what to do with myself. if i was going out to dance, i would be OK but until i was feeling the music or felt like dancing i wouldnt feel right. the weird thing is i can go out and wander off alone all night, meet tons of people & have an awesome time but if i actually went out alone i would just feel weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowball Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Never done that before, i always had to have some friends come with me but hey i had a blast ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aystar Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 if a good dj is playindont let your friends who arent into clubs stop youits all about the musiccause if theres a great dj there then most likely the vibe will be good and you will probly see more people just like you who are alone but who are haveing a great time and are into the music Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daemoncel Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Originally posted by somebitch i wish i had the balls to go out alone. i feel kinda awkward if i am by myself... i guess if you have a bar stool that would be ok but if you cant get a seat, what do you do?? just wander around and watch or try to meet some people to talk to?? the best part of going out is being with the company you want to be with. i like to communicate with people & friends, if i was alone i wouldnt know what to do with myself. if i was going out to dance, i would be OK but until i was feeling the music or felt like dancing i wouldnt feel right. the weird thing is i can go out and wander off alone all night, meet tons of people & have an awesome time but if i actually went out alone i would just feel weird. i guess it's different for girls.. because of the whole issues with asshole guys whom like to grab and paw at women Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max3 Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Most of the time I do, cuz of the reasons that friends don't share the same interest and think they are over that scene...mainly I go for the good music and love to dance to it...and also enjoy to photograph the fun of the scene.....you could consider me a late bloomer since I had some restriction that I couldn't get aroound in my late teens early 20's, which prevented me from going to clubs( Hmmmm?... Was I in an insane asylum??? ...felt like it, but I can't remember. It's very complicated...Well...Doesn't matter now...Anyway, My experience of going to clubs solo so far for the most part has been very positive. I found that the crowd and some of the djs enjoy watching me dance to the music, and I'm a welcome addition to the party...I like to see people smile and show that they are having a good time...and somehow I am able to motivate that effect (whether you are a girl or a guy), in this case, in my dancing and getting into the music.I hope this is food for the thought Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlamontxx Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Hey xxrachaelxx check your profile ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dystopia77 Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 Due to lack of genre consensus, I've gone clubbing on my own in London a few times at Fabric before I overdid the place but even if I go with friends I tend to go wandering on my own for hours. Been scouring the web for NYC clubbing info. I'm in town for four weeks on biz, just wondering which clubs in NYC are best to go on one's own? Trying to find somewhere to go tomorrow evening.Royston. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 Originally posted by daemoncel i guess it's different for girls.. because of the whole issues with asshole guys whom like to grab and paw at women That's actually my main deterrent to being in a club by myself... not so much the issue of being molested as such, just the thought of being an easy target who gets hit on allllll goddamn night long... I just can't deal with that nonsense anymore. I go out alone, but I don't know if it really counts when you know you're going to run into people you know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mnyce Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 always wanted to try goin out by myself, i feel i always need to escape every weekend from all the shit that goes on during the week and usually my friends are never down to going to the places i wanna go too, most of them arent really into clubbin and i assume it would kinda be awkward walkin around a place like SF or somethin like that by urself... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxrachael1xx Posted September 18 Author Report Share Posted September 18 yeaaa i wouldnt go to a club like that by myself... cuz the music would suck. but if its a goood dj im prepared to go SOLO!! woot woot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aknelma Posted September 19 Report Share Posted September 19 Originally posted by danihawk I've considered it, but never actually done it...whenever I've been out with a friend and she meets a guy or whatever it's always cool me too I have considered many times.....cause none of my friends really want to go out clubbing....but I never got the courage to go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerzeyangel Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 eh...i used to go to tunnel & SF by myself too, but i was also usually rollin so u meet ppl a lot easier lol....plus there were all the regulars that u knew. none of my friends were into that shit either and it was the only place i felt like i could be myself (or escape from myself....whichever the case...) i dont think its that big a deal....tho its probably not the safest thing, so be careful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turpentyine Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by aknelma me too I have considered many times.....cause none of my friends really want to go out clubbing....but I never got the courage to go ye i have the same problem but i swear next time no one wants to go, like always, i am fucking doing it lol..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
letemknow00 Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 i just did it tonite, kinda...my boys left early cos they thought the party was wack..but it was only 1am ...so i ended up clubbing by myself....felt weird, but no regrets..needed to get loose after 5 days of hard work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reddog4063 Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 i used to go to Arc alone alot because none of my friends could keep those crazy hours, but I always knew a whole slew of people when I got there, so it was never really *alone*, more recently a few of my friends have been coming out with me just because of all the crazy stories and cool pictures i've been feeding them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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