captainpec Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 If you are dating someone for a little more than a month and you feel that they are requiring too much attention... (ie. want you to call everyday or every other day) how does that make you feel. I'm currently getting shit right now for not calling for two days and I realized why I didn't mind being single... too much drama. I personally think its too early in the relationship to demand attention and can only get worse down the line.Also - girls that liked to be wined and dined... what are you opinions? By that I mean I've spent close to $1k on 5 weeks (once of twice a week) of dates and I think she still isn't satisfied... and not that I give in either cause I don't. I think I might be single again in the near future... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by captainpec If you are dating someone for a little more than a month and you feel that they are requiring too much attention... (ie. want you to call everyday or every other day) how does that make you feel. I'm currently getting shit right now for not calling for two days and I realized why I didn't mind being single... too much drama. I personally think its too early in the relationship to demand attention and can only get worse down the line.Also - girls that liked to be wined and dined... what are you opinions? By that I mean I've spent close to $1k on 5 weeks (once of twice a week) of dates and I think she still isn't satisfied... and not that I give in either cause I don't. I think I might be single again in the near future... 1.) Lay down the law now while it's not too late. Let her know you're not down with all this calling everyday bullshit.2.) About the $$...you're getting played for a sucker. Once you start that bullshit, you have to continue that route and keep spending the doe. You should have her paying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Always Use the 90 Day rule....People can fake it for a long time so,Don't spoil her until after 90 days.... by then her true colors will shine through!DOC~B "Serving all your psychosexual needs since 1971" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by captainpec If you are dating someone for a little more than a month and you feel that they are requiring too much attention... We need attention at all times, just like you guys Also - girls that liked to be wined and dined... what are you opinions? By that I mean I've spent close to $1k on 5 weeks Damn!!! I know my boyfriend thanks me for being such a cheap date ( I love Taco Bell) and for cooking for him EVERYDAY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by candyrollx69 We need attention at all times, just like you guys You're way off there hun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
captainpec Posted March 25 Author Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by b-side Always Use the 90 Day rule....People can fake it for a long time so,Don't spoil her until after 90 days.... by then her true colors will shine through!DOC~B "Serving all your psychosexual needs since 1971" You brought up a good fucken point... this is soooo true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by nomembername You're way off there hun. Are you saying that you don't need attention from your woman? Would u like to go out with her and have her look at other men? NO! You want all her attention on you right?.... unless u like to share Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by candyrollx69 Are you saying that you don't need attention from your woman? Would u like to go out with her and have her look at other men? NO! You want all her attention on you right?.... unless u like to share You're missing the point sweety...all I am saying is that guys (atleast the one's that aren't gay) can handle time apart better where as bitches will have a fucking conniption fit if we call 10 minutes later than we were suppose to. It's ok though, it's not your fault and we understand...we realize that you are all psycho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 im currently dating someone as well but instead of me calling him all the time he calls me everyday, its cute since we starting to get to know eachother but it does get a lil out of hand....funny how im going through the samething but vice versaboth men and women need attn but also need some space Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by nybeauty im currently dating someone as well but instead of me calling him all the time he calls me everyday :laugh: I guarantee you haven't given up that booty yet...wait and see how much he keeps calling you once he gets in those pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by nomembername you are all psycho Psycho and lovin' it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by candyrollx69 Psycho and lovin' it 321Tired - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by nybeauty ... instead of me calling him all the time he calls me everyday Ditto Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by nomembername 321Tired - Shhhhh he doesnt' know I'm psycho! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by nomembername :laugh: I guarantee you haven't given up that booty yet...wait and see how much he keeps calling you once he gets in those pants actually he might go psycho on me after that! candy knows wha im talkin about, keep them in suspense idk i never did like sweatin anyone, just not me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 damn suspense! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sotuchick Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by captainpec feel that they are requiring too much attention... (ie. want you to call everyday or every other day) how does that make you feel. Also - girls that liked to be wined and dined... what are you opinions? By that I mean I've spent close to $1k on 5 weeks (once of twice a week) of dates and I think she still isn't satisfied... and not that I give in either cause I don't. I think I might be single again in the near future... She's possesive..forget her ass. Also I don't think you'd like to be with someone who don't appreciate what you do for her; who does she yhink she is? Vida GUerra or something? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thrillfire Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 i let my guy set up the pace for phone contact, he usually calls me every day, but there were times when he had a lot of work and we talked once a week which is fine with me. I was being spoiled by him but only after we were dating for three or more months and all that time we spill all expenses right down the middle. But now that we've been together for 5 years, he doesn't spoil me as much.... I think someone who can't get adjusted to your time schedule and needs your attention constantly is too much work without rewards. Unless there are rewards and they are really nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
millie19 Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 High maintenance girl you got there! You say guys are cool not calling their girls for a few days, whereas girls need a bit of regular loving.It seems someone who's really interested and misses his girl enough will eventually get round to calling, if the girl just waits a bit. Guys do the phoning in dating. To see if this was true, I tried the tactic of waiting for his call, but he never phoned... Before you call me a sad case, I stood the test of time, and waited, and waited... in the end, I called, and I think he was actually relieved, and wanted me to call more often, because he had no phone credit and show my interest. Which goes to show, some guys are lazy bastards, and you have to just use your own good judgement sometimes. Now I just think, wait for a man to call you, and if the call never comes, time to check out other fish in the sea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Millie, you gonna post anymore pics? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
millie19 Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Still waiting for yours, nmn... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by millie19 Still waiting for yours, nmn... I've posted a bunch of mine already...just seach through some of the picture threads on all of the forums and you'll find them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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