a12345 Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 How do you know if a guy has fallen in love w/ a girl ? Don't guys usually wait for the girl to say " I LUV U " first ?Don't they totally deny it in front of their male friends ? Here's a weird one ....My fuck buddy got a nre girlfriend becasue I havn't seen him in a long time. When I asked him "Why he didn't tell me he had a girlfriend" ..He screamed " HOW LONG HAS IT BEEN SINCE WE SAW EACH OTHER !!??"1. Is he saying he got a new girl becasue I wasn't around ? ANd he needed someone to soothe the misery ?2. Or is he saying-it's been a longtime move on !! WHat does not seeing me have to do w/ him getting new girls ? THen -when a guy loves a girl ..he does everything for her ...right ? Well this one said - "I got a gf , what do you want me to do ?"U think if I told him to drop that zero and get w/ me....he'd have done it ? WELL ..anyways ..TELL ME HOW U GUYS KNOW WHEN U R IN LOVE ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cazz926 Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Don't ever try to figure out a man.They blow hot and cold.They don't even know WTF is going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Originally posted by cazz926:Don't ever try to figure out a man.They blow hot and cold.They don't even know WTF is going on.*yawn* and females do?-------------------BRING BACK FRANK ALVEE-"And thus they give the time, that Nature meantFor peaceful sleep and meditative snores,To ceaseless din and mindless merrimentAnd waste of shoes and floors." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 How do you know if a guy has fallen in love w/ a girl ?Depending on the guy, yu wont initially. SOme guys will be vocal about it and do anything to keep you. Some wont want to say anything to you or freinds until he knows it is mutual.Don't guys usually wait for the girl to say " I LUV U " first ?No not all guys.Don't they totally deny it in front of their male friends ?Only when they are young, when they get older there freinds are usually the first to know.1. Is he saying he got a new girl becasue I wasn't around ? ANd he needed someone to soothe the misery ?It sound to me like he wants to be with you.2. Or is he saying-it's been a longtime move on !!No because he said you wern't arround, aplying that he wouldn't if you were.WHat does not seeing me have to do w/ him getting new girls ?Exactly.THen -when a guy loves a girl ..he does everything for her ...right ? Well this one said - "I got a gf , what do you want me to do ?"U think if I told him to drop that zero and get w/ me....he'd have done it ?------------------I want to go out blazing not fade away.I can resist anything but temptation. [This message has been edited by back2basics (edited 10-26-2000).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Originally posted by cazz926:Don't ever try to figure out a man.They blow hot and cold.They don't even know WTF is going on.AGREED!!!! ------------------=) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missincognito Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 well from the sound of it....you definitely care.... A LOT - otherwise you wouldn't be pondering so much about it.Hey, if you snooze you loose. Either let him know how and what you're feeling (because some guys just don't get it until you practically knock them upside the head)or move-on.Hope everything works out for you!!------------------*~**~*~**~ I'm an angel... my halo is only crooked sometimes ~**~*~**~* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Originally posted by PFloyd40: *yawn* and females do?Exactly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Originally posted by PFloyd40: *yawn* and females do?I DO!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Originally posted by back2basics: ExactlyYes, we, do...exactly ------------------=) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 well well well rob, i saw your name and figured you were going to write all sorts of nice things about how much you love me but i was wrong, lol - females DO know wtf is goin on, you know that. and we're always right too. luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."**NEW EMAIL!!** brandie@powerpuff.com AIM: loves2coxi love Rob *always&forever* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 He is playing games with you. Sounds like he doesn't know his own mind, is a bit of an emotional wreck, and probably has terrible relationship skills. Give yourselves both some time to think things through. Playing it cool with a guy in a situation like this is the best thing. Then, after about two or three weeks, call him up, be very positive and upbeat, and ask him out. And don't be disappointed if he says no, you'll find plenty of other men to date and have sex with in this city of ours!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 No then girls, dont you be picking on rob I think what he was saying is that some girls have the 'intuition' some dont. Some guys know the score, some dont.. now now lets not generalize Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imaqtxoxo Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Like they say...."Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." Will love ever be easy???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imaqtxoxo Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Like they say...."Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." Will love ever be easy???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Originally posted by brandie:well well well rob, i saw your name and figured you were going to write all sorts of nice things about how much you love me but i was wrong, lol - females DO know wtf is goin on, you know that. and we're always right too. luv,brandieWELL SAID! Especially about the always right part Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 About the actual post.. I have a 6th sense for these things. Don't know HOW but I always KNOW when someone really likes me or LOVES me. I FEEL it.. I can read men well. If you can't tell by his behavior whether he wants/loves/etc you, just ASK.. Get shit straightened out instead of putting yourself/him through this whole "i wonder why he's doing this or that" thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 ok your right, women do know wtf is going on...as much as men doand as someone else here already said(i think it was steve) you guys are always right...at least we let you think that (i love you sweetie )-Rob -------------------BRING BACK FRANK ALVEE-"And thus they give the time, that Nature meantFor peaceful sleep and meditative snores,To ceaseless din and mindless merrimentAnd waste of shoes and floors." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a12345 Posted October 27 Author Report Share Posted October 27 THanx alot Back2Basics and everyone ! I suffered long enough becasue I couldn't talk about it w/ anyone ! I did tell my fuck buddy once " I LUV U"..then he starts shakin his head sayin "WE R FRIENDS 4 LIFE" -whatever the fuck that means. The reason why I stopped coming around to see him is becasue I had too much feelings for him and all he wanted was a "good time". When he told me he got new girl becasue I wasn't around to see him, he also gave me the " I don't like u that way + "U R too young ..line". Like he's just trying to brush me off. Maybe he doesn't like me that way ...but he sure is FUCKIN WEIRD. He tells me " U will find the right guy for you because you're sooo beautiful + sexy ! Then he jumps into bed w/ me and tells me he misses me ...then he throws me out of his apt.. WTF ??? ANd he gets all happy after he sees me. MIXED SIGNALS OR WHAT ??????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Originally posted by PFloyd40:ok your right, women do know wtf is going on...as much as men doand as someone else here already said(i think it was steve) you guys are always right...at least we let you think that (i love you sweetie )-Rob Dont back down, stand your own Rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Sounds like Multiple Personality Disorder to me Sorry to hear that he's confusing you like that a12345...you'll find someone more consistent soon ------------------=) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 rob NEVER stands up to me, he knows better. LOL. j/k. luv,brandiei love you too, rob. ------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."**NEW EMAIL!!** brandie@powerpuff.com AIM: loves2coxi love Rob *always&forever* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dzadza Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Some people show their emotions, some don't. Whether it is intentional or unintentional doesn't matter. I don't believe in a sixth sense, it's more closely observing one's behavior. And unless I show something, no one can tell wtf is going on. a12345 - I'd say that mixed, weired behavior = feelings.------------------Don't forget to fly... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a12345 Posted October 27 Author Report Share Posted October 27 He SAYS - " he don't love me but He ACTS like he does ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aljedynak Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 It sounds like your are HIS fuck buddy. He likes you and likes to have sex with you but you are not "the one" for him. That doesn't mean that you are not smart,attractive,or sexy just that he's a young,confused,horny boy. If you have more feelings for him than he has for you- it's time to move on before you get really hurt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Originally posted by back2basics: Dont back down, stand your own Rob who's backin down?i've just begun to fight but looks like i'm getting double and tripled teamed here man, QUIT DAWDLING AND JUMP IN-Rob-------------------BRING BACK FRANK ALVEE-"And thus they give the time, that Nature meantFor peaceful sleep and meditative snores,To ceaseless din and mindless merrimentAnd waste of shoes and floors." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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