blueyez Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 last night i found out that a friend of mine from grammer/high school was in a fatal car accident in nutley around 5am on friday night..... the other 2 people in the car died and he is currently in a coma in at university hospital... the wakes and funeral's of his friends that passed will be held tonight, tomorrow, and tuesday. i honestly do not know what i would do with myself i awoke from a coma (and thats IF he wakes up) to find out that 2 of my best friends were dead. already in the fuckin ground. i dunno...its been a reality check that has had me in a total shock the past 2 days... anyways, keep him in ur prayers please.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LatinaZee Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Im So Sorry To Read ThatMy Prayers Are With You And The Family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueyez Posted October 4 Author Report Share Posted October 4 Im So Sorry To Read ThatMy Prayers Are With You And The Familyi dont need the prayers as much as he and his family do right now.... but thank u very much... life's so crazy, isnt it?!? makes me sick...check ur PM's hun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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luztidara Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 We will keep him in our prayers what is his first name? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueyez Posted October 4 Author Report Share Posted October 4 thank u... my friend's name is Barry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 ...that is horrible...how old? a lot of my fam is from nutley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ariesgirly Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 So that's what all those sirens were! God, how awful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erica127 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 I believe they were 22 or 23 because my girlfriend's b/f went to high school wit them as well & we found out sat night... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badassmafuka Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 God thats aweful, sorry to hear about this.... I live in Nutley where did this happen in Nutley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erica127 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 http://www.nj.com/search/index.ssf?/base/news-0/109688108999130.xml?jjournal?nkethere's a link to the accident that happened Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ceepee Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Sorry to hear about that...any life lossed is not good....I live right down the street from that yellow light ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatgirl915 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 u have no idea.. i grew up with the girl Valerie that died, she has been a good friend since I was like 6, played togetehr every day after school... she has 2 kids... shes a good mom 2., good girl.. i was jsut with her monday for monday night football i think i am still in denial over this.. liek u dont understand.. I WAS JSUT WITH HERRR.. i was gona give her a job at my store Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erica127 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 i am so sorry hun. It is very hard to lose a friend of yours especially when, like you said, were just with them. it happened to me 2 years ago & it is still shocking. i will definitely keep you in my prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueyez Posted October 4 Author Report Share Posted October 4 u have no idea.. i grew up with the girl Valerie that died, she has been a good friend since I was like 6, played togetehr every day after school... she has 2 kids... shes a good mom 2., good girl.. i was jsut with her monday for monday night football i think i am still in denial over this.. liek u dont understand.. I WAS JSUT WITH HERRR.. i was gona give her a job at my storei feel u mama... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someclown Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 My prayers go out to the families. Especially her kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realityyy Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 That SucksDon't Know How The Accident Happened. But,there Are A Lot Of Assholes On The RoadAnd A Blatant Disregard For Safety Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoPa99 Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 Is one of those people from North Arlington? If not I know of another fatal car accident that happened in our area..My prayers are also with them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoPa99 Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 Damn I just actually read the whole thread...It was Valerie I also found out from a friend on Friday Night...That was horrible news..I really feel so bad for the kids..She really love them a lot...She was my good friends next door neighbor and we would always see her and her family outside watching the kids play...So sad to see someone like her go...Much Respect to anyone else that had the pleasure of knowing Valerie, and also her family and kids..I know she'll be lookling out for all of us... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondiegirl Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 I am sorry to hear about this...My prayers are with anyone who was close to them and their families...I just lost a very close friend and coworker in July and she is constantly on my mind.... It is not an easy thing to go through. It takes time... The best thing to do is think about the good times you had, and it will help... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatgirl915 Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 Does anyone know where and when the wake is??? I feel like I want to go to her house with a bunch of people and candles and stuff and put them on her lawn or something is that corny??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ceepee Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 Call Ippolittos (sp) funeral home in Lyndhurst....I know it was yesterday. And I would go to the house ....give condolences to family ...your idea is not corny but you never know if thats what they want??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatgirl915 Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 So the wake was yesterday?? there should be one today then too right ??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueyez Posted October 5 Author Report Share Posted October 5 depends... sometimes they only have one night cause its too painful for 2 or some other reasons... which means the funeral would have been today if thats the case.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ceepee Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 So the wake was yesterday?? there should be one today then too right ???Thats why I say call...I read the obituary in the paper and I think it stated being yesterday ???forgot what it exactly said...sorry ! Hope ya feel better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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