guest00901 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 So..after a few months my girl and I decide to call it quitsbecause I am moving and she can't deal with not living 5 minutes away from me (( fuckin idiot ))ANYWAY! So I met a girl a few weeks ago that my friend introduced me to and we are going out tonight....we have been talking every day on the phone and she seems so freaking coolBut last night she makes a comment that she's my "Rebound" and she know's nothing will most likely come out of this because she is.For some reason I don't look at anyone as a "rebound" but why do people think like that? I told her that my X and I are whatever and she's immature and I def wouldn't get back with her...but I'm really liking what this chick is all about.How do I get her to not think she's a rebound? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 So what does this mean for your site? Does it stay up?and to the question at hand. You can't. She is definitely going to think that, because it is... whether you want to believe it or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 So..after a few months my girl and I decide to call it quitsbecause I am moving and she can't deal with not living 5 minutes away from me (( fuckin idiot ))ANYWAY! So I met a girl a few weeks ago that my friend introduced me to and we are going out tonight....we have been talking every day on the phone and she seems so freaking coolBut last night she makes a comment that she's my "Rebound" and she know's nothing will most likely come out of this because she is.For some reason I don't look at anyone as a "rebound" but why do people think like that? I told her that my X and I are whatever and she's immature and I def wouldn't get back with her...but I'm really liking what this chick is all about.How do I get her to not think she's a rebound?Ill be ur rebound Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 :laugh: :laugh: @ this thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 hmmmmm good question..did you ask her what she thought of diapers and pop tarts?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyscottsdale Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 So..after a few months my girl and I decide to call it quitsbecause I am moving and she can't deal with not living 5 minutes away from me (( fuckin idiot ))ANYWAY! So I met a girl a few weeks ago that my friend introduced me to and we are going out tonight....we have been talking every day on the phone and she seems so freaking coolBut last night she makes a comment that she's my "Rebound" and she know's nothing will most likely come out of this because she is.For some reason I don't look at anyone as a "rebound" but why do people think like that? I told her that my X and I are whatever and she's immature and I def wouldn't get back with her...but I'm really liking what this chick is all about.How do I get her to not think she's a rebound?Ahhh, she is scared you are going to use her for sex and then dump her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gager Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Time is the only thing that will convince her, and don't dump her after you have sex and she may be more convinced you really like her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 :laugh: :laugh: @ this threadx 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrmatas2277 Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 did you ask her what she thought of diapers and pop tarts?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 yo so now that ur not takin the site down..can i have a password??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 WOW..you need to grow up once and for all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 yo so now that ur not takin the site down..can i have a password???Yeah but she was gonna take it down anyway by the end of the year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 So What Are You Like A Full Blown Lesbo These Days? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticRain Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 The best way to go about a "rebound" situation is to never let the other person know you just got out of a relationship. Just play it like you were never in one and make an excuse as to why not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest brwneydtrouble Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 Didn't you have a boyfriend like three months ago?? Im confused......doesn't seem like many of your relationships last very long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majinbuu Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Didn't you have a boyfriend like three months ago?? Im confused......doesn't seem like many of your relationships last very long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 The best way to go about a "rebound" situation is to never let the other person know you just got out of a relationship. Just play it like you were never in one and make an excuse as to why not.hey hey hey what the hell r u doing and posting ON TOPIC!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djrx06 Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 So..after a few months my girl and I decide to call it quitsbecause I am moving and she can't deal with not living 5 minutes away from me (( fuckin idiot ))ANYWAY! So I met a girl a few weeks ago that my friend introduced me to and we are going out tonight....we have been talking every day on the phone and she seems so freaking coolBut last night she makes a comment that she's my "Rebound" and she know's nothing will most likely come out of this because she is.For some reason I don't look at anyone as a "rebound" but why do people think like that? I told her that my X and I are whatever and she's immature and I def wouldn't get back with her...but I'm really liking what this chick is all about.How do I get her to not think she's a rebound?I believe that you should explain to her that people all go through experiences on there own. Maybe she has experienced that it takes a long time to heal and get over past relationships/flings. It all depends on the depth of feelings and at what point you were in the relationship. Were you ready to end it? How did it end? These are all details that only you know. I think you need to convey to her that you each have had your own experiences and that feelings and being genuine come when they do, there is no time table set on those types of things. And that you hope she can understand that you go with what your mind and heart tell you when they tell you. If she doesn't think so, then all you need to do is be yourself and through your actions you will prove that her statement is wrong. Hope this helps... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 somebody already said it.......... time Candy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 hang in there dee! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 So..after a few months my girl and I decide to call it quitsbecause I am moving and she can't deal with not living 5 minutes away from me (( fuckin idiot ))ANYWAY! So I met a girl a few weeks ago that my friend introduced me to and we are going out tonight....we have been talking every day on the phone and she seems so freaking coolBut last night she makes a comment that she's my "Rebound" and she know's nothing will most likely come out of this because she is.For some reason I don't look at anyone as a "rebound" but why do people think like that? I told her that my X and I are whatever and she's immature and I def wouldn't get back with her...but I'm really liking what this chick is all about.How do I get her to not think she's a rebound?girl u know i love u --- but im curious cuz knowing what i know about u and knowing that u move through relationships fairly quickly, i think most of ur relationships start off as rebounds because u dont seem to ever give urself time between them to get over the relationship u just got out of... every time i hear about a new relationship of urs its right after one that just ended and u seem to fall so deeply into every relationship ur in. if u always insist that u feel so strongly about every person ur with, every relationship after that will be a rebound b/c how is it possible to feel as strongly about the new person as u did about the person u just broke up with? although thats what seems to happen in ur case.... idk if any of this is making sense but my advice to u is-- take a break! u definitely like being in relationships but ur always gonna run into this problem if u dont give urself more time to regroup and fully rid urself of the previous relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 yeah lynne is right.....soooo..hows about that free pass to ur website? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 love em & leave em!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 love em & leave em!!!!!!!!!!! is not that easy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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