ladyshady Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 How long do most of you feel it takes to move on and get over someone after a serious break up? Weeks, months, years?Is it a good thing if you move on quickly? How long do you wait to start seeing someone else, either on a playful, or semi-serious level, is it a good thing?ehh...comments? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 it all depends....i was with my x for almost 3 yrs.....after we broke up it took me a LONG time and ALOT of dates to find the right one that i want to have a relationship with.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 depends, who broke up w who and how was the relationship in the first place, and how long, some people dont and some people say tat it takes half as long as the time u were together for, but who knows its all about how strong u are and other things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fjoker30 Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 Well that depends on wether or not you met me. If you meet me then its instant....if not....it could go on and on and on and on................... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 some ppl say it takes half as long or twice as long, dunno. I dont think anyone can ever forget em all the way, just move on, eventually things will settle and be back in the swing o things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 impossible to say....if you were completely in love with the person it might take a very long time to get over them and even when you finally do, that's not to say that you won't still have feelings for them or not think about them anymore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 you never really get over someone that you loved, the way you love them may have changed, but the feelings are still there. its hard to let go of the expectations, dreams, and plans you might have had together. i sometimes wonder how i got over some of my relationships after being so down when the relationship ended, but time heals all wounds. in answer to your question nic, only you know when your ready to let someone into your life again, there is no time frame. rushing out and dating someone after a long term breakup isnt wrong, its just that person's way of dealing with loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 well said you never really get over someone that you loved, the way you love them may have changed, but the feelings are still there. its hard to let go of the expectations, dreams, and plans you might have had together. i sometimes wonder how i got over some of my relationships after being so down when the relationship ended, but time heals all wounds. in answer to your question nic, only you know when your ready to let someone into your life again, there is no time frame. rushing out and dating someone after a long term breakup isnt wrong, its just that person's way of dealing with loss. bullseye 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted November 3 Author Report Share Posted November 3 you never really get over someone that you loved, the way you love them may have changed, but the feelings are still there. its hard to let go of the expectations, dreams, and plans you might have had together. i sometimes wonder how i got over some of my relationships after being so down when the relationship ended, but time heals all wounds. that was a smack in the face... but you're right..always have good words Lee, thanks oopss....edit --i meant lee.......i guess i love barstar though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 as hard as it sounds , things happen for a reason, maybe u will get back together , if not , u are a very attractive beautiful woman u can find another guy, who knows maybe he will make you happier ... hes out there somewhere it will happen in due time, when u least expect it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitty0108 Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 totally agree with u as hard as it sounds , things happen for a reason, maybe u will get back together , if not , u are a very attractive beautiful woman u can find another guy, who knows maybe he will make you happier ... hes out there somewhere it will happen in due time, when u least expect it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 but you're right..always have good words marko, thanks wtf? Bullseye's name is Marko? I thought dgmodel/barstar's name was Marko as a mutha fucker Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 wtf? Bullseye's name is Marko? I thought dgmodel/barstar's name was Marko as a mutha fuckershe can call me watever she wants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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cookie6 Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 I think it really depends. The longest it ever took me to get over someone was almost 2 years. I still talk to him almost every day and I see him maybe once a month but we didn’t talk for almost a year and he moved to Miami. If he wasn’t so far away I don’t think I would have gotten over him. He moved back last year which made things quite tempting.I think that many times you need to get with someone else to take your mind off of your ex. Sometimes this turns into a rebound or whatever.I also think that it depends on what your feelings were for this person. Was it love or lust, sexual or emotional, or all of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 simmer down Marko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 wait wait wait...... ok now smack it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 How long do most of you feel it takes to move on and get over someone after a serious break up? Weeks, months, years?Is it a good thing if you move on quickly? How long do you wait to start seeing someone else, either on a playful, or semi-serious level, is it a good thing?ehh...comments?There is a lot that comes into play when dealing with a break up..I dont think who broke up with who has anything to do with it..You can love someone but get to a point where you realized thatits not going to work and that you are in it to loose. Only time as well as your heart will tell.. I was in a long relationship and it took me even longer to get out but when I finally realized what was at stake.I bid my goodbye and stopped looking back -- and now Im happier then before... Good luck if the question you asked deals with you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 I was in a long relationship and it took me even longer to get out but when I finally realized what was at stake.same here ....it took me a year to get out of the relationship...but it was definetely for the best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 wait wait wait...... ok now smack it... simmer down Markoeat lead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 that is a question no one can answer. so dont ay attention to anyone who answered you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted November 3 Author Report Share Posted November 3 that is a question no one can answer. so dont ay attention to anyone who answered you.lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nutcase34 Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 I'm not sure how you are....but I'm a pretty sensitive person and my feelings can get hurt very easily. But I just surround myself with my closest friends and snap out of things pretty quickly. Takes a few weeks but its different for everyone. feelings are always there. Little things you hear or see about the person will definitely get to you. The most important thing is to just be there for yourself. Bullseye is right....time definitely heals all wounds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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