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notallthere444

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Ive never been raped so I wouldnt know first hand. But logically speaking I think that if youre being forced to have sex with someone you dont want to have sex with, its not going to feel pleasurable....

I have though had sex with someone I didnt necessarily want to because I knew it wouldve happened against my will eventually....And it did NOT feel good at all, because the whole time, I was thinking in my head, oh I do not want to be having sex with this person at all...but anyhow...

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Ive never been raped so I wouldnt know first hand. But logically speaking I think that if youre being forced to have sex with someone you dont want to have sex with, its not going to feel pleasurable....

I have though had sex with someone I didnt necessarily want to because I knew it wouldve happened against my will eventually....And it did NOT feel good at all, because the whole time, I was thinking in my head, oh I do not want to be having sex with this person at all...but anyhow...

That answers my question, Thank you for not taking offense to this. In no way is that right. It was just something I was curios about

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WTF? Why do you think that being raped would have any pleasure in it? It's against your will. What a dumb ass question.

It's actually not that dumb of a question....think about it, what if a big black man starts raping some girl and maybe for a second she thinks to herself "wow, I've never had anyone this large in me before...ummmm"

Hey notallthere, do you think it has ever happened before that while some girl was getting raped all of a sudden it started feeling good and she decided that instead of fighting it just really get into it and enjoy it? Do you think that would freak the raper out?

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It's actually not that dumb of a question....think about it, what if a big black man starts raping some girl and maybe for a second she thinks to herself "wow, I've never had anyone this large in me before...ummmm"

Hey notallthere, do you think it has ever happened before that while some girl was getting raped all of a sudden it started feeling good and she decided that instead of fighting it just really get into it and enjoy it? Do you think that would freak the raper out?

this was my point. I mean girls use a vibrator to get off and there is no emtional attacment to that so this lead me to this conclusion.

Im not going to give details but i was raped and it felt good but i pushed her off me.

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Odd thing is, I've known women who have indeed gone through that horrible trauma, then for some reason or other, developed rape fantasy fetishes that they then try to act out on their partners.

I can understand this comes from psychological issues, but it just doesn't make sense to me. One girl I was with, who wanted it particularily rough (this was recent while on vacation) then told me she had been raped when I marvelled at how close to the degrading gonzo porn the encounter had been. Like really degrading gagging and shit like that. It made me uneasy to the point where I didn't want to hit it again.

I don't dig on that stuff though, the degredation. There's too much intimacy that's lost in that scenario.

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It is true that some women have rape fantasies, but it is just that, a fantasy to them that they can enact with their partner in the safe confines of a consentual relationship.

I think it sometimes works the opposite way. Sometimes a chick might begin to engage in consentual sex, then in the process it becomes abusive and degarding and when it's all over they might feel as though they were raped, or accuse the guy of raping them because it got too rough. IMO, that is exactly what happened to Mike Tyson and Kobe Bryant.

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