cutipatuti Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Guys,first of all hi im new but i luv these boards and finally decided to join! anyways i have a question im a girl and im young and outgoing well how do u guys feel about a girl making the first move...as in theres this guy i like~~> what if i just went up to him and kissed him seductively ( i know he likes me but i dont think hes sure how i feel)what do u guys think ?? any suggestions?? please! thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tropix11 Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 First off, where are you planning to do this "seductive kiss"? That would make the difference. Example: class in school vs. the club. Ya know? Also, you should comment in my post about advice in kissing. Personally, I would like it if a girl went up to me and kissed me, because then I wouldn't have to make the first move. That can be nerve wracking. Peace out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umassclubberny Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Being the nympho that I am, I've made the first move quite a few times. Just the other day, I went up to a bunch of guys at my dinning hall and invited them to join us for lunch. They did and that was a complete ice-breaker. Some guys are just SSSOOO shy that they will never go up to girls and make a move. The guys I invited turned out to be the coolest poeple i've met so far in college. No way in hell would they have come up to me and my friends. I know because they told me. So by me, a girl, making the first move, those guys felt more relaxed and all is well from there. We've been chillin for a few days. Guys ssssooo respect girls for stuff like that. Hey they do it all the time so if a girl has enough balls to do that she deserves their respect! I guess it all depends on how well you know the guy. If its strangers, as in my case, you ask them to join you for lunch and see how that goes. If its someone you like and KNOW, and you KNOW they like you, then sure, ask them out. Do it casually (ie "hey there is this great movie coming out, wanna go see it?"). If you've been out with them and they simply are too shy to make a move, then just GO FOR IT! Smack a big one on their lips. If that goes well, introduce your tongue to theirs (the rest you can use your imagination!) But the case can also be that they are not interested so you have to be careful. But we live in a new millenium so there is no reason for any girl to feel apprehensive about making a move on a guy!------------------AnnaBanana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowball Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Originally posted by umassclubberny:Being the nympho that I am, I've made the first move quite a few times. Just the other day, I went up to a bunch of guys at my dinning hall and invited them to join us for lunch. They did and that was a complete ice-breaker. Some guys are just SSSOOO shy that they will never go up to girls and make a move. The guys I invited turned out to be the coolest poeple i've met so far in college. No way in hell would they have come up to me and my friends. I know because they told me. So by me, a girl, making the first move, those guys felt more relaxed and all is well from there. We've been chillin for a few days. Guys ssssooo respect girls for stuff like that. Hey they do it all the time so if a girl has enough balls to do that she deserves their respect! I guess it all depends on how well you know the guy. If its strangers, as in my case, you ask them to join you for lunch and see how that goes. If its someone you like and KNOW, and you KNOW they like you, then sure, ask them out. Do it casually (ie "hey there is this great movie coming out, wanna go see it?"). If you've been out with them and they simply are too shy to make a move, then just GO FOR IT! Smack a big one on their lips. If that goes well, introduce your tongue to theirs (the rest you can use your imagination!) But the case can also be that they are not interested so you have to be careful. But we live in a new millenium so there is no reason for any girl to feel apprehensive about making a move on a guy! your still the man lol.. i love how you explain your self .. and additude hehe------------------ New CLub in Staten islnad ... (ELEMENTS) call for info ... or e-mail me at martin_izzo@netzero.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mp3some Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Originally posted by cutipatuti:Guys,first of all hi im new but i luv these boards and finally decided to join! anyways i have a question im a girl and im young and outgoing well how do u guys feel about a girl making the first move...as in theres this guy i like~~> what if i just went up to him and kissed him seductively ( i know he likes me but i dont think hes sure how i feel)what do u guys think ?? any suggestions?? please! thanks!I don't think the majority of the guys out there would mind, but one word of advice is, make sure their girlfriend is not around!! hahaha that would put him into real deep shit! LOL! Now I have a question for you... What if a guy that you know that likes you comes up to you and just goes for that kiss?!? If u dont really like the guy, what do u do? What are some of your possible reactions?! now there's material for a thread... hehehe------------------Peace, Love & Twilo for Everyone!!! "That's the last time I ever do crystal meth, speed, heroin, pot, 12 cookies' worth of acid, ether, ecstacy, and cocaine in a four- hour period.Or was that just Tranceport?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umassclubberny Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Originally posted by mp3some: What if a guy that you know that likes you comes up to you and just goes for that kiss?!? If u dont really like the guy, what do u do? What are some of your possible reactions?! now there's material for a thread... heheheAhhhh... you would get the shit beat out of you by the guys that I am with! Consider yourself warned ------------------AnnaBanana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the-id Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 just kiss him------------------No bullshit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gravity Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Originally posted by glowball: Originally posted by umassclubberny:Being the nympho that I am, I've made the first move quite a few times. Just the other day, I went up to a bunch of guys at my dinning hall and invited them to join us for lunch. They did and that was a complete ice-breaker. Some guys are just SSSOOO shy that they will never go up to girls and make a move. The guys I invited turned out to be the coolest poeple i've met so far in college. No way in hell would they have come up to me and my friends. I know because they told me. So by me, a girl, making the first move, those guys felt more relaxed and all is well from there. We've been chillin for a few days. Guys ssssooo respect girls for stuff like that. Hey they do it all the time so if a girl has enough balls to do that she deserves their respect! I guess it all depends on how well you know the guy. If its strangers, as in my case, you ask them to join you for lunch and see how that goes. If its someone you like and KNOW, and you KNOW they like you, then sure, ask them out. Do it casually (ie "hey there is this great movie coming out, wanna go see it?"). If you've been out with them and they simply are too shy to make a move, then just GO FOR IT! Smack a big one on their lips. If that goes well, introduce your tongue to theirs (the rest you can use your imagination!) But the case can also be that they are not interested so you have to be careful. But we live in a new millenium so there is no reason for any girl to feel apprehensive about making a move on a guy! your still the man lol.. i love how you explain your self .. and additude heheGlowball...every thread I read that you post on proves my poiny that you REALLY ARE A FUCKING IDIOT...you just called umassclubberny "the man"...SHE is a FEMALE...you fucking brainless shmuck.------------------"The world is a better place because of those who refuse to believe they can't fly." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
latinoloco Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 As long as you look good and bangin; just go up to the guy and touch him..; most guy have just one thing in mind when a girl those make the first move..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Overall i'm not shy at all. but i have to say making the first move, i'm very shy.. anyone have any pointers on getting over this for me??? hehheheheh XOXOXO MWAAAAAH------------------~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipzicq:101504929/>http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puck Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 here is my persepective: since i am a little shy at times i dont give a shit if a girl comes up to me and kisses me, i would be quite flattered, as of matter of fact....anyway for all guys and girls heres some advice of ive learn: sometimes you just gotta say what fuck, fuck it, and just go for it. Skateboarding is an art of the underground Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mp3some Posted December 21 Report Share Posted December 21 Originally posted by umassclubberny: Ahhhh... you would get the shit beat out of you by the guys that I am with! Consider yourself warned That's exactly what I thought... Even though the question was for cutipat...but waht if U enjoy the kiss?!?! what if after he kisses u, u realize u kinda like the guy..??!!?!hehe Keep on postin!------------------Peace, Love & Twilo for Everyone!!! "That's the last time I ever do crystal meth, speed, heroin, pot, 12 cookies' worth of acid, ether, ecstacy, and cocaine in a four- hour period.Or was that just Tranceport?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a691vcc Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 I hate bitches who like to see fightz betweenguyz, how do u get off on that.I like independant chix who can handle their own shit. Ur from brooklyn and u go to umass. amherst? I went their like a month and half ago to visit a friend. A brooklyn accent mixing with that "I'm going to da bah" accent.I'd like to see some of that interaction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a691vcc Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 I hate when bitches say shit like "the guyz i run wit would". be independant!u go to amherst? I visited my friend up there. I would love to see u trying to talk to people with a brooklyn accent up there, in combination with their funny accents. that would be priceless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 Ladies makin' the first move? Now there's something I've never seen..------------------AIM: Spragga25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeydollaz Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 i wish girls would make the first move ... i hate having to walk up to a girl ... a lot of the time i wont even do it and when i see her leave i'm so pissed i dindt say something ... actually i'm going to post a topic for the girls about this ... ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eviljav666 Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 if i girl approached me it would be the best thing...iam SHY..yeah right!!! most of you are saying.. but iam for real..iam cool as hell once i know you..but if dont know you iam too my self.. SATAN IS COMING FOR US Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umassclubberny Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 Originally posted by a691vcc:I hate bitches who like to see fightz betweenguyz, how do u get off on that.I like independant chix who can handle their own shit. Ur from brooklyn and u go to umass. amherst? I went their like a month and half ago to visit a friend. A brooklyn accent mixing with that "I'm going to da bah" accent.I'd like to see some of that interaction.My brooklyn accent kicks in and out of conversations. In the beginning, I just introduced myself "Hey I'm Anna, from Brooklyn NY" and all I got were dirty looks. So if people ask whether or not i'm from "manhattan" I say no, Brooklyn. Then I get pissed because i have to EXPLAIN that NYC is 5 boroughs.. which is when my NY accent REALLY kicks in. Then the little Mass kids just get scared and run away. It gets quite interesting... then you have to explain that you don't say "manhattan" or "the city that never sleeps" or my favorite most cheesy thing "the big apple" and that you simply say "the city". Some people are so damn corny. Back to the independent chick thing though, I would deffinitly qualify. And I hate it when guys fight over girls. I hate girls who get off on that. Not all girls are like that though. If a guy ever started something with another guy over me, I would walk away from both of them. We aren't in high school anymore You comming up to UMass next semester? Which dorm did you stay at?------------------AnnaBanana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sobeton Posted December 28 Report Share Posted December 28 Cutipatuti > I am flattered when girls come up to me. In fact, a few girls have come up to me, and kissed me. It’s a great icebreaker. Even if things don’t work out; perhaps you meet a cool person you can become friends with. I am shy by nature; so I love women who make the first move. Most of the girls I have dated; approached me first…Peace,Sobeton Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sobeton Posted December 28 Report Share Posted December 28 Cutipatuti > I am flattered when girls come up to me. In fact, a few girls have come up to me, and kissed me. It’s a great icebreaker. Even if things don’t work out; perhaps you meet a cool person you can become friends with. I am shy by nature; so I love women who make the first move. Most of the girls I have dated; approached me first…Peace,Sobeton Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toastednut Posted December 28 Report Share Posted December 28 while i do condone girls making the first move, it's just as easy to scare a would-be-prey away! take it from me, i think this year has got to top it off for overambition.a word to the ladies: if you have to try too hard, he ain't worth it! make HIM sing for his supper, too.------------------ http://liz.isfamous.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted January 3 Report Share Posted January 3 where are you going to do this? maybe you should ask him out first? don't spoil the fun & mystery by being too forthright, some men like a woman to be subtle & enjoy the chase. what do you think he likes? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted January 4 Report Share Posted January 4 if a girl made the first move on me id have a lot more respect for her, cuz it would take the load off of me ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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