peache5030 Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 WHOA...being with other girls seems to be the topic of the morning here...BUT my question is what are your feelings on having a threesome with your boyfriend/girlfriend and a complete stranger as the third??? Do you think it will change the relationship somehow afterwards?? ------------------ I am not afraid of tomorrow. I have seen yesterday and I love today.I dont cry because it ENDED--> I smile because we HAPPENED.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 depends on how solid the relationship is. if youre both trusting and in love then i dont see how that would change things. but if theres an ounce of insecurity, then this will just make everything explode.as for having a stranger...yeah that would be best considering youll never probably see this person again and you wont have to face them ever again...but of course the obvious risks of std's and them being a psycho..etc...are always there.funny coincidence u brought this up...i was at a bar last night and this couple starts talking to me...they were about 40, the guy was chubby, but his wife was smokin!!!! turns out they were swingers!!!! had a really long conversation with them about the lifestyle and though there are points that dont interest me, they seem to have a VERY solid marriage. hey, whatever floats your boat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 I am not sure that I am capable of allowing someone else into my bed with my lover. I can be a very selfish person and I hate to share....------------------Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 i don't know if i'd consider a stranger for the 3rd..maybe an acquaintance of mine/his/hers..yeah, it could make the relationship worse (want to have 3somes more often) or better (more sexually open) .------------------ he said : i'd really like to get into your pants! she said : no thanks. there's already one asshole in there! 'nuff said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emiliep Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 whelp, i honestly think threesomes with a boyfriend or girlfriend are NOT a good idea. why jeopardize a relationship with unnecessary jealousy and insecurity? no matter how strong your relationship is, you don't really know what's gonna happen. i don't think it can go as smoothly as with people who are just friends or acquaintances. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 I wont have a 3rd person in my bed if i Love my partener no way !!! if it was only a sex relation i will maybe think about it ------------------ Making Love And Having Sex The Biggest Pleasures in This Life. ScaredGirL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 the stranger the better------------------DJmikeDR@aol.com aim: DJmikeDR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lareyna333 Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 i am down with threesomes......as long as1. I know the girl, and she is only into girls2. My boyfriend can watch me and the girl but he is not allowed to touch her and he can only have sex with me.....so I guess it's not really a threesome, but at least he gets to watch!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peache5030 Posted June 13 Author Report Share Posted June 13 Originally posted by lareyna333:i am down with threesomes......as long as1. I know the girl, and she is only into girls2. My boyfriend can watch me and the girl but he is not allowed to touch her and he can only have sex with me.....so I guess it's not really a threesome, but at least he gets to watch!! This was kind of my thoughts on this..I dont think I would mind having a threesome with another girl and my boyfriend as long as he didnt get to actually penetrate her...doesnt really make sense but I think I could handle all of us orally pleasing each other but when it comes to that..it would have to be ME and only ME....------------------ I am not afraid of tomorrow. I have seen yesterday and I love today.I dont cry because it ENDED--> I smile because we HAPPENED.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted June 13 Report Share Posted June 13 a stranger i agree with, someone either he or i knows i dont think so IMO------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxalixox Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by scaredgirl:I wont have a 3rd person in my bed if i Love my partener no way !!! if it was only a sex relation i will maybe think about it i agree ------------------...i've been screamin n cryin n beggin for more... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdaddy Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 been there and done that...it can cause MAJOR problems in both directions...the PSYCHO factor is definately something to consider.....alot of people cannot JUST have sex...there is a lot more involved, and even if it is laid (no pun intended) out before the deed, major jealousy and feelings can occour for the guy or girl who is "broght in" to the sexual relationship-djlovejones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by lareyna333:i am down with threesomes......as long as1. I know the girl, and she is only into girls2. My boyfriend can watch me and the girl but he is not allowed to touch her and he can only have sex with me.....so I guess it's not really a threesome, but at least he gets to watch!! so basically you have to have all the control.------------------DJmikeDR@aol.com aim: DJmikeDR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Well I've done it. Yes it did some damage, but we talked it out and got over it. And we're looking to do it again.And I'd much rather do it with a stranger. I actually wish it had remained a one-night stand, because the more I got to know her the more I realized this girl was not worth anything more than that. I couldn't stand watching TWO people I love having sex with each other.------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by peache5030:Do you think it will change the relationship somehow afterwards?? My answer: Yes. Guaranteed.------------------ Just win baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rparadox Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by lareyna333:i am down with threesomes......as long as1. I know the girl, and she is only into girls2. My boyfriend can watch me and the girl but he is not allowed to touch her and he can only have sex with me.....so I guess it's not really a threesome, but at least he gets to watch!! You know, my G-friend said something to me like this once. We were on the topic, and she talked about having a three some with one of her (female) friends, but she said if we ever did, I could only have sex with her, and I couldn't even touch the other girl.Basically, she meant that it would be like watching a girl on girl porno for me, nothing else. What's the fun in that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by rparadox: Basically, she meant that it would be like watching a girl on girl porno for me, nothing else. What's the fun in that?But don't you like watching girl on girl pornos? I'd love to watch two women having sex,up close and personal- it's real for one and not some contrived situation; also you get to feel the body heat in the room and smell all those lovely sex smells... mmmm...Seriously tho I wish I could place those restrictions, but no go. If I get it so does he. We have discussed a no penetration clause for the future, though. Penetration in our last threesome helped me, tho- she was loosey-goosey.------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddessoflove Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Hmmm... With my *real* boyfriend? I might... If the relationship can't handle that then it's not strong enough to really last anyway. It's just sex, after all, and if either of us are gonna fall for someone else then we will whether we all get it on together or not.The only problem might be that your boy will look at you differently afterward. Like it or not, many would rather have a more innocent idea of their woman than this... but I could be wrong, of course, i'm speculating.I had a threesome with a boyfriend I knew I wouldn't be with for long; he and I and his best guy-friend. GOOD GOD, WHAT A GREAT IDEA *THAT* WAS!XO,G------------------goddessoflove@platformmail.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboyyouth Posted June 15 Report Share Posted June 15 I've always considered a threesome with my girlfriend and her mother. Her younger sister is also an appropriate candidate, as well as a few of her cousins who have a vibrancy about them that makes my cock rise.------------------"I hate explanations that are explanatory of something already explained. (Abraham Lincoln)" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 15 Report Share Posted June 15 Mmmm, no, Rudeboy, don't waste your time. I tried them all, and your girlfriend's the best of the lot.------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tvc15 Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Okay, ladies, so how do you bring it up? Is it safe to assume the woman should make the first move with the "third?" It's easy in here, but it's a great way to create a totally awkward situation when you're face-to-face. Suggestions? Real life examples? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mfiorellino Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 Originally posted by tvc15:Okay, ladies, so how do you bring it up? Is it safe to assume the woman should make the first move with the "third?" It's easy in here, but it's a great way to create a totally awkward situation when you're face-to-face. Suggestions? Real life examples?I agree. Marge Simpson and I have discussed this and we definitely agreed on not using any friends/acquaintances. So it means using a stranger. As for bringing something like that up, I'm clueless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lareyna333 Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 bring it up when your drunk.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rparadox Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 Originally posted by tastyt: But don't you like watching girl on girl pornos? I'd love to watch two women having sex,up close and personal- it's real for one and not some contrived situation; also you get to feel the body heat in the room and smell all those lovely sex smells... mmmm...I have no problem with girl-on-girl stuff, it's just that "it" would start to hurt if I dont get to put it somewhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeydollaz Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 dana why dont we just try the two of us first ... then we'll focus on a third ... =) ... i'ma call u right now ... xoxoxoxo -joey------------------Your ad here !contact joeydollaz@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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