deanna11 Posted March 3 Report Share Posted March 3 when someone asks for your number and you don't care to talk to them again, what do you do? a) say no, give them a fake number, c) give them your number and blow them off when they calli have a hard time saying no, especially if we were having a chill conversation and there's no reason why we shouldn't be friendly. i also don't want to give a fake number because after i meet someone, i ALWAYS see him again. so sometimes i give my room number (i never answer that anyway, and i have an answering machine to screen the calls) or my cell number (caller ID and i usually don't pick up unless i know who's calling). but then it's fucking annoying to just have the phone ring and to get messageswould be so much easier if clubs didn't have searches and metal detectors, so i could just bring a gun and shoot these people before the night is over------------------"real fucking high" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted March 3 Report Share Posted March 3 jesus...lot of anger in you lately...ya need to get some ass...seriously...------------------i want to give you everything...i want to give you energy...i want to give a good thing... shadowchaser076@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattyparsons Posted March 3 Report Share Posted March 3 hey, didn't i meet you last night?i left about 10 messages on your cell (which is on my desk right now) and i called your room about a hundred times!!!!why havent' you called me back yet!------------------ "man, i can't believe i spilled my bottle of jd!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted March 3 Report Share Posted March 3 get a pager.. lol ------------------ ~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipze-mail:LikmyLipz@aol.com />http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exit2heaven Posted March 3 Report Share Posted March 3 Now i know why i cant get in touch with you!!! ------------------"Beware of PHAZON" "The Future is Now...forget the past...presents gone until the gorgeous night..Outrageous, mindblowing nightmares....end up..in the never ending.. FIGHT" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted March 3 Report Share Posted March 3 Originally posted by exit2heaven:Now i know why i cant get in touch with you!!! lol sorry, i still need a new aaa battery for my pager.. oopsie------------------ ~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipze-mail:LikmyLipz@aol.com />http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cubano43 Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Tell them you have a boyfriend or the truth you're not interested------------------The Woods Are Lovely, Dark & DeepBut I Have Promises To Keep And Miles to Go Before I Sleep..Robert Frost Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezdreamer Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Give them this numba:1-800-EAT-SHIT------------------Forget the dreams... what you need is a good nightmare to bring you back to reality... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djfabioc Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Just shoot them! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezdreamer Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Originally posted by djfabioc:Just shoot them!With what? Spit? ------------------Forget the dreams... what you need is a good nightmare to bring you back to reality... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petrol Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 I say just be honest, tell them you really aren't interested in tlaking outside of a club envirinment, ... or maybe at all.or, run away!------------------"Buckle up"-she knows who she is.AOL IM: petrol01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ooana Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 I've said this more than once..."sorry I don't have a phone." It gets a look but, it works.If you've been talking to the person for awhile I generally have no problem giving my number...gotta love caller ID.If its just some fella who walks up and asks for your number, and if said fella is rather...unpleasant..."sorry, my mommy told me never to talk to strangers." Works. Yeah, I can be a bit bitchy when I want to be. Sorry folks <grins>-Oo------------------I am NOT a fag hag. I'm a fairy princess."When the soul wishes to experience something, she throws an image of the experience out before her, and enters into her own image." -Eckhart"I heard of a man that says words so beautiful that if he only speaks their name, women give themselves to him.If I am dumb by your body while silence blossoms like tumors on our lips it is because I hear a man climb the stairs and clear his throat outside our door." - Leonard Cohen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgbrooklyn Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 when I feel like the guy i am talking to is romanticly interested in me and I am not. I tell then I have a cousin/friend they are really compatible with. So this way I set that "I'm not romanticly interested in you" wall. It works well and you don't hurt the persons feelings... and you'll never need to screen your phone calls again. if your having a great conversation from the get go.. who knows you guys maybe great friends and then something cute could come out of it.------------------ I love everyone today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karch Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Don't give em your number. Just say you don't like to give your number out to people. And just mention a bad experience where you did give out your number and the person was harrassing you. I hope I helped. ------------------*Did you find your ecstacy?*E-mail: PrimeKMB2@aol.comAIM: PrimeKMB2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neojunglist Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 grow a pair and tell them u r not interested. there is nothing worse than a girl who gives u her number, u call, and she like blows u off. just say "not interested" ------------------i am the one and only Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highmay Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Sorry I don't have a phone???I don't know, but I would think any sophisticated man who is completely comfortable with himself would get totally offended when some chick has the nerve to say something like that. It's like I'm taking time out of my day to spark conversation with a pretty lady, and if we just happen to hit it off, then why not continue? Give him your number and don't front like it's high school. Saying "I don't have a phone" is like saying "sorry, you're not worth my time." Any real man would realize that this girl is just insecure and not worth their time anyway.Sorry to rip it apart like that, Ooana. Hope you feel better ------------------Coming soon...The signature that will end all signatures...AOL: Highmay9Napster: Jayme Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mspacman Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 I go for secret option D which is I give them my real number and when they call me I have them over for dirty sex. Then I kick them the fuck out of my house and tell them not to call me again or I'll tell everyone how small their penis is. It works like a gem. You should try it, Deanna11. ------------------now let me see you work... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Originally posted by mspacman:I go for secret option D which is I give them my real number and when they call me I have them over for dirty sex. Then I kick them the fuck out of my house and tell them not to call me again or I'll tell everyone how small their penis is. It works like a gem. You should try it, Deanna11. ha ha ha, now there's one i never thought of.....too funny! ------------------ Boink like a bunny with spring fever!!!uknj@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ooana Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 <laughs> You totally have the right to rip that apart, especially since I wasn't clear. No worries there at all :-) The ONLY time I'd say something so bitchy is when a man is aggressive and pushy in a very negative way. I think most people, both men and women have seen the type. The type that won't say no for an answer (and are usually drunk to boot)If I'm simply not interested, I'm much kinder about it. Promise ;-)Mentioning a friend who'd be compatable with them is a great idea when you don't want to lose a potential friendship but aren't interested in a romantic relationship. :-)Hope I clarified since being honest is 99.9% of the time, the best option :-)-Oo Originally posted by highmay:Sorry I don't have a phone???I don't know, but I would think any sophisticated man who is completely comfortable with himself would get totally offended when some chick has the nerve to say something like that. It's like I'm taking time out of my day to spark conversation with a pretty lady, and if we just happen to hit it off, then why not continue? Give him your number and don't front like it's high school. Saying "I don't have a phone" is like saying "sorry, you're not worth my time." Any real man would realize that this girl is just insecure and not worth their time anyway.Sorry to rip it apart like that, Ooana. Hope you feel better ------------------I am NOT a fag hag. I'm a fairy princess."When the soul wishes to experience something, she throws an image of the experience out before her, and enters into her own image." -Eckhart"I heard of a man that says words so beautiful that if he only speaks their name, women give themselves to him.If I am dumb by your body while silence blossoms like tumors on our lips it is because I hear a man climb the stairs and clear his throat outside our door." - Leonard Cohen[This message has been edited by ooana (edited 03-04-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungoddess Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 I've learned my lesson with the fake number thing; rest assured, you will see the person again! Telling them that you're seeing someone usually works... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dabiatchka Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Originally posted by petrol:I say just be honest, tell them you really aren't interested in tlaking outside of a club envirinment, ... or maybe at all.or, run away!That's too funny. Running away might do it. I used to feel too bad not giving my number, but I've had a few guys get obsessive calling like3 times a day. So now if I'm not inteserested I just say Umm I don't think so, sorry. I still hate being mean but I don't exactly want to get burned in the situation by some psycho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 one time i told this guy i couldn't go out with him because i was "bad news" and i would be no good for him. he really was too nice for me and bottom line, i wasn't interested. i saw no point in wasting his or my time. we didn't have anything in common!i've done just about all the things you mention - given the wrong number, screened calls, cancelled dates. i finally learned that it's just best not to flirt too much or even just talk too much to a guy if you don't think you'd really like to go out with him. no point leading someone on, but sometimes it's just not that easy when you're out in a social environment! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
resident Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Just ask for their phone number instead, and don't call. Most guys would interpret that reverse as a "Go away" message anyway.------------------tweaky is the answer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmgreenz Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 in this day and age, you can give out your e-mail address instead of the phone number. Sure, it's a bit geeky, but it works. it's a good way to test the waters on your own terms. ------------------DM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by shugabooga:i've done just about all the things you mention - given the wrong number, screened calls, cancelled dates. i finally learned that it's just best not to flirt too much or even just talk too much to a guy if you don't think you'd really like to go out with him. no point leading someone on, but sometimes it's just not that easy when you're out in a social environment! i don't think i really flirt. at least not with strangers i'm not interested in. but i do like having a nice, chill conversation with someone. it sucks to have to restrict conversations out of fear of them asking for your number------------------"real fucking high" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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