gwyllion Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 I'm having one of those days where my ex is totally on my mind. Maybe I'm too bored... anyway, anyone have any suggestions on how i can forget about him, at least for a few hours? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jprutig Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 masturbation alcoholmasturbationalcoholmasturbationalcoholand stay away from the telephone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wackydream Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 try thinking about why it was that you broke up...that should make him look somewhat worse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silente Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 It's that stupid "relationships" thread - it's got me doing the same thing. I guess just try to think about how your life has improved without him - there's got to be a reason why you broke up, so focus on that. And if you come up with anything better....let me know, k? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kewlgirl Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 -alcohol-masturbation-alcohol-call the ex-ex for some sex-alcohol-call the ex-ex-ex for sex if you can't get from the previous oneif all else fails, flip on jerry springer/jenny jones aand realize that life ain't so bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwyllion Posted July 24 Author Report Share Posted July 24 Yeah, I know i've tried all those methods. Sometimes, it just helps to be reminded. I'm sorta in a confused state though, I'm with someone on the rebound. It's all in fun and games though, cause he'll be gone soon, but I just can't help thinking it's for all the wrong reasons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 well the last very serious relationship that i needed to get over, i took a radical step. i moved to NY, thru myself into my work, and gained lots of weight........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwyllion Posted July 24 Author Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by stacychase well the last very serious relationship that i needed to get over, i took a radical step. i moved to NY, thru myself into my work, and gained lots of weight........ Woooooooooow........... That is way weird. I did almost the exact same thing, except I moved here, then we broke up, gained the weight, then i lost about 30+ pounds. Every once in awhile though, I still think about what could've been if I hadn't moved away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by gwyllion Woooooooooow........... That is way weird. I did almost the exact same thing, except I moved here, then we broke up, gained the weight, then i lost about 30+ pounds. Every once in awhile though, I still think about what could've been if I hadn't moved away. i used to think if i had stayed we might have made it as well. however i know now that we never would have. we had the most unhealthy relationship ever. we went back and forth for years and had no respect for each other! we spoke recently and i felt such a release from it all after we hung up. at one point he was the love of my life and now i realize that he was just a bump in the road. think about why you broke up and left, that always helps me when i feel a moment of what ifs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schwingep Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by stacychase i used to think if i had stayed we might have made it as well. however i know now that we never would have. we had the most unhealthy relationship ever. we went back and forth for years and had no respect for each other! we spoke recently and i felt such a release from it all after we hung up. at one point he was the love of my life and now i realize that he was just a bump in the road. think about why you broke up and left, that always helps me when i feel a moment of what ifs. I just pull ou t my voodoo doll of the person and use it to play fetch with my dog. Hey there Miss Chase...no more email love?- Pete Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics- Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 One word time, only way.IS it me or should Peeps and Kewlgirl be together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by schwingep I just pull ou t my voodoo doll of the person and use it to play fetch with my dog. Hey there Miss Chase...no more email love?- Pete Dog? What happened to Einstein??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schwingep Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by stacychase Dog? What happened to Einstein??? He went to follow you and I haven't seen him since - Pete Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystalmethod Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Meaningless sex with a hottie for daysAlways works.Makes you wonder why you even waste your time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldoan Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 If this ever comes up again, which I'm sure it will, the best thing to do is go work out. Concentrating on yourself and feeling good about yourself is the best way to get over an ex. The only reason people dwell over a break up is because they're fixated on the idea that they need the other person or are dependent on them for happiness. But then again I could be wrong, it has been known to occur once or twice... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specsnny Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Go to the club, and check out the guys/ladies. That is a cheap, sexist, forget about everthing else, kind of thing to do. Bring a friend as well, preferably someone of the same sex, to point them out to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwyllion Posted July 25 Author Report Share Posted July 25 Thanks guys. Yeah, a little meaningless sex always helps, maybe I'll try that. Just kidding. No, seriously it helps knowing that I'm not the only person who has gone through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by kewlgirl -alcohol-masturbation-alcohol-call the ex-ex for some sex-alcohol-call the ex-ex-ex for sex if you can't get from the previous oneif all else fails, flip on jerry springer/jenny jones aand realize that life ain't so bad Right there with you hun!Its also tough if all u'r friends are hooked up. Gotta find a scammin' buddy (even if your just playing)Also, alternating intense exercise with intense calorie intake.Fuckity fuck, we already covered that -- masturbation- alcohol- masturbationetc.oh yeah, my gal pal suggests having sex with someone 20 years older - gets you some real perspective especially if they fly you to london and shit like that - lucky girl.you know what, fuck it, even if you aren't getting over someone, get flown to London. And he's doing what? Taking you to the Greek Isles for a week?Does he have any 40 year old female friends who can take me?Fuck. How about male friends? Damn. Damn. Damn....- masturbation- alcohol- masturbation....get me a beer and some lotion before you go...and send me a fuckin' postcard!oooh! astroglide!! you're such a doll.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 working out is a great way to clear your mind of things and take out all your frustrations....plus you get an awesome bod at the same time!!!!u could also hang out with friends a lot to take your mind off of things...go to clubs (plenty of eye candy there to make u forget whatshisname).dont start with the sleeping around with every tom, dick and harry cause that'll jsut make you feel like sh!t. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by gwyllion I'm having one of those days where my ex is totally on my mind. Maybe I'm too bored... anyway, anyone have any suggestions on how i can forget about him, at least for a few hours? Think about all the fucked up shit he's done to you and remember why he's your ex...that should do it:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 if you're still fixated on that person masturbating may only make you think of them more! so go rent a porn and masterbate watching strangers on tv. then work out, go shopping and buy a hot little outfit, call up your friends, go out clubbing, get drunk, and bring home a little hottie to watch your porn video with you again! repeat this cycle several times (include alcohol where appropriate) until you're over your ex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by shugabooga if you're still fixated on that person masturbating may only make you think of them more! so go rent a porn and masterbate watching strangers on tv. then work out, go shopping and buy a hot little outfit, call up your friends, go out clubbing, get drunk, and bring home a little hottie to watch your porn video with you again! repeat this cycle several times (include alcohol where appropriate) until you're over your ex. hahhaaaa... ROALMFAO... i am in a space planning meeting pretending to take notes and you just made me LOL. i guess that is better than crying, huh???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jprutig Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by back2basics- One word time, only way.IS it me or should Peeps and Kewlgirl be together? look at b2b trying to play cupid - that is *SO* cute.no pics? no resume, though? what gives? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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