fierydesire Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 ...that more ppl seem to be interested? I mean when I have a boyfriend there are more guys flocking around than when I don't. WTF is up with that. I mean they don't know that you have a b/f when they first see you, so what is that this happens? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 That is true. People usually want what they cant have. And for some strange reason people are more attractive to other people when they are already with someone. Maybe its the thrill of the challenge that gets them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 It's a lot easier to answer for a guy, than a girl. Mainly because that air of desparation is gone. There's probably the whole confidence thing involved again, once the looking stops. The "looking good" for your girl is always better than the "looking good" to get a girl. If she fixs you up and makes you smell nice and perty. I suppose the forbideen fruit aspect doesn't enter the picture if it's based on "first sight".That's the gist... more later, if i feel like investing more brain cells, which are dying fast and frequent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 I deal with the exact same thing. Girls are all of a sudden interested in me as soon as I'm with someone. It's like things work backward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 And not only that, but even when you are single, it seems like you go through spurts where you hook up all the time and then there are times when you dont hook up for a while. Very strange!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 Originally posted by upjumpdaboogie It's a lot easier to answer for a guy, than a girl. Mainly because that air of desparation is gone. There's probably the whole confidence thing involved again, once the looking stops. The "looking good" for your girl is always better than the "looking good" to get a girl. If she fixs you up and makes you smell nice and perty. I suppose the forbideen fruit aspect doesn't enter the picture if it's based on "first sight".That's the gist... more later, if i feel like investing more brain cells, which are dying fast and frequent. I think it's a confidence thing for both men and women. You can smell desperation a mile away. When you're with someone and happy, the stench is gone and instead you're glowing with confidence. And self-confidence is an aphrodisiac. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by fierydesire ...that more ppl seem to be interested? I mean when I have a boyfriend there are more guys flocking around than when I don't. WTF is up with that. I mean they don't know that you have a b/f when they first see you, so what is that this happens? Yeah and it gets annoying cause some of the people that want u , u want em too, but u cant really do anytihing cause u have a boyfriend loland i bet if i was single i'd have totally less people wanting me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 what's even worse is that when your actually in a relationship, you get more attention and it's from girls that are 10X hotter than the one you have, and then you really have a dilema. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluebetty Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by tastyt I think it's a confidence thing for both men and women. You can smell desperation a mile away. When you're with someone and happy, the stench is gone and instead you're glowing with confidence. And self-confidence is an aphrodisiac. That's the best awnser. I think its exactly right.Betty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 because people want what they cant have... and as soon as they can have you, youre not a commodity anymore... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by tastytI think it's a confidence thing for both men and women. You can smell desperation a mile away. When you're with someone and happy, the stench is gone and instead you're glowing with confidence. And self-confidence is an aphrodisiac. Oh this is sooo true! It's also true if you're out with a bunch of people buggin out and really just don't give a shit.Last Friday I was out with everyone (male and female) and we all were just having fun dancin..and I was just there, not there "single". I just happened to notice more guys than ususal checking me out. I thought to act on it...but I just said whatever...--Don't forget...I have my 33 year old firefighter waiting for me-- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 yeah wtf...i break up with my girlfriend and the female situation is going down the tubes, dont worry i havent lost my mojo yet though!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 This has puzzled me for a very long time.I have come up with the theory that I definately have better game when I am with a girl because I don't have any game.........let me explain.I just go up and bullshit with girls for no reason and just have fun with them when I have a girl and for some reason the quantity is much greater because I don't give a shit.Now when I don't have a girl I play it a lot smoother, however, even though the quality might be the same, the quantity is not there. Plus I work up to the afterhours instead of just being like:::::whatever? Come if you want.It is definately an odd case scenerio. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by nrgy112 what's even worse is that when your actually in a relationship, you get more attention and it's from girls that are 10X hotter than the one you have, and then you really have a dilema. no girl is hotter than the one you have, what's wrong with you man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by chula22 That is true. People usually want what they cant have. And for some strange reason people are more attractive to other people when they are already with someone. Maybe its the thrill of the challenge that gets them. i agree... 100% Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by upjumpdaboogie no girl is hotter than the one you have, what's wrong with you man! Youre damn right... Unfortunatley, I dont have hottie right now...:worry2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 the real trick is having the i've got a girlfriend confidence when u don't without resorting to the i'm gonna be a prick cause that's what girls like thing.....that'd be smooth and cool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by dgmodel because people want what they cant have... and as soon as they can have you, youre not a commodity anymore... That's true to an extent... however I've noticed that this pricipal is true even if the person attracted to me doesn't know whether or not I have a boyfriend. And unfortunately I've found myself attracted to many attached men... before I even knew they had a girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by upjumpdaboogie no girl is hotter than the one you have, what's wrong with you man! That's an awesome thing to say... but why do I feel like someone's just tryin' to score a little pussy??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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