SPYGIRL3 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 If your friend hooked up with some one...If given the oppurtunity, would you hook up with that same person. Keep in mind that there is no relationship between the two people. What would stop you and what wouldn't???? Comments....Questions???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Yeah I did it like once , but there was nothing goin on with them, i mean if they were involved then i would never do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vodkaredbull Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Shit I can't do it. I mean Not anymore. I just get all weird feeling. Like my friend had his ........ Well you know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 nope under no circumstancesthere are plenty of men out there but there are not many friends out there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 3 Author Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by glowdancer nope under no circumstancesthere are plenty of men out there but there are not many friends out there I think females are more prone to that...... I guess I was really wondering from a guy's point of view...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 I think if the girl is hot enough any guy would as long as this girl didn't go out or wasn't serious with there boy, and even if she was most guys would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 3 Author Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by nrgy112 I think if the girl is hot enough any guy would as long as this girl didn't go out or wasn't serious with there boy, and even if she was most guys would That's what I thought..... Nothing serious going on, it was just a in the moment kinda deal. The whole point behind this one of my friends hooked up with a guy a while back and she feeling the waters with a new guy who's a friend..... I don't know if he know what happen with the other two or not, but anyways she asked my opinon and so I wanted yours.....Thanks guys:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If your friend hooked up with some one...If given the oppurtunity, would you hook up with that same person. Keep in mind that there is no relationship between the two people. What would stop you and what wouldn't???? Comments....Questions???? First off I don't need sloppy seconds!Second There are PLENTY of guys out there for me I don't need someone that my friends swapped spit with!and last I don't know if my friend is going to hook up again with that person!But Honestly refer to the first one! GG Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If your friend hooked up with some one...If given the oppurtunity, would you hook up with that same person. Keep in mind that there is no relationship between the two people. What would stop you and what wouldn't???? Comments....Questions???? It depends on if they have or still have feelings for them.. if it was just a drunk romp in the hay, and whatever then its cool in my book... however it was because one liked the other but things didnt work out becuase the other didnt or something along htose lines, then i wouldnt...Plus why would you want sloppy seconds??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 In my group of girl friends we have all made it a rule, whoever kisses the guy first is their property. Only exceptions made to have the guy transferd to another girl is permission is granted *which is something that usually does not happen* This helps stop fights and unessary things over guys cause they are not worth fighting with your friends about. if u are planning to hook up with a guy ur friend hooked up with I don't think its the best of ideas to do it unless you talk to her first and make sure she has no attachment towards him and it wont break up your friendship, better to do it now than have her hear about it . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Well, from my own experience, my friends and I have hooked up with the same guy but it is usually years after the other has hooked up with him. Except the Friday night of memorial day weekend I hooked up with one guy and my friend hooked up with him the next night. I honestly didnt care but I am sure someone else would have. If it were a serious bf, then I know it wouldnt have happened. I think if the guy wasnt anything serious, I dont see a big deal. I also think it depends on the girl you are doing it to. Some girls may care while others may not. But like someone else said, there are so many guys out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perskription Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 ONCE a friend has a girl weather it be a hook up or a girl friend she is off limits i would never do anything with her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 ok heres a little story....Back in the day all my girls went to SF, now this is before they redid the place, ok so we are all decked out club gear and what not, we are walking down the stairs and this guy comes up to me and is like hey u and ur friends wanna chill in this area *The place with all the couches right before u go onto the main dance floor but back then they were kinda like little corners* so whatever we all went in, I can honestly say that within the first 15 min this guy was all over all 7 of us and we were all fucked up we jus didnt care, he hooked up with all my girl friends and I was the last one he hooked up with at the end of the night and we ended up seeing eachother after that. But I could not stand the fact that my friends had hooked up with him and we all kinda started to brawl a little because he was really hot. So I stopped seeing him, and saved the trouble of hurting my friends, plus just the fact that he hooked up with 7 girls in one night skeeved me who knows how many more were before us....guys can be sluts sometimes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perskription Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 girls can be just as bad as guys maybe even worse but 7 girls is pretty bad. Have seen girls in clubs before all over every guy hey see and kissing many more. makes me wonder if any of my friends have hooked up with girls i have and i don't no it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 3 Author Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by sexxybabyd In my group of girl friends we have all made it a rule, whoever kisses the guy first is their property. Only exceptions made to have the guy transferd to another girl is permission is granted *which is something that usually does not happen* This helps stop fights and unessary things over guys cause they are not worth fighting with your friends about. if u are planning to hook up with a guy ur friend hooked up with I don't think its the best of ideas to do it unless you talk to her first and make sure she has no attachment towards him and it wont break up your friendship, better to do it now than have her hear about it . When I was in high school, we had a thing kinda like that.... It didn't always work out the way it was suppossed to..... When you get older you realize these kinda things....It totally sounds good in theory. I wouldn't hook up with a guy that one of my friends already had. I would say on most cases, like lollib said even if it did happen, it's usually a while after the fact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Honestly, though, what is a kiss anyway? I dont really see anything wrong with it unless of course the 2 people had a history together or feelings were involved. There is one guy that my friends know is off limits. We didnt have a relationship but I really liked him and would be upset if any of my friends hooked up with him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eviljav666 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by lollib Honestly, though, what is a kiss anyway? I dont really see anything wrong with it unless of course the 2 people had a history together or feelings were involved. SO TRUE!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketfuel76 Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If your friend hooked up with some one...If given the oppurtunity, would you hook up with that same person. Keep in mind that there is no relationship between the two people. What would stop you and what wouldn't???? Comments....Questions???? NEVER EVER DO IT. Not worth it... Ill find my own guy! THank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 3 Author Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by lollib Honestly, though, what is a kiss anyway? I dont really see anything wrong with it unless of course the 2 people had a history together or feelings were involved. There is one guy that my friends know is off limits. We didnt have a relationship but I really liked him and would be upset if any of my friends hooked up with him. I don't know all the details, nor do I wanna...I think she is just gonna say fuck it and just be up front about it. To my understanding, it was a while ago, so whatevers..... I think she just really likes him is all.......The only history is that the two guys are friends.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by rocketfuel76 NEVER EVER DO IT. Not worth it... Ill find my own guy! THank you. I agree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted December 3 Report Share Posted December 3 Originally posted by sexxybabyd In my group of girl friends we have all made it a rule, whoever kisses the guy first is their property. Only exceptions made to have the guy transferd to another girl is permission is granted *which is something that usually does not happen* This helps stop fights and unessary things over guys cause they are not worth fighting with your friends about. if u are planning to hook up with a guy ur friend hooked up with I don't think its the best of ideas to do it unless you talk to her first and make sure she has no attachment towards him and it wont break up your friendship, better to do it now than have her hear about it . 7 Girls in one night??? Ok, NOW i'm Oficially a Loser..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 4 Author Report Share Posted December 4 Originally posted by joeg 7 Girls in one night??? Ok, NOW i'm Oficially a Loser..... That is quite unbecoming..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bmw4jay Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 I say as long as your friend doesnt care, and you honestly know they don't, go for it. All you gotta do is ask. That simple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 4 Author Report Share Posted December 4 Originally posted by bmw4jay I say as long as your friend doesnt care, and you honestly know they don't, go for it. All you gotta do is ask. That simple. That seems to be more the male POV...... But whatever works is all I gotta say..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
godfatherbam Posted December 5 Report Share Posted December 5 guys are supposed to have a certain level of "respect" for his boy's hookups, i mean if one of my friends hooked up with a girl i did at one point, unless he cleared it with me first, id probably be a bit pist off, cause what happens to u when u want some next time and ur friend is gettin with her... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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