dolcemimi Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Do you know how to defend yourself ? I used to got out alot by myself at night to clubs becasue I had noone to go out with men are fuckin assholes when they see a girl alone on the street at night. Some men thought I was a hooker and tried to pick me up or gangs of guys would just yell and act like fuckin jerkoffs. One time I even had this loser stalking me at this one club because he knew I was by myself. I never feel safe and I feel like I always gotta watch my back even in daytime. At a NJ mall - some piece of shit white trash came up to me and said "Nice nipples " to me ! WTF ? I said " Fuck U" and walked off but now I think about it ......it makes me angrier everyday. I thought about many times bout getting a gun for protection. But I feel that -that's gonna get me in more trouble. I never feel safe and I'm paranoid around men. Because all these assholes -I'm actually scared of men . There is alot of fear in my life. I'm even scared to go out and have a good time because I feel unsafe. Any girls out there - can u relate ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LavenderMenace Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 5 years of karate and a wicked fuckin attitude!!! let me know if you want info on schools. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bLizAnci Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Reading that makes me feel uncomfortable.Its not right.-z "asorrymale" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LavenderMenace Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Originally posted by sleepiswaste Reading that makes me feel uncomfortable.Its not right.-z "asorrymale" another good way to defend yourself is to get a 7-foot-tall croatian dude to hang around with you.zisthebestprotectionagirlcouldget Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 I run fast..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 i resort to violence so quick i think i domestically abuse my partner sometimes. :horns:gotta learn to deal with my anger ::and this kitten is:: oh...and my mind seriously though.....always play with their minds! Best way to f a person up.ill cut ya! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 I know I can take care of myself. I go out alot alone and come home late alone. I do have a mouth, but I know one day that may get me in trouble. But you can never be too sure. I don't think a gun is your best bet. Hun, I know its scary and you may feel afraid to go out. But you shouldn't let these assholes stop you. I have had similiar issues and I totally see where your coming from. So like lavender said karate is good, maybe some kickboxing classes, self-defense courses... My favorite is the kickboxing:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 exactly....I'll cut ya sounds so ghetto Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Originally posted by fierydesire exactly....I'll cut ya sounds so ghetto dont forget the blade in my mouth. . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluidnyc Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Im glad im not one of those assholes that ya talking about.But I can see where your coming from.How bout carrying some pepper spray.Or mace.Carrying a cellphone is also good.And dont forget to ask someone for Help if you ever need it.If I saw some guy or a group of guys harrasing a girl and she was crying for help or someshit, you better belive me, I'd be all over them.Take care of yourselves, I know guys are jerkoffs most of time.Im glad I wasnt brought up to be a jerkoff.Peace Girls, I love you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Originally posted by fluidnyc Im glad im not one of those assholes that ya talking about.But I can see where your coming from.How bout carrying some pepper spray.Or mace.Carrying a cellphone is also good.And dont forget to ask someone for Help if you ever need it.If I saw some guy or a group of guys harrasing a girl and she was crying for help or someshit, you better belive me, I'd be all over them.Take care of yourselves, I know guys are jerkoffs most of time.Im glad I wasnt brough up to be a jerkoff.Peace Girls, I love you all. yeah, mace is a good idea and definitely a cell phone.i know how you feel though.i wouldnt ever go out alone -- i just wouldnt feel safe/comfortable. it sucks to be limited.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 Years of living in troublesome areas around the world and the basics of kicking someone's ass is what I have...I think I could give someone a few good blows before they know what's even happening... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 i ride the train into the city but when leaving a club, i jump right into a cab and don't get out until i'm at my front doorstep. as for the nipple comment......wear a bra that's thick enough or padded enough to hide them or wear a shirt that's dark colored and loose-fitting. even then, you'll still get harrassed. one time years ago i was walking down the street, about 22 years old, still very innocent, wearing a dress that reached well below my knees and wasn't revealing much at all............and a man passed me in a crosswalk and said "i wanna throw that dress over your head and fuck you!" i was pretty shocked! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehacker Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 i don't know why more publicity for PRO-TAZER sentimentain't goin' around... it's nonlethal yet knocks the attackerthe fuck out for at least 5 to 10 minutes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Get one of those fold out bat thingies that the professional hitmen use..those things r the shit. but all jokes aside i feel for ya..i cant stand when guys bother the living hell out of a girl thats by herself..they look like vultures ready to pounce on fresh meat..sick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubbincutie Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 i kno exactly wut u mean...me n my friends have talked bout it ever since we were old enough to start goin out to the city and clubs..even if ur w/a few girls, some guys will still try to mess w/u..the worst is when they're in a big drunken group...i have to stick up for the good guys, they are out there..i can remember a couple times, when we were confronted by some not so nice guys, some real gentlemen stepped in..im not all into that damsel in distress crap, though..cause i kno if someone comes at me, im gonna go down kickin, hittin, screamin..anything..and i always stick up for myself n my friends..i hate when guys think they can get away w/lewd, rude, and unwanted behavior..i think ur best bet is to be assertive..but those kickboxing classes are really fun too, n they could be very useful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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