therunner Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by vicman well I was talking to therunner about the porn...i dunno if your into porn, but if you are I'll check the trunks in my basement to give you an exact catalogue of what i have available Here's a little porn to pass your time. And the best thing about it is that it's not on a pornsite so you view it through your firewall.Free porn on CP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by therunner Here's a little porn to pass your time. And the best thing about it is that it's not on a pornsite so you view it through your firewall.Free porn on CP woo hoo....i'm working on my web site so you can place your porn orderes and I can get them directly into my billing & shipping departments Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eggmok Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly Anyway.. my question is .. what has helped you guys to move on? alcohol . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellywelly Posted April 4 Author Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by therunner Here's a little porn to pass your time. And the best thing about it is that it's not on a pornsite so you view it through your firewall.Free porn on CP ... Ummm.. porn is not helping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellywelly Posted April 4 Author Report Share Posted April 4 okay guys... based on your posts these are some of the things that I picked up...1- let time do the healing2- share your feelings/vent3- don't think about the situation too much4- develop hobbies/ keep your mind busy5- real friends that care won't offer you drugs or alcohol to clear your mind **cough cough** not to mention offering... 6- casual SEX!!!!! 7- cry; cry; and cry8- a simple explanation why guys act the way they do... is because they simply have fewer brain cells than women 9- move on to better and bigger things and last but not least....10- PORN.. tons of porn :cry: :cry: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuro Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly 5- real friends that care won't offer you drugs or alcohol to clear your mind No one's offering. Go get your own drugs. Stay out of my stash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellywelly Posted April 4 Author Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by Kuro No one's offering. Go get your own drugs. Stay out of my stash. why do I feel like this is going to be a loooong process :rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly why do I feel like this is going to be a loooong process :rolleyes: thw short bald japaneese kid takes really good care of his drugs.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nourishment Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 11 - get angry about it. When you finally get angry then you've stopped internalizing and questioning if if was you or if you could have done something different. Getting angry shows that you're no longer a victim of the situation. Getting angry gets you motivated to move on instead of continuing to wallow. Of course at this stage you might also be motivated to take up some of Runner's suggestions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuro Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly why do I feel like this is going to be a loooong process :rolleyes: Humor helps. Make sure if you're goingto watch a movie that it's comedy and not romance or romantic comedy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinybutterfli Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by Kuro No one's offering. Go get your own drugs. Stay out of my stash. HAHAHAHAHA! Damn... Elly if I had any, I'd share 'em with you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinybutterfli Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by therunner Here's a little porn to pass your time. And the best thing about it is that it's not on a pornsite so you view it through your firewall.Free porn on CP even if I wanted to see this... the damn firewall in my office has a sixth sense or something.... BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK. This morning, I was looking for new butterfly clipart and I got blocked from one of the sites and the reason it gave me this time was "adult" WTF?I'm dying here... I'm so bored and I can't look at porn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellywelly Posted April 4 Author Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by tinybutterfli HAHAHAHAHA! Damn... Elly if I had any, I'd share 'em with you! ... anybody care to share some with a poor grieving soul??? :( ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgiddy Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly ... anybody care to share some with a poor grieving soul??? :( ..... share(not Cher) is my middle name! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuro Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly ... Ummm.. porn is not helping It's helping me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crank47 Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Almost forgot, one thing that helped methe last time a relationship ended was to work out, and I mean a lot. Go to the gym, run, whatever, as much as possible. It takes your mind off things, you get your frustrations out and you feel better about yourself. Surprisingly healthy idea... maybe I am growing up.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellywelly Posted April 4 Author Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by crank47 Go to the gym, run.......Surprisingly healthy idea... maybe I am growing up.... umm.. I think I liked the booze; drugs; casual sex and porn better :rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crank47 Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly umm.. I think I liked the booze; drugs; casual sex and porn better :rolleyes: In that case...I'll see you at Buzz tomorrow! *LOL* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgiddy Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by ellywelly umm.. I think I liked the booze; drugs; casual sex and porn better :rolleyes: Good choice!!! Don't worry I'm sure you will be fine if not better and much stronger once it's all said and done! If not then just turn bi.....and listen to fairy trance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nautilus60 Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 I am kinda jumping in late here, so all the advise has been given. Just wanted to show some support for the fellow CPer. Be strong, Elly...just to reiterate - the best things are: keeping yourself busy and letting the time do the healing. I speak from experience as i myself got out of the 6 year relationship just 3 months ago. I've done all the things listed above:drugs, sex, porn...sometimes even all at the same time and it works pretty well. I've moved on now to bigger and better things, as i am sure you will to. Good luck.Oh, and i noticed that everyone already offered you their rebound sex services, so i am just gonna get in line... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kramadas Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Elly, I guess everyone's pretty much covered it. Exercise, especially, is a good idea to get your mind off it, plus hobbies and hanging out with friends.Also, if I'm right, this was a mutual break-up coz of family differences (Gawd, I hate that!!!), so I'm not sure how getting angry at the guy or putting him down is going to help...or even fair. Unless, it was from his side, and he knew family would be a problem.I dunno about other guys, but I cannot just "swtich off" my emotions...just coz we don't show it that much in public does not mean that we don't feel it. Rather than a guy/girl thing, its more an individual thing. Just take it day by day, and you shall endure! Remember, you will be OK...its just a matter of when. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuro Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by raver_mania I dunno about other guys, but I cannot just "swtich off" my emotions...just coz we don't show it that much in public does not mean that we don't feel it. Rather than a guy/girl thing, its more an individual thing. Yeah. The idea that guys just switch off their emotions is bullshit. Women just say that cuz they usually don't understand how guys express themselves. I certainly can't just switch off my emotions, as people around here who have read my whiny, heart broken posts can verify. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by Kuro It's helping me. There's a lot of nice pics on that thread. I am so glad I found it cause it helps the day go by so much better now. If only I had an internet drop in the bathroom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by Kuro Yeah. The idea that guys just switch off their emotions is bullshit. Women just say that cuz they usually don't understand how guys express themselves. I certainly can't just switch off my emotions, as people around here who have read my whiny, heart broken posts can verify. I can't switch off my emotions either. Thats why there is better living through chemistry to help people that can't switch off thier emotions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuro Posted April 5 Report Share Posted April 5 Originally posted by therunner There's a lot of nice pics on that thread. I am so glad I found it cause it helps the day go by so much better now. If only I had an internet drop in the bathroom. \Some nice pics here, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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