I dont understand why people always say brooklyn is better. It is the same crowd. Bay Ridge, Dyker, Staten Island, and North/Central Jersey are all the same. I've had just as consistent shitty nights in BK than all those mentioned. If you are describing the heights, williamsburg, or greenpoint, then yeah, much different, but not necessarily better. I personally dont like either, but am open minded and will hang out with different people b/c everyone has something different to offer. From my experience, people that bash do so, b/c they don't fit in Hey, I suck at handball, so I say it sucks. Same goes with the guido crowd. If your not a guido, you probably hate it. If you are, you only hang out with other guidos. Same logic applys to every subculture. Common psychology.