Hmm.. I think that if you are ready to give up (or maybe slow down) your party life and try to "settle down", then it's your decision and it's only normal to want to have a "normal" life. Partying is fun but everyone knows that you can't do it your whole life. If she doesn't understand why you like clubbing, and you still want to go out all the time, then it's a diff issue. But if you yourself wanna slow down, then it's all good. Drugs are a completely different issue. A lot of ppl go out and party without drugs (drink, smoke).. I'd imagine that a lot of ppl would NOT have a problem with their bf/gfs going out, but WOULD have a problem with them doing drugs.