Alright: 1) People with complete thought patterns write in clear, concise and grammatically correct paragraphs. That's me. Looks like you've got an okay handle on all this too with your post, so that's a moot point. 2) That's not confident. That's just immature and counterproductive. What am I in, 9th grade? "Fuck you, bite me! I'm telling my mom!" Nahhhhh thanks, I prefer a calm, conversational approach to issues. 3) If you're a dancer, then every weekend, guys "oggle your goodies and make comments" so what do you care if it happens here or anywhere else? It's all the same. I really have no problems with you - In fact, it's entirely possible that we've danced at the same venues on the same night, etc. You were obviously somehow upset by someone else having a little fun, you should just chill. There's no need for this, really. Like I said, I have an awesome life and if I was the slightest bit worried about myself I damn well wouldn't post pics like that 'cause I'd be afraid people would do - oh wait - exactly what you're doing. But since I'm not, there are the pics, and that's where they're gonna stay. Confidence is sexy, but causing drama over it isn't it. If you're comfortable with yourself and with other attractive women, sit down and enjoy the ride. If not, go take some self-esteem classes and keep your issues off the board. I've said my piece, I don't need to say more - I think that fairly sums up my position.