I totally understand all this. But first, and in all seriousness, avoid Idaho. I'm from Oregon, and there's no one there, trust me, that's why I'm here. Besides, all anyone there listens to is country and hard rock, no PvD or Nick Warren. Hell, they haven't even heard of Trance! And about hooking up in clubs, I'm so totally frustrated,too. Though I try to hook up with guys, as I myself am a girl.... but lately I guess I've kinda given up a bit and started to go out for the music and the dancing, not the people, and it seems to be more fun. Cher said, "Men are luxuries, not necessities," and I think it must apply to a guy's perspective, too. Also, you're a special dude, you know. All the guys I've met in a club only want sex, not a relationship, so I'm suprised to read your message. I'd be very happy to meet a guy who wanted to know me, not just what my thong looks like. Or whatever.