it is seriously wrong...i think leading someone on constitutes telling them that you want to be with them and discussing "future plans" and spending all your time with them, etc, and generally having a relationship with them, usually verbally telling them things like how happy you are and blah blah...when really you are either just enjoying the ride with no intentions of fulfilling the "promises" you are making, or you are not sure of the things you are saying but say them anyway, etc... grrrrrrr to this topic it is a little close to home right now!