that's exactly why i worry honestly, i don't look when i am really into someone--i mean, i admire someone else's attributes or whatever, but when i am REALLY into a guy, i don't care about anyone else(now, if i am just dating or playing, then hell yeah, i want everything on the buffet that looks good to me, lol)...am i in the minority, then, tastey? is that what you're saying?