tastey, you make me :laugh: !! i have forgiven guys for cheating, but no more...my last serious BF slept with his ex...and then the next day took me out for this superspecial date and kissed my *ss and was so upset the whole day and finally at the end told me why after i asked him and asked him what was wrong...i forgave him for a little and then realized i was over it...you can push and push but one day you push too far and i was just over it. now, we talk every once in a while and he tells me he loves me and was so dumb and can't live without me, blah, blah, and i always say, "really? did you think about that while your d*ck was inside her when you were supposed to be sleeping at my place? obviously not." so, now cheating is IT for me...which is why i am staying single for a while so it can not happen, lol