*ouch* yep, i do love a good weight bench, lol but as for church, when i go, i go at 8AM, and i am NOT in the mood to be very nice or cute at 8AM, lol...as for libraries, and bookstores, O-Jay, i think that one is the best so far thanks... NYC, as far as gyms go, the thing is, that when i get on a kick and go to the gym, i am there to do my sh*t and get out of there--i love to LOOK around at the hotties, i am not thinking about anyone checking ME out as i am sweating on the eliptical, lol