i don't know if it has actually changed me as a person but it has definitly put life and death into a whole new perspective. i have learned to appreciate life ... just like latinaz said, you enjoy walks in the park, time with your family and friends, even something as simple as a smile or a hug, so much more !!! eventually you learn the true value of life and the true value of those you love - it's just sad that it's usually when tradgedy occurs for most people.