I don't know. I had a g/f that I know really loved me and I wanted to love her back, but it just wasn't there. We brook up because of it and then we missed each others company, and we got back together. Our relationship was never based on love, i guess I just liked her company, and having someone who like to go out. She liked me way more then that, so we broke up again. We still talk alot and she would be perfect, but I guess I just don't love her. I don't know why, but sometimes I try to convince myself I do....then you see other people and movies and seeing how they act and I know for sure I don't. It's a very confusing emotion, but I guess you will just know when it happens. Still waiting.....