Shit happens, but that doesn't make it right. Is everyone gonna just adopt a catch phrase like "Shit happens" and no matter what happens its all good? " I personally only been played once, by someone I didn't give a rats ass about, but my point wasn't that. My point was that 98% of the time girls pick out the "hottest" guy in the club or the "tough guy" and then complain that he lies and cheats. Hell ya, if your the best looking you can do that shit, they know they can get another girl just like you. So my advice is look for someone is fairly good looking and but the best of the best. I dont agree with the nice guys finish last thing, because I consider myself a nice guy and I dont always finish last. I'm just saying it takes nice guys to finish longer. If that makes sense to ya.