He's mad cus the places he goes suck. Find new places, because your current expectations will never be met. not that hard is it? You arent tiesto, so do a little work to get your "party" going If you have to promote to play, do it, or find somewhere else to play, and quit bitching. Ever heard of a DJ/promoter? yeah theres a million of them, and they seem to be doing a lot better than you. You didnt earn anything by mixeing a few records, pay your dues.