thats the same situation i'm in currently, my bfs parents hate me just because i'm dating their oldest son and taking him on weekends away from them! They threw me out of the house several times, i have taken soooo much abuse from them its not even funny!!!! So has my bf. They constatly say nasty things and threaten to take away his car... and etc... I never knew such mean hearted people. But we're still together after 5 years of constant abuse, even when i left for grad school far far away i thought that would help and they'll lay off me but noooo, they've manage to find something to blame me for and not like me, and my bf even with me far far away was still getting shit about our relationship! The thing is he's really close with his parents and loves me too, so its a bad situation because i feel that soon i won't have the energy to put up with all that unjustifiable abuse. But i love him and I see that he's torn too... but i'm getting tired of being hurt emotionally on constant basis... it drains me and makes me very distressed... anways.... i understand that unfortunate part of the relationship... that's why i think you should try and see if you can get back together... if you take your parents out of the picture it might work out.