correct me if you disagree from the guys I've known - it seems they do not want equal partners/soul mate wife. IMO - they want the little wife that stays home ,cooks,cleans, sucks his dick, doesn't talk back to him and stfu so he can eat his steak dinner and watch tv. And he expects her to put up with all his shit while he don't listen or give a dam about her needs becuz she is his servant That's why I think my friend went from dating hot model sluts (who are high maintenence and don't obey him) - to a nice quiet average Jane - who will obey all his commands like a trained dog And depending what nationality the guys are - they are more like this . EX. Greeks, Italians + latin men They have an idea as to how their "little women" should behave and if the girl talks back to him or doesn't "obey " - she's a whore. ?