origskeemr Posted May 5 Report Share Posted May 5 One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)... Can someone explain or inlighten me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted May 5 Report Share Posted May 5 Originally posted by origskeemr One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)... Can someone explain or inlighten me... This is the first time I have heard anything like this before.Even prudes get themselves off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted May 5 Report Share Posted May 5 Originally posted by origskeemr One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)... Can someone explain or inlighten me... i knew a chick like this before ..let me tell you it was very fustrating ... she had o fucking libido(sex drive) they are just born that way ...they can take hormones n shit but its only temporary & she'll end up being the same .. we broke up cause i was always having mixed feelings about whether she was attracted to me or not...but it ended up just being her... i was kind of confused for awhile until i started dating again ... i went out with this chick & i was scared of not being good enough cause of my last relationship...let me tell you tho.. i blew her socks off !! .. & i kinda needed that cause i was very unsure of myself for awhile there... she ended up dating again but still has the same problem...she calls me every once in awhile & we talk about shit like that .. but her relationship is on the ocks again cause of her problem..that really sucks that some people like me are born with so much of something & some are born without it ... i guess its a compatbility thing... i guess shell have to find a man one day with no sex drive like herself.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted May 5 Report Share Posted May 5 Originally posted by koky her relationship is on the rocks again cause of her problem..that really sucks that some people like me are born with so much of something & some are born without it ... i guess its a compatbility thing... my issues aren't as physical as this girl's...but I can relate to how it sucks, and how much pressure it puts on things. Most of the time in sexual situations, I find myself trying to field off attention drawn to myself...just so I won't have to fake it, or explain to the guy why I didn't get there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted May 5 Author Report Share Posted May 5 SoOooOOo there's no solution:( Damn i feel for her then cause i know if i was her boyfriend i would have some issues... Well if anyone knows please tell cause i dont understand lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hardtopleaz Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 is it possible that she's been sexually abused? because victims of sexual abuse tend to have a lot of issues with sex and pleasure later on in life. that's the first thing i thought of when i read what you said.. but if that's not the case.. id guess that her hormones work in a different way than most women and her sex drive is just not there... either way that's a difficult thing to deal with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted May 6 Author Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by hardtopleaz is it possible that she's been sexually abused? because victims of sexual abuse tend to have a lot of issues with sex and pleasure later on in life. that's the first thing i thought of when i read what you said.. but if that's not the case.. id guess that her hormones work in a different way than most women and her sex drive is just not there... either way that's a difficult thing to deal with You know what?? I never thought of that:confused: But then again i can never ask her sumptin liek that, but you have a good point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 i think she's a lesbian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hardtopleaz Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by nympho69 i think she's a lesbian her problem doesnt have anything to do with men.. she doesnt like to masturbate either.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sfspikes2envy Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by origskeemr One of my friends does not enjoy any kind of sexual activities... I just dont understand:confused: She has had an orgasm before just not from sex, but she doesnt even care for orgasmns:( When she went to the doctor he/she said that she has a tilted uterus... So my question is does this have anything to do with her problem?? She has no clue what is wrong and she thought I would know (go figure)... Can someone explain or inlighten me... stop playn it off as its ur friend. it's u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted May 6 Author Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by sfspikes2envy stop playn it off as its ur friend. it's u lmao shut up johnathan;) Hardtopleaz~ No she doesnt masterbate nor is she a lesbien... at least from what i know... see i dont know her that well i just know this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 a tilted uterus just means her baby will develop in an abnormal environment...and her labor might be more difficult because of this..but i would think this would enhance her sexual pleasure because of the position it is now in? or maybe i don't know enough....i dunno.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 ~~~wow! i would kill myself if i had no sex drive! on the ther hand i do think its hormones women lose their sex drive after menopause a lot so she needs some hormonal supplements:cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by djjonstephen This is the first time I have heard anything like this before.Even prudes get themselves off. even prudes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by hardtopleaz is it possible that she's been sexually abused? because victims of sexual abuse tend to have a lot of issues with sex and pleasure later on in life. that's the first thing i thought of when i read what you said.. but if that's not the case.. id guess that her hormones work in a different way than most women and her sex drive is just not there... either way that's a difficult thing to deal with That's actually the first thing that came to my mind... I mean, shit, she doesn't even like to have orgasms??? If not sexual abuse, there's definitely psychological issues at play... definitely therapy and possibly medication are in order... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted May 6 Author Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by tastyt That's actually the first thing that came to my mind... I mean, shit, she doesn't even like to have orgasms??? If not sexual abuse, there's definitely psychological issues at play... definitely therapy and possibly medication are in order... Damn, i didnt think it could be this bad... Do they have shit she can take for this:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by origskeemr Damn, i didnt think it could be this bad... Do they have shit she can take for this:confused: There are hormones if hers are out of whack; and women can use viagra too. But because sex is such a psychological thing with women, if her head isn't on straight about the whole thing, no amount of medication will do any good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by sfspikes2envy stop playn it off as its ur friend. it's u LMAO!!....it's not him.....it's just what the girls tell him so they don't have to sleep with him and his coffee colored penis!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 how could someone not like orgasms???i dunno but i dont think tilted uterus has anything to do with whether you like orgasms or not. it may affect whether you like penetration, but thats all. if you have a tilted uterus sex may be uncomfortable when there is deep penetration. your friend should go to the dr and get some meds, maybe shes depressed. maybe she just hasnt met the right person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted May 6 Author Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by misk LMAO!!....it's not him.....it's just what the girls tell him so they don't have to sleep with him and his coffee colored penis!! You and shithead are always jokin... it has nuttin to do with me i swear or whom i get ass from:blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted May 6 Report Share Posted May 6 Originally posted by koky i knew a chick like this before ..let me tell you it was very fustrating ... she had o fucking libido(sex drive) they are just born that way ...they can take hormones n shit but its only temporary & she'll end up being the same .. we broke up cause i was always having mixed feelings about whether she was attracted to me or not...but it ended up just being her... i was kind of confused for awhile until i started dating again ... Hey that sucks man.Sex is an important part of a relationship in my opinion. If I am with someone I care about, I want to be as close to them as possible. I enjoy having sex with someone I love or care deeply for much more then just someone I am hooking up with. When it is all said and done, there is not that "empty" feeling when you are with a loved one. Maybe I am babbling, I dunno.Anyhow, I would grow frustrated and curious myself if this happened to me with any partner of mine. You did what you had to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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