barvybe Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by lavendermenace:I LOVE going by myself!!!Go when you want, leave when you want.dance with anyone you want. you get the idea.no one cares what you do. its very liberating.Absolutely agree! and with BKISSA too of course. went out and did just that a couple weeks ago - had the best time.but i wouldn't ever turn down my friends to go out alone - its not MORE fun, just different fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10Spectrums Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 every so often.. did it last night at Twirl...If the vibe is their and the people are cool, friendly it could be liberating. Sometimes,, though, you stand there feeling like a loser.The question is: should you just approach people and say what's up? or wait for people to approach you? I've done both...It can be intimidating. I'm pretty brave, but it's not often I'll go up to a group of girls and say hello. Mixed groups are weird too, cuz all the guys think you're hittin on their women.the answer to me, is shut up and dance I guess.pete------------------ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 I usally go alone, because all my friends are not into clubs only I iam. I go to bars with them And then when twilo was open I would just go there around 4:00am. I think I really need to meet some of my own kind to hang wit! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brodie332 Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 >It can be intimidating. I'm pretty brave, but it's not often I'll go up to a group of girls and say hello. Mixed groups are weird too, cuz all the guys think you're hittin on their women.the answer to me, is shut up and dance I guess.pete<I had some real good nights at centrofly, I know whatcha mean when people are cool. I don't bother talkin to anyone, it's not that I'm unsociable: it's just that when I'm on the dancefloor, I'm already havin a conversation with the dj using my body.know what i'm sayin? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andwhysee Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 most lone female clubbers seem ok but most of the lone male clubbers are freaks, they are kinda guys that go around grabbing girls from behind at club. thats just my observation. i have a very bad experience clubbing alone. one time i was in the line right outside Limelight all by myself then suddenly my aunt and his whole family in their car drove through, recognized me and stopped, they are like what are u doing all by yourself this late etc.. and everyone was looking at me.. it was humiliating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xpander Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by andwhysee:most lone female clubbers seem ok but most of the lone male clubbers are freaks, they are kinda guys that go around grabbing girls from behind at club. Hey, I resent that... I don't know, I think dancing by yourself is great. And I don't grab girls' asses. Dance cuz it's just fun to groove like a lunatic. When i'm w/ friends at a club, a lot of the time I end up losing myself and losing track of them dancing to the music. So there's often not that much of a difference...Yeah, a lot people tend to think that not being social at a club is weird, I've gotten my shares of "huh?" But I started clubbing for the music, still do. So dancing alone's perfectly normal.------------------...it's quiet now...and as I think my thoughts alone...I try to keep my head straight... but i thnk i'm too far goneeeeeeee................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I hate going by myself cause I like to have my friends around me to interact with them and like if a guy trys to push up me, we got that girl stare (Ladies u know what im talkin bout LOLZ) I feel so weird going alone..i cant do it------------------ ~*Daniela*~ AIM: SeXxY BaBy DHOMEPAGE:hometown.aol.com/sexxybabyd"~People Who Know-Dont Talk And People Who Talk-Dont Know~"The Creation Of Me...Was Like God Trippin on *E*...While Smokin some Trees...Saying How Can this Be?...I Just Created Someone Betta Then Me! ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubtness Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I'm about to goto Exit by myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10Spectrums Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by sexxybabyd:I hate going by myself cause I like to have my friends around me to interact with them and like if a guy trys to push up me, we got that girl stare (Ladies u know what im talkin bout LOLZ) I feel so weird going alone..i cant do ityou know, when you're in my situation - and your friends are too lame to go out to clubs oftentimes - you have no choice but go alone. That's why the meet ups here are cool.. even though I havent done one yetpete------------------ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 tru....its cool to make friends with the reg's at clubs also cause u know reguardless they will be their next week.------------------ ~*Daniela*~ AIM: SeXxY BaBy DHOMEPAGE:hometown.aol.com/sexxybabyd"~People Who Know-Dont Talk And People Who Talk-Dont Know~"The Creation Of Me...Was Like God Trippin on *E*...While Smokin some Trees...Saying How Can this Be?...I Just Created Someone Betta Then Me! ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teklord310 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I usually don't go out by myself, but if there is a great DJ spinning and I have nobody to go with i'll do it. It's totally different from going out with friends. I usually end up meeting new people because its a good thing. These days board people are everywhere. Only thing that sucks is driving to and from because its an hour trip each way for me. I say Go for it!------------------ "1,1,2,3,5,8,13,21 ....Mathematics is the language of nature" --BTAIM: teklord310 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brodie332 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 i'm glad to see i'm not alone ine being alone.centrofly wins tonight. i love danny but missmoneypenny's dj at gbh? gotta get my hands dirty in that!cheers evabody. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sd Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I spent 6 weeks in Singapore around Christmas and New Years on my own. They have a great club scene down there with excellent DJ's. I knew no one and used to go out by myself all the time, I probably had the best 6 weeks of clubbing of my life. I met really cool people whenever I wanted to, danced when I wanted to and heard great DJ's, among them, Carl Cox and Darren Emerson (New Years, the night of newest GU). Since then, if theirs a good DJ spinning I don't hesitate to fly solo.SD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brodie332 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 just curious.i told people at work that i do this quite often. they look at me like i'm a leper and go "isn't that weird?". i love dance itself, and there's nothin like hearing a great dj spin. what's 'weird' about that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nlichau Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I used to do it myself-and most of my girlfriends too.Nothing wrong with it!!------------------As I dance I create my own language... with every beat of my heart is the music I will dance through life to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 no its scary! ------------------ AIM: TRANCEpotting transcend 1. To pass beyond the limits of2. To be greater than, as in intensity or power; surpass3. To exist above and independent of (material experience or the universe) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LavenderMenace Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I LOVE going by myself!!!Go when you want, leave when you want.dance with anyone you want. you get the idea.no one cares what you do. its very liberating.------------------ "Contained in music somehow more than just sound,This inspiration coming and twisting things around" --Op Ivy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkissa Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 its sooooo much more fun to just be out on the dance floor all by yourself, when it's not crowded and just close your eyes and dance alone. you can actually feel the music. so i am with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nlichau Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by trancend:no its scary! LOL ------------------As I dance I create my own language... with every beat of my heart is the music I will dance through life to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jprutig Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by lavendermenace:I LOVE going by myself!!!Go when you want, leave when you want.dance with anyone you want. you get the idea.no one cares what you do. its very liberating.i'm with you, rockstar------------------you can judge the quality and content of one's character by the way they treat someone that can do nothing for them...my choice is what i choose to do and if i'm causing no harm it shouldn't bother youyour choice is who you choose to be and if you're causing no harm then you're alright with me - ben harper Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by nikkisticks: LOL it is!------------------ AIM: TRANCEpotting transcend 1. To pass beyond the limits of2. To be greater than, as in intensity or power; surpass3. To exist above and independent of (material experience or the universe) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezd2 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by xpander: When i'm w/ friends at a club, a lot of the time I end up losing myself and losing track of them dancing to the music. So there's often not that much of a difference...Shits the same with me. I purposely lose them in clubs b/c I like to dance myself. For some reason I dont like looking over my shoulder nad seeing one of my boys. It tewnds to cramp my space. Don't get me wrong I love to go w/ my friends but I like just walking in w/ them and scoping out the scene and maybe meeting up w/ them every hour for a brief spell. Plus my friends leave to early. Im seriously considering by myself one nite to see how it is.------------------YaY to all my P-E-E-ps who BUMP and grind their way through this K-razy life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sobeton Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by brodie332:just curious.i told people at work that i do this quite often. they look at me like i'm a leper and go "isn't that weird?". i love dance itself, and there's nothin like hearing a great dj spin. what's 'weird' about that? " TARGET=_blank>http://bbs.clubplanet.com/ubb/smilies/cwm11.gif</A> nothing weird about enjoying yourself. it's about the music , and if that's what moves you; do it. I go to clubs by myself sometimes. I've met some kewl people out on the dance floor. enjoy yourself .. peace, sobeton------------------ [This message has been edited by sobeton (edited 07-14-2001).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I've never gone out to a club by myself, but I woulnd't have a problem with it.------------------Clubchick20@hotmail.comAim: Romina321 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 i cant do it.. i need at least one other person to be out with me.. ------------------*~HyPtNoTiZe~* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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