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Do U take Ur bad Mood out on Ur mate?

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I never take work home. I refuse to... It is not fair to my lady. Nor is it fair to anyone else... I am 2 different people when I am in the office and when I am at home...

I would not say I take it out on her. But when I am in a bad mood for other reasons... I am kinda in the days. She knows things are going on in my head and we just talk about it.

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I am a person that is usually happy....as corny as that may sound.

So when something is upsetting me, it is very obvious to everyone.

I try not to bring things like this home from work, and vice versa, but it happens. Especially if the kids are cranky and whining or crying, that never helps. I always try to be as loving as I can be with my husband, though. He says it's my best quality :D. But sometimes, it happens.

Nobody's perfect.

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Originally posted by fliptoniaaa

when im mad i totally take it out on themrs!!!!!!!!!!!!

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

well when im cranky im exactly that, but if u just leave me alone ill get over it!

Yeah, I'm his punching bag. :box:

He loves taking things out on me. :rolleyes:

But I get him back....by drowning him in my love.... :tongue:

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I've done so in the past, and have had it done to me many times. It can very easily become a relationship killer.

I try not to do it anymore. I'll totally bitch *to* my boyfriend about whatever is bothering me- both to get it off my chest, and also to warn him about the kind of mood I'm in- but I don't bitch *at* him. We've each made that mistake a few times and then apologized as soon as we realized what we were doing. If I feel my horns about to show, I just bite my tongue.

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Originally posted by themrs

Yeah, I'm his punching bag. :box:

He loves taking things out on me. :rolleyes:

But I get him back....by drowning him in my love.... :tongue:

I live by that old saying "Kill em with kindness"

sometimes people find it hard to believe that someone (me) can be this nice.

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Originally posted by tastyt

I try not to do it anymore. I'll totally bitch *to* my boyfriend about whatever is bothering me- both to get it off my chest, and also to warn him about the kind of mood I'm in- but I don't bitch *at* him. We've each made that mistake a few times and then apologized as soon as we realized what we were doing. If I feel my horns about to show, I just bite my tongue.

my ex and i used to go about it the same way. He's always so mild mannered....when he actually did get mad a few times, he frightened me.

anyway, for the first time in my dating history, him and i had/have enuf respect for one another to either talk it out or just plain old say we're in a bad f'n mood.

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I myself have some anger management problems lol

I honestly scare myself sometimes. I dont think, i just act. Im the type of person that will beat the shit out of someone for giving me the finger while driving (it has happend).

My g/f, my parents, cousins...anyone close to me knows to not be around me when im angry. I hate it. I have gotten alot better and im trying to really control it but its not easy ill tell you that much. I am 99% of the time a very happy, fun, loving, person...until I get pissed off.

Im man enough to apologize when im wrong. Ive only taken it out on my g/f once, no hitting was (or ever will be) involved...Just arguments.

Tek

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no, i treat my girl liike a queen...but when she plays her fucking cheating games..i want to spit on her.. i could never hit her tho.. maybe if she was fat or black i could

dont play games with me..and i wont be a mean basterd.. plain and simple

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I never vent/or get pissed off at others around me for something that happened before.

I tend to be nice/cool to people around me regardless of how I feel..

but then again, don't mess with me, because I will also treat people the way I get treated.

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she has learned to just leave me the fuck alone and I'll get over it.

but it took a long time to get her to realize that sometimes I get upset and it doesn't have anything to do with her.

but then again.... she is an angel to put up with my shit. She has about a hundred times more shit to bitch about than I do.

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Originally posted by sexxyh

unfortinately i tend to snap at people so bad....especially during THAT TIME that sometimes i even have to apologize the next day...but people who are close to me already know not to take it personaly..not that thats an excuse

You scare me :shake: :shake:

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