tommyarmani Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Be honest. How many of you for instance, if your having a bad day at work or are cranky/tired will vent and be a fucking asshole to others around you.I happen to always be pleasant, kind & loving.Thanks,Brandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I never take work home. I refuse to... It is not fair to my lady. Nor is it fair to anyone else... I am 2 different people when I am in the office and when I am at home...I would not say I take it out on her. But when I am in a bad mood for other reasons... I am kinda in the days. She knows things are going on in my head and we just talk about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted September 16 Author Report Share Posted September 16 So if your not in the mood to talk, You'll politely say "not now" rather than be a dick & pick a fight?Right brandy?? :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotbarbiedoll Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 If Im having a bad day in general, I wont start flipping out on my friends or my boyfriend for no reason..But its hard to totally be yourself and act like nothing is wrong if in fact it is ..I guess I'd take things more to heart or to the extreme than say on a "normal" day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 If I'm having a bad day or I'm in a bad mood I usually just keep to myself until I feel better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I am a person that is usually happy....as corny as that may sound.So when something is upsetting me, it is very obvious to everyone.I try not to bring things like this home from work, and vice versa, but it happens. Especially if the kids are cranky and whining or crying, that never helps. I always try to be as loving as I can be with my husband, though. He says it's my best quality . But sometimes, it happens.Nobody's perfect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted September 16 Author Report Share Posted September 16 Its a classic case of displacement. If you are angry at your boss dont come home & kick the dog. You need to learn to hangle your angerThanks,John wanye Gacy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 when im mad i totally take it out on themrs!!!!!!!!!!!! :laugh: well when im cranky im exactly that, but if u just leave me alone ill get over it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa when im mad i totally take it out on themrs!!!!!!!!!!!! :laugh: well when im cranky im exactly that, but if u just leave me alone ill get over it! Yeah, I'm his punching bag. He loves taking things out on me. But I get him back....by drowning him in my love.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I've done so in the past, and have had it done to me many times. It can very easily become a relationship killer.I try not to do it anymore. I'll totally bitch *to* my boyfriend about whatever is bothering me- both to get it off my chest, and also to warn him about the kind of mood I'm in- but I don't bitch *at* him. We've each made that mistake a few times and then apologized as soon as we realized what we were doing. If I feel my horns about to show, I just bite my tongue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted September 16 Author Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by themrs Yeah, I'm his punching bag. He loves taking things out on me. But I get him back....by drowning him in my love.... I live by that old saying "Kill em with kindness"sometimes people find it hard to believe that someone (me) can be this nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by tastyt I try not to do it anymore. I'll totally bitch *to* my boyfriend about whatever is bothering me- both to get it off my chest, and also to warn him about the kind of mood I'm in- but I don't bitch *at* him. We've each made that mistake a few times and then apologized as soon as we realized what we were doing. If I feel my horns about to show, I just bite my tongue. my ex and i used to go about it the same way. He's always so mild mannered....when he actually did get mad a few times, he frightened me.anyway, for the first time in my dating history, him and i had/have enuf respect for one another to either talk it out or just plain old say we're in a bad f'n mood. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teknojunkee Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I myself have some anger management problems lolI honestly scare myself sometimes. I dont think, i just act. Im the type of person that will beat the shit out of someone for giving me the finger while driving (it has happend).My g/f, my parents, cousins...anyone close to me knows to not be around me when im angry. I hate it. I have gotten alot better and im trying to really control it but its not easy ill tell you that much. I am 99% of the time a very happy, fun, loving, person...until I get pissed off.Im man enough to apologize when im wrong. Ive only taken it out on my g/f once, no hitting was (or ever will be) involved...Just arguments.Tek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 plain & simple - yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nynyny Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 no, i treat my girl liike a queen...but when she plays her fucking cheating games..i want to spit on her.. i could never hit her tho.. maybe if she was fat or black i coulddont play games with me..and i wont be a mean basterd.. plain and simple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hispm Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I never vent/or get pissed off at others around me for something that happened before.I tend to be nice/cool to people around me regardless of how I feel..but then again, don't mess with me, because I will also treat people the way I get treated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 guilty...i do it to everybody if im in a bad mood...ull know i also try and make it seem like ur the one with the attitude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 I do but that's usually because he's the one who puts me in the bad mood Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nynyny Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 Originally posted by i3itch I do but that's usually because he's the one who puts me in the bad mood Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 Originally posted by nynyny You calling me stupid...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shroomy Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 she has learned to just leave me the fuck alone and I'll get over it.but it took a long time to get her to realize that sometimes I get upset and it doesn't have anything to do with her.but then again.... she is an angel to put up with my shit. She has about a hundred times more shit to bitch about than I do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 lol if i'm in a bad mood i don't really direct my anger at anybody but everyone knows to stay away from me unless they want to get an earful... i have a terrible temper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 unfortinately i tend to snap at people so bad....especially during THAT TIME that sometimes i even have to apologize the next day...but people who are close to me already know not to take it personaly..not that thats an excuse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 Originally posted by sexxyh unfortinately i tend to snap at people so bad....especially during THAT TIME that sometimes i even have to apologize the next day...but people who are close to me already know not to take it personaly..not that thats an excuse You scare me :shake: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 ill vent, but then ususlly ok, depending on how bad it is if that dont work then i that will ususlly do it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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