jonyquest Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shroomy Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Its too much when you cant type because your hands are so cramped you can only post smilies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 is there such a thing??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moz Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by sugarnspice69 is there such a thing??? I don't believe there is such a thing as too much:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by jonyquest when you start asking others what too much is, its too much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by bullseye when you start asking others what too much is, its too much ahahah, yeah~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daemoncel Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 chaffin and scabbing are probably a tell-tale sign! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 ...i think when u go blind:cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teklord310 Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 when you have to nair your palms on a daily basis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonyquest Posted September 22 Author Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by shroomy Its too much when you cant type because your hands are so cramped you can only post smilies. i knew it was too much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonyquest Posted September 22 Author Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by sugarnspice69 is there such a thing??? you can so get it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by moz I don't believe there is such a thing as too much:D i didnt think so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Latley I think iv been masturbating way to much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 When your clit goes numb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rfkfreak Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by sugarnspice69 i didnt think so When you do it too much that it precludes you from going out and getting ass...then it's too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by rfkfreak When you do it too much that it precludes you from going out and getting ass...then it's too much. i dont need to go out and get some, i gots my own piece, lol, but u dont understand im a nympho , but i only mast when i dont get it for a while Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 like 2 dayz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 For guys... if you wind up giving yourself an accidental circumcision... you may be jerking off too much. And if you're already circumcised, and you wind up tugging it so much that it starts to look as though you have foreskin- give it a rest already! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rfkfreak Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by sugarnspice69 i dont need to go out and get some, i gots my own piece, lol, but u dont understand im a nympho , but i only mast when i dont get it for a while I didn't say you specifically, I just said when it precludes you (as in an individual not as in sugarnspice69) then it's too much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by rfkfreak I didn't say you specifically, I just said when it precludes you (as in an individual not as in sugarnspice69) then it's too much... ooooooooooooohhh......... ok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NOT IN USE Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 its been two weeks, no sex for me, i am burning a hole in my right hand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxgrooveericxx Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 Too much would be 5 times a day or more.....Which reminds me.......I'll be back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool2223423123 Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 Try masturbating and getting closer and closer to ejaculation and backing off.... you may find that you are able to have small orgasms, you can have more and more until you ejaculate, and I suppose if you got good at it you could make them stronger. I don't know if this is what the article means for you to do, I would guess so.It says to only ejaculate twice a month, but it doesn't specify about orgasms without ejaculation. "A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculationfrequency of twice monthly or 24 times in a year.If at the same time he pays careful attention to proper diet andexercise he will have a long and healthy life"[sun Su-mo]"As the great Taoist Doctor Sun points out, diet, exercise and sexualdiscipline form the three pillars of Taoist health and longevityregimens.The principles of Tao apply equally to men and women. In both men and women, semen-essence is the fuel that drivessexuality. It is the source not only of physical capacity for sex butalso of sexual interest and emotional affection for the oppositegender.However, since women do not 'leak' when they ejaculate, orgasm doesnot rob them of sexual drive and interest after the 'first act'.Therefore, the practices required to achieve the harmony of Yin & Yangmust be cultivated primarily by men. This chapter is thus addressedmainly to men, although the information contained herein should bestudied and understood by women who consort with Taoist men or whowish to convert their men into Taoists.Western medicine claims that men naturally replenish their semensupply soon after ejaculation and that the male's capacity forproducing semen is virtually limitless.This is a highly misleading generalization. Simply compare ejaculationwith blood donation, and you'll see the fallacy. After donating a pintof blood, you feel week and tired for a day or two, until the lostpint is replenished. Blood clinics advise donors not to give bloodmore than a few times each year in order to avoid chronic fatigue, lowresistance and excessive strain on the circulatory system.According to Chinese physicians, the same point applies to semen,except that the loss of semen is even harder to replace than blood.The body must invest a lot of essence and energy to fully replenishsemen supplies and re-establish proper hormone balance after a manejaculates.When ejaculation frequency exceeds the capacity of the body to fullyreplenish semen, men experience chronic fatigue, low resistance,irritation and other symptoms of essence and energy deficiency. Theyalso lose all sexual interest in their partners, who may well be readyfor more action.True, teenage boys and young men in their early 20's replenish semenfaster than they could possibly expend it, but the notion that thiscapacity continues indefinitely into adulthood is patently false.It is women, not men, whose sexual potency is 'inexhaustible'.Celibacy, however is not the answer. for that deprives men of thetherapeutic benefits of sexual stimulation. The answer is ejaculationcontrol. Frequent intercourse with infrequent ejaculation maintains amans interest in the act as well as his capacity to continueindefinitely until his partner is fully satisfied.Men who ejaculate once or more on a daily basis may eventually 'losetheir minds', since 20 percent of male semen is composed ofcerebrospinal fluid. Frequent ejaculation thus causes a chronic drainof the vital fluids that the brain and spine require to functionproperly.The resulting deficiency of cerebrospinal fluid can cause suchincreasingly common conditions as premature senility, inability toconcentrate, chronic depression, loss of sexual drive and a host ofother related symptoms.Furthermore, recent medical evidence indicates that with each andevery ejaculation men suffer a significant loss of zinc, a rare butvital trace element.Frequent ejaculation thus results in a chronic, critical deficiency ofzinc, symptoms of which include loss of memory, mental confusion,paranoia and hypersensitivity to sunlight. These facts seem to verifythe 'old wives tale' that excessive male masturbation addles the mind,weakens the spine and leads to blindness.The Tao enables the male member to become an all-weather instrument ofequal competence to that of its female counterpart and permits man andwoman to 'make love not war', while at the same time protecting thehealth and prolonging the lives of both partners."Western medicine claims that men naturally replenish their semensupply soon after ejaculation and that the male's capacity forproducing semen is virtually limitless.This is a highly misleading generalization. Simply compare ejaculation with blood donation, and you'll see thefallacy. After donating a pint of blood, you feel week and tired for aday or two, until the lost pint is replenished. Blood clinics advisedonors not to give blood more than a few times each year in order toavoid chronic fatigue, low resistance and excessive strain on thecirculatory system."Send this page to someone. Touch their life. Spread the word!http://www.hps-online.com Helping people survive online.Regulating Ejaculation FrequencyAll schools of Taoism agree that retention of semen and properregulation of its emission are indispensable skills for male adepts ofthe way.In their writings, the adepts of ancient China each left us their ownpersonal guidelines for determining emission frequency.By combining their various suggestions with your own individualrequirements and practical experience, you may readily determine anemission schedule that suits your personal needs.Let's start with some plain talk from our old friend and sexualmentor, the Plain Girl. Confused by the concepts of 'sparing vitalessence' and 'regulating leakage', the Yellow Emperor addressed hisdoubts to the Plain Girl and got this reply:Some men are strong, some are weak, some men are old and others are intheir prime. Each should live according to his own vitality and nottry to force the joys of sex. Forcing joy is harmful.Thus a robust male of 20 may ejaculate twice daily, but an emaciatedone should do so no more than once daily.A 30-year-old male may ejaculate once a day, but only once every twodays if he's an inferior specimen.A flourishing man of 40 may emit semen once every three days, but ifhe's weak he may do so only once every four days.A robust man of 50 may ejaculate once every five days, but only onceevery ten days if he is weak.A 60-year-old man in good health may emit once every ten days, or onceevery 20 days if his health is poor.At 70, a robust man emit once a month, but a weak one should no longemit semen at all.The Tang Dynasty physician Lee Tung-hsuan, in Mysterious Master of theCave, used frequency of intercourse rather than day-intervals as hisrecommended measure for regulating emission:When having sexual intercourse with women, a man should emit semenonly two or three times in ten.Master Liu Ching, a Han Dynasty adept credited in dynastic archiveswith achieving a life span of over 300 years, preferred to regulatehis emissions according to the cosmic cycles of seasonal change:In spring, a man may permit himself to ejaculate once every threedays, but in summer and autumn he should limit his ejaculations totwice a month. During the cold of winter, a man should preserve hissemen and avoid ejaculation altogether. The Way of Heaven is toaccommodate Yang essence in winter. A man who follows this guidelinewill live a long and healthy life. One ejaculation in cold winter isone hundred times more harmful than an ejaculation in the spring.The most practical advice of all on the subject of ejaculation controlcomes from the centenarian physician Sun Ssu-mo, the Tang Dynastyadept who outlive three emperors by practicing what he preached. Hisgeneral yardstick, quoted at the head of this chapter, was twice amonth, or 24 times per year. His own personal regimen, however, wasonly one emission per 100 copulation's. Dr. Sun lived to the age of101.According to Sun Ssu-mo a man should 'become acquainted' with Tao bythe age of 30, and 'acquire a thorough working knowledge' of it by 40:Before the age of 40, most men are still full of vigorous passion. Butas soon as they reach their 40th birthday, they suddenly notice theirpotency declining. Just at that very point of declining potency themyriad ailments will descend upon him like a swam of bees. If thissituation continues unchecked, he will soon find himself beyond cure.Dr. Sun repeatedly warned his male patients of the dangers involved inexcessive ejaculation. He compared the situation to that of assputtering oil-lamp: just before the fuel is spent and the lamp isabout to extinguish, the flame suddenly flares up brightly, then dies:Each and every time a man restrains himself and retains his semen itis like adding new oil to a lamp that is about to extinguish. But if aman fails to control himself and ejaculates every time he lies downwith a woman, it is like removing oil from a lamp that is alreadynearly burnt out.As Sun Ssu-mo sums up so well, 'If a man squanders his semen, he willsoon die. For a man, this is the most important point to rememberabout sex.'If a man has no intercourse with a women, his mind will grow restlessand he will yearn for female company....Forcibly suppressing thenatural urge to emit semen at certain intervals is not only difficultfor a man but will actually make it easier to lose semen. He will loseit during sleep through nocturnal emissions [i.e., wet dreams] ...Oneemission of semen in this manner is equivalent to the loss suffered byone hundred emissions during normal sexual intercourse.Sun Ssu-mo's advice to men on regulating ejaculation frequency can besummarized as follows:By the age of 30, a man begins to lose vitality and should stopsquandering his semen recklessly. It is time to give up the habit ofmasturbation and to become acquainted with the Tao of Yin and Yang.By the age of 40, a man has reached the critical turning point in hislife. If he wishes to prevent the rapid downhill slide into the gravewhich undisciplined sexual relations cause at this stage in life, hemust now start practicing ejaculation control as a habit.By the age of 50 his ejaculation frequency should be no more onceevery 20 days.By the age of 60, most men should completely curtail ejaculation (butnot intercourse). Exceptionally healthy men with strong libidos,however, may continue emitting semen about once a month, or, betteryet, once in every 100 coition's.By the age of 70, if a man is still hale and hearty, he may continueusing Dr. Sun's ideal measure of once in every 100 indefinitely.Practicing ejaculation control is just as important for strong,healthy males as it is for the weak and elderly. Those who's startthis regimen early in life avoid the worst ravages of old age, retardthe loss of vital energy and live longer lives than those who waituntil middle age to begin.For most men, complete abstention from ejaculation is just as harmfulas excessive emission. It creates a deep yearning for sex thatdisrupts the harmony of essence, energy and spirit, and ultimatelyleads to the even greater loss of sexual essence and energy throughthe uncontrollable, intense ejaculations caused by 'wet dreams'.In order to determine your own ideal emission schedule, you must firstmaster the methods of semen retention introduced below, then followthe guidelines already given in a trial-and -error appraisal of yourown vitality.An ejaculation should leave a man feeling as light and refreshed as awoman feels after orgasm- not exhausted, empty and uninterested infurther sex.Such an ejaculation may be experienced only when semen supply is whatthe Chinese call "full" and "flourishing". If an ejaculation leavesyou tired and depressed, you should increase the interval betweenemissions.You may also help minimize the loss of essence and energy due to semenemission by learning to 'come lightly' when you choose to ejaculate.Instead of thrusting to a frenzy just prior to ejaculation, approachthe brink slowly and gently and savor the exquisite sensation ofrelease, then deliberately 'squeeze off' the urogential canal with adeep contraction of the anus and penile shaft before ejaculation isover. This will conserve about 20-30 per cent of your semen whilestill providing the desired ejaculatory release. Immediately afteremission, rhythmically contract the entire urogenital diaphragm for aminute or two by practicing anal sphincter locks. This tightens up thepelvic floor, which becomes loose and flaccid after ejaculation, andthereby prevents post-coital loss of chee through the perineum, anusand urogenital canal. This exercise is highly beneficial for women aswell, because it prevents loss of chee through the vagina andencourages sexual energy to move up the spinal channels to the brain.Since few men will be induced to adopt such a disciplined andunconventional approach to sexual relations unless thoroughlyconvinced by personal experience of its necessity and efficacy, hereare a few simple experiments any man may perform to establish thetruth of Tao is sex:Try engaging in a vigorous bout of intercourse about half an hourbefore participating in an athletic event or stage performance- oncewith ejaculation and once without - and compare your resultingperformances. You'll be amazed by the difference.Or try intercourse with and without ejaculation late at night andcompare the amount of sleep you need and how you feel upon arising thenext morning.An even more stark comparison is the difference in vitality feltthroughout the day after having sexual intercourse first thing in themorning, with and without ejaculation.Try experimenting with other factors as well, such as weather, moodand physical condition. You will most certainly notice a profounddifference in how you feel after intercourse with and withoutejaculation on freezing cold day in mid-winter, when, as Peng-Tzepoint out, 'one ejaculation is one hundred times more harmful than onein spring'.Men who sharply reduce their emission frequencies during the winterseason without reducing intercourse suffer far less from colds,influenza, chills, and winter 'blues' and other symptoms related tocold weather. And when you're feeling in 'low spirits' to start with,ejaculation will only drag you deeper into depression, while aprolonged bout without emission of semen is an excellent way to 'pickup your spirits'.The same goes for physical condition: when a man is ailing, the lossof semen only makes his condition worse by robbing him of his greatestsource of resistance just when he needs it most. Disciplinedintercourse, on the other hand, is an excellent palliative for manychronic ailments, especially those influenced by hormone levels. MilesDavis and Mohammed Ali came to these conclusions in precisely thismanner- by trial and error- and so can you.Every man must establish his own ideal emission rate as an overallguideline, but he must also consider the unique circumstances of eachoccasion before deciding whether it is appropriate to ejaculate ornot.The calendar may tell you that it is time to treat yourself to anejaculation, but if you happen to be drunk at the time, or gorged withfood, or ill, then you'd best forgo that brief spasm of pleasure andkeep your batteries fully charged. In the Taoist text entitledESSENTIALS FOR NURTURING LIFE, we find the following warning:Ejaculation is strictly forbidden when a man is drunk or gorged withfood. Such emissions injure a man a hundred times more than undernormal conditions and may cause dizziness and ugly sores. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonyquest Posted September 23 Author Report Share Posted September 23 Originally posted by cool2223423123 Try masturbating and getting closer and closer to ejaculation and backing off.... you may find that you are able to have small orgasms, you can have more and more until you ejaculate, and I suppose if you got good at it you could make them stronger. I don't know if this is what the article means for you to do, I would guess so.It says to only ejaculate twice a month, but it doesn't specify about orgasms without ejaculation. "A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculationfrequency of twice monthly or 24 times in a year.If at the same time he pays careful attention to proper diet andexercise he will have a long and healthy life"[sun Su-mo]"As the great Taoist Doctor Sun points out, diet, exercise and sexualdiscipline form the three pillars of Taoist health and longevityregimens.The principles of Tao apply equally to men and women. In both men and women, semen-essence is the fuel that drivessexuality. It is the source not only of physical capacity for sex butalso of sexual interest and emotional affection for the oppositegender.However, since women do not 'leak' when they ejaculate, orgasm doesnot rob them of sexual drive and interest after the 'first act'.Therefore, the practices required to achieve the harmony of Yin & Yangmust be cultivated primarily by men. This chapter is thus addressedmainly to men, although the information contained herein should bestudied and understood by women who consort with Taoist men or whowish to convert their men into Taoists.Western medicine claims that men naturally replenish their semensupply soon after ejaculation and that the male's capacity forproducing semen is virtually limitless.This is a highly misleading generalization. Simply compare ejaculationwith blood donation, and you'll see the fallacy. After donating a pintof blood, you feel week and tired for a day or two, until the lostpint is replenished. Blood clinics advise donors not to give bloodmore than a few times each year in order to avoid chronic fatigue, lowresistance and excessive strain on the circulatory system.According to Chinese physicians, the same point applies to semen,except that the loss of semen is even harder to replace than blood.The body must invest a lot of essence and energy to fully replenishsemen supplies and re-establish proper hormone balance after a manejaculates.When ejaculation frequency exceeds the capacity of the body to fullyreplenish semen, men experience chronic fatigue, low resistance,irritation and other symptoms of essence and energy deficiency. Theyalso lose all sexual interest in their partners, who may well be readyfor more action.True, teenage boys and young men in their early 20's replenish semenfaster than they could possibly expend it, but the notion that thiscapacity continues indefinitely into adulthood is patently false.It is women, not men, whose sexual potency is 'inexhaustible'.Celibacy, however is not the answer. for that deprives men of thetherapeutic benefits of sexual stimulation. The answer is ejaculationcontrol. Frequent intercourse with infrequent ejaculation maintains amans interest in the act as well as his capacity to continueindefinitely until his partner is fully satisfied.Men who ejaculate once or more on a daily basis may eventually 'losetheir minds', since 20 percent of male semen is composed ofcerebrospinal fluid. Frequent ejaculation thus causes a chronic drainof the vital fluids that the brain and spine require to functionproperly.The resulting deficiency of cerebrospinal fluid can cause suchincreasingly common conditions as premature senility, inability toconcentrate, chronic depression, loss of sexual drive and a host ofother related symptoms.Furthermore, recent medical evidence indicates that with each andevery ejaculation men suffer a significant loss of zinc, a rare butvital trace element.Frequent ejaculation thus results in a chronic, critical deficiency ofzinc, symptoms of which include loss of memory, mental confusion,paranoia and hypersensitivity to sunlight. These facts seem to verifythe 'old wives tale' that excessive male masturbation addles the mind,weakens the spine and leads to blindness.The Tao enables the male member to become an all-weather instrument ofequal competence to that of its female counterpart and permits man andwoman to 'make love not war', while at the same time protecting thehealth and prolonging the lives of both partners."Western medicine claims that men naturally replenish their semensupply soon after ejaculation and that the male's capacity forproducing semen is virtually limitless.This is a highly misleading generalization. Simply compare ejaculation with blood donation, and you'll see thefallacy. After donating a pint of blood, you feel week and tired for aday or two, until the lost pint is replenished. Blood clinics advisedonors not to give blood more than a few times each year in order toavoid chronic fatigue, low resistance and excessive strain on thecirculatory system."Send this page to someone. Touch their life. Spread the word!http://www.hps-online.com Helping people survive online.Regulating Ejaculation FrequencyAll schools of Taoism agree that retention of semen and properregulation of its emission are indispensable skills for male adepts ofthe way.In their writings, the adepts of ancient China each left us their ownpersonal guidelines for determining emission frequency.By combining their various suggestions with your own individualrequirements and practical experience, you may readily determine anemission schedule that suits your personal needs.Let's start with some plain talk from our old friend and sexualmentor, the Plain Girl. Confused by the concepts of 'sparing vitalessence' and 'regulating leakage', the Yellow Emperor addressed hisdoubts to the Plain Girl and got this reply:Some men are strong, some are weak, some men are old and others are intheir prime. Each should live according to his own vitality and nottry to force the joys of sex. Forcing joy is harmful.Thus a robust male of 20 may ejaculate twice daily, but an emaciatedone should do so no more than once daily.A 30-year-old male may ejaculate once a day, but only once every twodays if he's an inferior specimen.A flourishing man of 40 may emit semen once every three days, but ifhe's weak he may do so only once every four days.A robust man of 50 may ejaculate once every five days, but only onceevery ten days if he is weak.A 60-year-old man in good health may emit once every ten days, or onceevery 20 days if his health is poor.At 70, a robust man emit once a month, but a weak one should no longemit semen at all.The Tang Dynasty physician Lee Tung-hsuan, in Mysterious Master of theCave, used frequency of intercourse rather than day-intervals as hisrecommended measure for regulating emission:When having sexual intercourse with women, a man should emit semenonly two or three times in ten.Master Liu Ching, a Han Dynasty adept credited in dynastic archiveswith achieving a life span of over 300 years, preferred to regulatehis emissions according to the cosmic cycles of seasonal change:In spring, a man may permit himself to ejaculate once every threedays, but in summer and autumn he should limit his ejaculations totwice a month. During the cold of winter, a man should preserve hissemen and avoid ejaculation altogether. The Way of Heaven is toaccommodate Yang essence in winter. A man who follows this guidelinewill live a long and healthy life. One ejaculation in cold winter isone hundred times more harmful than an ejaculation in the spring.The most practical advice of all on the subject of ejaculation controlcomes from the centenarian physician Sun Ssu-mo, the Tang Dynastyadept who outlive three emperors by practicing what he preached. Hisgeneral yardstick, quoted at the head of this chapter, was twice amonth, or 24 times per year. His own personal regimen, however, wasonly one emission per 100 copulation's. Dr. Sun lived to the age of101.According to Sun Ssu-mo a man should 'become acquainted' with Tao bythe age of 30, and 'acquire a thorough working knowledge' of it by 40:Before the age of 40, most men are still full of vigorous passion. Butas soon as they reach their 40th birthday, they suddenly notice theirpotency declining. Just at that very point of declining potency themyriad ailments will descend upon him like a swam of bees. If thissituation continues unchecked, he will soon find himself beyond cure.Dr. Sun repeatedly warned his male patients of the dangers involved inexcessive ejaculation. He compared the situation to that of assputtering oil-lamp: just before the fuel is spent and the lamp isabout to extinguish, the flame suddenly flares up brightly, then dies:Each and every time a man restrains himself and retains his semen itis like adding new oil to a lamp that is about to extinguish. But if aman fails to control himself and ejaculates every time he lies downwith a woman, it is like removing oil from a lamp that is alreadynearly burnt out.As Sun Ssu-mo sums up so well, 'If a man squanders his semen, he willsoon die. For a man, this is the most important point to rememberabout sex.'If a man has no intercourse with a women, his mind will grow restlessand he will yearn for female company....Forcibly suppressing thenatural urge to emit semen at certain intervals is not only difficultfor a man but will actually make it easier to lose semen. He will loseit during sleep through nocturnal emissions [i.e., wet dreams] ...Oneemission of semen in this manner is equivalent to the loss suffered byone hundred emissions during normal sexual intercourse.Sun Ssu-mo's advice to men on regulating ejaculation frequency can besummarized as follows:By the age of 30, a man begins to lose vitality and should stopsquandering his semen recklessly. It is time to give up the habit ofmasturbation and to become acquainted with the Tao of Yin and Yang.By the age of 40, a man has reached the critical turning point in hislife. If he wishes to prevent the rapid downhill slide into the gravewhich undisciplined sexual relations cause at this stage in life, hemust now start practicing ejaculation control as a habit.By the age of 50 his ejaculation frequency should be no more onceevery 20 days.By the age of 60, most men should completely curtail ejaculation (butnot intercourse). Exceptionally healthy men with strong libidos,however, may continue emitting semen about once a month, or, betteryet, once in every 100 coition's.By the age of 70, if a man is still hale and hearty, he may continueusing Dr. Sun's ideal measure of once in every 100 indefinitely.Practicing ejaculation control is just as important for strong,healthy males as it is for the weak and elderly. Those who's startthis regimen early in life avoid the worst ravages of old age, retardthe loss of vital energy and live longer lives than those who waituntil middle age to begin.For most men, complete abstention from ejaculation is just as harmfulas excessive emission. It creates a deep yearning for sex thatdisrupts the harmony of essence, energy and spirit, and ultimatelyleads to the even greater loss of sexual essence and energy throughthe uncontrollable, intense ejaculations caused by 'wet dreams'.In order to determine your own ideal emission schedule, you must firstmaster the methods of semen retention introduced below, then followthe guidelines already given in a trial-and -error appraisal of yourown vitality.An ejaculation should leave a man feeling as light and refreshed as awoman feels after orgasm- not exhausted, empty and uninterested infurther sex.Such an ejaculation may be experienced only when semen supply is whatthe Chinese call "full" and "flourishing". If an ejaculation leavesyou tired and depressed, you should increase the interval betweenemissions.You may also help minimize the loss of essence and energy due to semenemission by learning to 'come lightly' when you choose to ejaculate.Instead of thrusting to a frenzy just prior to ejaculation, approachthe brink slowly and gently and savor the exquisite sensation ofrelease, then deliberately 'squeeze off' the urogential canal with adeep contraction of the anus and penile shaft before ejaculation isover. This will conserve about 20-30 per cent of your semen whilestill providing the desired ejaculatory release. Immediately afteremission, rhythmically contract the entire urogenital diaphragm for aminute or two by practicing anal sphincter locks. This tightens up thepelvic floor, which becomes loose and flaccid after ejaculation, andthereby prevents post-coital loss of chee through the perineum, anusand urogenital canal. This exercise is highly beneficial for women aswell, because it prevents loss of chee through the vagina andencourages sexual energy to move up the spinal channels to the brain.Since few men will be induced to adopt such a disciplined andunconventional approach to sexual relations unless thoroughlyconvinced by personal experience of its necessity and efficacy, hereare a few simple experiments any man may perform to establish thetruth of Tao is sex:Try engaging in a vigorous bout of intercourse about half an hourbefore participating in an athletic event or stage performance- oncewith ejaculation and once without - and compare your resultingperformances. You'll be amazed by the difference.Or try intercourse with and without ejaculation late at night andcompare the amount of sleep you need and how you feel upon arising thenext morning.An even more stark comparison is the difference in vitality feltthroughout the day after having sexual intercourse first thing in themorning, with and without ejaculation.Try experimenting with other factors as well, such as weather, moodand physical condition. You will most certainly notice a profounddifference in how you feel after intercourse with and withoutejaculation on freezing cold day in mid-winter, when, as Peng-Tzepoint out, 'one ejaculation is one hundred times more harmful than onein spring'.Men who sharply reduce their emission frequencies during the winterseason without reducing intercourse suffer far less from colds,influenza, chills, and winter 'blues' and other symptoms related tocold weather. And when you're feeling in 'low spirits' to start with,ejaculation will only drag you deeper into depression, while aprolonged bout without emission of semen is an excellent way to 'pickup your spirits'.The same goes for physical condition: when a man is ailing, the lossof semen only makes his condition worse by robbing him of his greatestsource of resistance just when he needs it most. Disciplinedintercourse, on the other hand, is an excellent palliative for manychronic ailments, especially those influenced by hormone levels. MilesDavis and Mohammed Ali came to these conclusions in precisely thismanner- by trial and error- and so can you.Every man must establish his own ideal emission rate as an overallguideline, but he must also consider the unique circumstances of eachoccasion before deciding whether it is appropriate to ejaculate ornot.The calendar may tell you that it is time to treat yourself to anejaculation, but if you happen to be drunk at the time, or gorged withfood, or ill, then you'd best forgo that brief spasm of pleasure andkeep your batteries fully charged. In the Taoist text entitledESSENTIALS FOR NURTURING LIFE, we find the following warning:Ejaculation is strictly forbidden when a man is drunk or gorged withfood. Such emissions injure a man a hundred times more than undernormal conditions and may cause dizziness and ugly sores. dude,, i can't read all that while i'm tryin to get some jerk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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