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...i have constantly argued in my life that it is nice...that it is easier and simpler to be nice...then again, i am an eternal optimist and still maintain some level of hope in mankind...i just think it takes work to be mean...that it requires more thought and energy...positivity has a tendency to free-flow...

BUT

...i have seen the opposite and know it exists...just wanted to get some opinions...i think it's just me and that i'm definitely a weirdo either way...:)

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Originally posted by phatman

...i have constantly argued in my life that it is nice...that it is easier and simpler to be nice...then again, i am an eternal optimist and still maintain some level of hope in mankind...i just think it takes work to be mean...that it requires more thought and energy...positivity has a tendency to free-flow...

BUT

...i have seen the opposite and know it exists...just wanted to get some opinions...i think it's just me and that i'm definitely a weirdo either way...:)

im still pondering what came first..the chicken or the egg???? :confused:
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To me it used to come natural to be mean. I tend to have a cruel sense of humor, but no more.

I remember on our first date, there was a one armed waiter & i couldnt stop laughing & was saying behind his back "I didnt kill my wife".

Now, i am so nice to people, that i seem fake, but im actually just very happy & want others to feel what i feel (happiness).

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Originally posted by tommyarmani

To me it used to come natural to be mean. I tend to have a cruel sense of humor, but no more.

I remember on our first date, there was a one armed waiter & i couldnt stop laughing & was saying behind his back "I didnt kill my wife".

Now, i am so nice to people, that i seem fake, but im actually just very happy & want others to feel what i feel (happiness).

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

closet homo :D

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Originally posted by origskeemr

:D

:laugh: ....UMMM...this sooo goes with our convo last night!..

M::i hate when people cry..or want comfort..ESPECIALLY in the car,,,cause then i have NOWHERE to go!!!!!

J::yea....like sometimes i act all caring but really i'm thinking STFU!what r u crying about!?

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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...speaking of being nice...saturday night, i told my friend that this girl on the dance floor was so ugly, she was like a solar eclipse - you couldnt look directly at her for longer than a few seconds....yea, i'm going to hell...it was the vodka, i tell ya...it was the vodka...........

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Originally posted by phatman

...speaking of being nice...saturday night, i told my friend that this girl on the dance floor was so ugly, she was like a solar eclipse - you couldnt look directly at her for longer than a few seconds....yea, i'm going to hell...it was the vodka, i tell ya...it was the vodka...........

..no need to make excuses.....it's not YOUR fault she is ugly...i blame her parents.....

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I'm an asshole, he's an asshole, we oh wee oh, i'm an asshole, the world's biggest asshole, we oh wee oh, the world's biggest asshole, A SS HO LE everybody A SS HO LE

(i like to park in handicapped spaces while handicapped people make handicapped faces)

Maybe I shouldn't be singing this song, ranting and raving and carrying on, maybe they're right when they tell me i'm wrong. .. . . NAH!

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Originally posted by misk

:laugh: ....UMMM...this sooo goes with our convo last night!..

M::i hate when people cry..or want comfort..ESPECIALLY in the car,,,cause then i have NOWHERE to go!!!!!

J::yea....like sometimes i act all caring but really i'm thinking STFU!what r u crying about!?

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

I told you we are a special breed.

:idea: Casey's tonight for a lil

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I try to be nice, but I don't always come across that way. I have a tendency to be very direct, and some people interpret this as being mean. I always get the comment, "I thought you were a bitch when I first met you, but now that I've gotten to know you, I think you're really nice".

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Unfortunately for me it is more natural to be nice...

I honestly do not think I can be a dick. Even to someone I do not like... I mean I do have a cold side every now and then. But I cannot be mean to someone... The best I can do is just block them out of my life.

Sometimes I wish I was the complete opposite...

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Originally posted by misk

:laugh: ....UMMM...this sooo goes with our convo last night!..

M::i hate when people cry..or want comfort..ESPECIALLY in the car,,,cause then i have NOWHERE to go!!!!!

J::yea....like sometimes i act all caring but really i'm thinking STFU!what r u crying about!?

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

i hate both of you bastards because i know you are both referring to me...at least Josh def. is!!!!:finger:

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Originally posted by c-luv

i hate both of you bastards because i know you are both referring to me...at least Josh def. is!!!!:finger:

lol no I care when you cry if there is a reason. It's just people in general who cry for no fuckin reason. I wanna say, "Wipe those tears you fuckin pussy."

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