weyes Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 it's all a little mixed up, but i think i'm getting a handle on some of all of this.i say i'd like a boyfriend, but what i mean by that is someone who'd be a lot of things to me, not just a sex toy. i think that's true for most people (even the ones on this board - seriously, guys ... i'm getting to something.).when i go out with my friends, they point out people they think are cute and we start to talk about them, but i never point out people first, 'cause i'm not really looking. i'm busy listening to the music, dancing, or doing other things with my friends. and i've been wondering why i don't notice cute guys, when i agree that some are, after my friends point them out.it occurs to me now that i really don't have much of a sex drive anymore. and i don't know if that's because my priorities are different, because that's just something that's happened to me as i've gotten older, or because of my past experiences with men... but i think that could be why i don't even look around for or at guys at clubs anymore.i dunno ... guys still hit on me, but they're always really creepy guys . i'd just like to think that, even though i don't spot guys due to this, they'd still be drawn to me. i just want more.any thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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amyscottsdale Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 it's all a little mixed up, but i think i'm getting a handle on some of all of this.i say i'd like a boyfriend, but what i mean by that is someone who'd be a lot of things to me, not just a sex toy. i think that's true for most people (even the ones on this board - seriously, guys ... i'm getting to something.).when i go out with my friends, they point out people they think are cute and we start to talk about them, but i never point out people first, 'cause i'm not really looking. i'm busy listening to the music, dancing, or doing other things with my friends. and i've been wondering why i don't notice cute guys, when i agree that some are, after my friends point them out.it occurs to me now that i really don't have much of a sex drive anymore. and i don't know if that's because my priorities are different, because that's just something that's happened to me as i've gotten older, or because of my past experiences with men... but i think that could be why i don't even look around for or at guys at clubs anymore.i dunno ... guys still hit on me, but they're always really creepy guys . i'd just like to think that, even though i don't spot guys due to this, they'd still be drawn to me. i just want more.any thoughts?If you aren't looking for just sex, you will meet the WORST guys at the club. And the same goes for you guys, if you aren't looking for just a piece of ass, the girl you pick up at the club will probably be some drunken, money wasting, disloyal, party every night, I only care about myself, bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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pk1 Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Ok, terrific! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djrx06 Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 it's all a little mixed up, but i think i'm getting a handle on some of all of this.i say i'd like a boyfriend, but what i mean by that is someone who'd be a lot of things to me, not just a sex toy. i think that's true for most people (even the ones on this board - seriously, guys ... i'm getting to something.).when i go out with my friends, they point out people they think are cute and we start to talk about them, but i never point out people first, 'cause i'm not really looking. i'm busy listening to the music, dancing, or doing other things with my friends. and i've been wondering why i don't notice cute guys, when i agree that some are, after my friends point them out.it occurs to me now that i really don't have much of a sex drive anymore. and i don't know if that's because my priorities are different, because that's just something that's happened to me as i've gotten older, or because of my past experiences with men... but i think that could be why i don't even look around for or at guys at clubs anymore.i dunno ... guys still hit on me, but they're always really creepy guys . i'd just like to think that, even though i don't spot guys due to this, they'd still be drawn to me. i just want more.any thoughts?Post a pic and we can make some conclusions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 If you aren't looking for just sex, you will meet the WORST guys at the club. And the same goes for you guys, if you aren't looking for just a piece of ass, the girl you pick up at the club will probably be some drunken, money wasting, disloyal, party every night, I only care about myself, bitch.Now wait...what if that chick is you and you are not like that and you only went out this one night...are you still that bitch? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyscottsdale Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Now wait...what if that chick is you and you are not like that and you only went out this one night...are you still that bitch?The odds of meeting THAT nice girl at the club who only goes out once every few years because her friends drag here out are 1 in 999,999,999.I LOVE clubs, but the best (NICE!!!) guys I ever met were out cycling, running, hiking, at the gym... i.e. doing something healthy.All the evil guys I ever met were when I was out drinking, partying or doing bad things (haha, and I was the EVIL girl they met). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 see that's what I mean though... you were the evil girl then you meet someone at the gym... you are still the same person at both places.I dont know that statement just never ever made sense to me... I agree with the idea of it, but wtf its the same damn people lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 cheeeese Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyscottsdale Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 see that's what I mean though... you were the evil girl then you meet someone at the gym... you are still the same person at both places.I dont know that statement just never ever made sense to me... I agree with the idea of it, but wtf its the same damn people lolOk,Back when I was an evil party girl, all I wanted to do was have fun, get laid, take drugs, get drunk, etc. (hmmmmm... maybe that explains my grades)...So if some guy met me, we might have a GREAT time, but if he fell in love with me or some shit he was going to be getting his damn heartbroken because I was in the above mode. Same as when I started dating the cute bartender at my favorite club who wanted to party all the time.These people are probably not boyfriend/girlfriend material. They are fun to bang or be a booty call.For a BOYFRIEND I like someone who is in shape, a bit nerdy ('cause I love computers and such), someone who is super nice to me, who is good a saving money, and who likes to go out and have wild times ONCE in a while. I am not too likely to find the above man at the club (but anything is possible). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 ONLY guy i ever met at a club... couldnt really talk cuz the music was too loud but he was hot and so i gave him my #...When he called back he had the THICKEST accent in the world.. could hardly understand him and then he told me that for a job he "sold cameracorders (thats how he pronounced it) at the store" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philippio Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 Post a pic and we can make some conclusions. :rofl: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 when i go out with my friends, they point out people they think are cute and we start to talk about them, but i never point out people first, 'cause i'm not really looking. i'm busy listening to the music, dancing, or doing other things I know what you mean here cause alot of times I'm not looking/noticing either but it's usually cause I'm just concentrating on drinking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 These people are probably not boyfriend/girlfriend material. They are fun to bang or be a booty call.For a BOYFRIEND I like someone who is in shape, a bit nerdy ('cause I love computers and such), someone who is super nice to me, who is good a saving money, and who likes to go out and have wild times ONCE in a while. I am not too likely to find the above man at the club (but anything is possible).well, thanks for stating the acutely obvious nobody in their right mind would go looking for relationship material at a club/bar...everybody and their mom knows that these places are just for short-term, maybe even one-night, hook ups!and yes some of the finest bitches i've seen were in places other than nightspots...like at the beach or some small neighborhood hangout spot...the ones that have that super-sexy next-door girl look, IMHO, are usually not hardcore party girls...oh and i meet your BF criteria perfectly...im studying CS+math and i do all those other things you mentioned...but you've gotta be very hot if you wanna get with me :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyscottsdale Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 well, thanks for stating the acutely obvious nobody in their right mind would go looking for relationship material at a club/bar...everybody and their mom knows that these places are just for short-term, maybe even one-night, hook ups!and yes some of the finest bitches i've seen were in places other than nightspots...like at the beach or some small neighborhood hangout spot...the ones that have that super-sexy next-door girl look, IMHO, are usually not hardcore party girls...oh and i meet your BF criteria perfectly...im studying CS+math and i do all those other things you mentioned...but you've gotta be very hot if you wanna get with me :D oh yeah, and he can't be an asshole, so you are OUT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 oh yeah, and he can't be an asshole, so you are OUT. how was i being an asshole?? nomembername 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 how was i being an asshole??too late bro...don't try and be nice now cause you know she is a party girl that loves to fuck...you blew it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 too late bro...don't try and be nice now cause you know she is a party girl that loves to fuck...you blew itlol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyscottsdale Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 too late bro...don't try and be nice now cause you know she is a party girl that loves to fuck...you blew itBut, I will say that party girls do tend to like assholes, so I think that attitude will work for you. But I'm a "former" party girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 But, I will say that party girls do tend to like assholes, so I think that attitude will work for you. But I'm a "former" party girl i.e. Full of class amyscottsdale 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted October 8 Author Report Share Posted October 8 thanks for some input, amyscottsdale and nomembername. if anyone else has anything constructive to say about this subject, i'd appreciate it . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 thanks for some input, amyscottsdale and nomembername. if anyone else has anything constructive to say about this subject, i'd appreciate it .wait, I said something helpful...I definitely gotta go back and reread what I wrote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 wait, I said something helpful...I definitely gotta go back and reread what I wroteonly thing I wrote was that I'm usually too busy getting drunk to really pay attention to girls....if that helped than you're very welcome weyes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted October 8 Report Share Posted October 8 see that's what I mean though... you were the evil girl then you meet someone at the gym... you are still the same person at both places.I dont know that statement just never ever made sense to me... I agree with the idea of it, but wtf its the same damn people lolI totally agree. I never understood that whole thing either. amyscottsdale 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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