nyckitty69 Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 I always wondered what the answer to this was.I'm going to say her long hair or HUGE chest, am I wrong? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 Id have to say their personality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 Eyes....and ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 their shoes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodiii Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 the eyes catch you... the bait...the boobs are the trap...and the ass when they walk away... jus keeps you wantin more... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 instead of telling what the first thing is that is attracting me (which is difficult to say), i will turn it around and tell you in which chronoligical order i disqualify:1)is she fat, if yes, she´s out2)her height, if she is not tall (*at least* 1,70cm) i probably won´t even have her on my radar anyway.3)clothing style, does she look cool, does she have an own style going on. a girl can be as beautiful as she wants, if she has the wrong clothes it´s terrible. her chosing the right clothes and having style also speaks a lot about her personality.4)face, especially the eyes and mouth. exotic eye/hair color variations get a plus, like red hair/green eyes, black hair/blue eyes. also in this category: body language. how does she carry herself. with pride, shy, etc...5)ass. (which leads back to 3, does it look good in her clothes)6)tits, not that important to me as long as the rest is in order. but they must not be fake or too big. they should also match her figure. big ass/small tits is a no. same as small ass/big tits.these are chronoligical, if one of them is not fulfilled, i very likely won´t proceed to the next number and dismiss her.if all those are of my liking, i´m in for her. then the talking begins, which would lead to a quite long posts about character traits and behaviours i like and dislike. barraquilla 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
primetime2479 Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 instead of telling what the first thing is that is attracting me (which is difficult to say), i will turn it around and tell you in which chronoligical order i disqualify:1)is she fat, if yes, she´s out2)her height, if she is not tall (*at least* 1,70cm) i probably won´t even have her on my radar anyway.3)clothing style, does she look cool, does she have an own style going on. a girl can be as beautiful as she wants, if she has the wrong clothes it´s terrible. her chosing the right clothes and having style also speaks a lot about her personality.4)face, especially the eyes and mouth. exotic eye/hair color variations get a plus, like red hair/green eyes, black hair/blue eyes. also in this category: body language. how does she carry herself. with pride, shy, etc...5)ass. (which leads back to 3, does it look good in her clothes)6)tits, not that important to me as long as the rest is in order. but they must not be fake or too big. they should also match her figure. big ass/small tits is a no. same as small ass/big tits.these are chronoligical, if one of them is not fulfilled, i very likely won´t proceed to the next number and dismiss her.if all those are of my liking, i´m in for her. then the talking begins, which would lead to a quite long posts about character traits and behaviours i like and dislike.Setting your standards a lil high arent you?I'll keep mine simple, Long hair (must be pretty, not all tangley) nice legs and a tight ass! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 hair, eyes and mouth, just the face in general, If she has an out of this world face or interesting everything else is whatever to an extent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nyckitty69 Posted January 28 Author Report Share Posted January 28 No just looks here... personality is irrelevent for this questionId have to say their personality. tastey.... u better be damn hot to be that specific. I know too many guys like that, btw.. no girl is perfect.let's see 2 for long hair and height... I fit neither category. I'm beginning to wish I never asked! For those of u that look at the ass first: What if she was ugly but had a nice ass, would u still be attracted to her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 Looks dont matter to me tho... its whats on the inside that counts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emjay Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 sure it is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tanyalover Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 What if she was ugly but had a nice ass, would u still be attracted to her? yes, sexuallylike the way girls can get horny by a huge cock let alone...let's see 2 for long hair and height... I fit neither category. the chick from basic instincts has short hair still bein ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 it is actually simply. i don´t have to think about it, i do that on autopilot in a second or so. just making myself concious of my selective criteria and lay it out. thats what the thread is about.btw, about high standards. i think every guy should know what he wants and be able to communicate it. especially characterwise. if you don´t know what you want, sit down with a paper and pencil and really think about it deep for an hour and write it down. really do it. go over your past relationships and encounters and write down everything.besides the obvious that you don´t stumble around in the dark any more while dating when knowing basically what to look for in a girl and waste lots of time with uncompatible girls, you also have another big advantage. if you know what you want and communicate it the right way, girls that like you will try to fit this "dream girl" version of yours. that means for you: more fun and better relationships. (until her fassade collapses and her real self shines through, which you can decide to want or dump. or, in the unlikely case that she really IS everything you want, be with her forever).girls always want to know how to appear sexier and more attractive to men. try it out, tell a girl you´re talking to she´d look even better (i stress on "even better", keep it complementary) if she wore her hair open, if she´d unbotton one more of these buttons, if she would apply some other kind of lipstick, etc... and you will see how they will comply. maybe the next time you meet for example she´ll have her hair open. girls are unable to not take that information in.a word of caution though: if you do that enough, you will turn into a kind of validation source they can get addicted to. it´s not a healthy relationship trust me, but for experimentation try it out. constantly not being content with a girls looks will drive a special kind of them crazy, the hotter the more this applies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 btw.. no girl is perfect.i agree, but you all want to be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ovrdose Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 i think the face and body go together as one. if she has a cute face check out her figure, make sure she's not carrying any extra pounds. then it just goes from there. and nice soft skin is absolutely... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 i think the face and body go together as one. if she has a cute face check out her figure, make sure she's not carrying any extra pounds. then it just goes from there. and nice soft skin is absolutely...i agree.. the face is first. if a girl has bad skin that is the overall look and how she carries herself is important. Also her facial gestures. For instance, girls that have that serious look or frowns most of the time is Def. not in my interest... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adrenalineam Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 I gotta agree with tastey here. There's sort of a mental checklist going on. Does she have this, is this too big, is this too small?I might not be as picky, but if one doesn't work out well, I won't move on down the list. And we're talking about straight physical attraction, so it's ok to be shallow. The girls I'd fuck are different from the girls I'd date.Of course, high on my list is how she can handle a shot of Jager Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rasul Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 Body of course, but initally looking at the face, I'm very drawn to sharp eyebrows and eye shape. Lips are the sealer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lalate Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I always wondered what the answer to this was.I'm going to say her long hair or HUGE chest, am I wrong?Her total number of posts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticRain Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I've been told quite a few times it's my eyes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funketeer Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I'm very attracted to girls that blow me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adrenalineam Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I've been told quite a few times it's my eyes.Can I see?I'm very attracted to girls that blow me Nah, that's reserved for the ugly women, so I all I have to see it the top of their heads, and I can imagine it's someone much hotter.Or a grandma with no teeth. MysticRain 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I always wondered what the answer to this was.I'm going to say her long hair or HUGE chest, am I wrong?In my case you'd be right. Long hair is the first thing I notice, then the breasts, the face and eyes, and the abdomen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liqidtouch Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 I always wondered what the answer to this was.I'm going to say her long hair or HUGE chest, am I wrong? the shape of her lips"All of them" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgtlfnk Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 Eyes....and ass'Zactly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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