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Alright guys. LOL Im new to this board but I got a question (good way to build up a good rep eh?) My dicksize is about 5.2 inches when im fully hard. Because of this im pretty fucking self-concious about whippin it out with chicks! Can I please get some serious input from Girls and Guys about what my options are and what I can do to make up for this problem or improve it? Thanks alot. Please be serious!HEHE.. jus be happy its not u with the small dick..Payce

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PS: Im 17 years old is it possible my shit is still gonna grow?! biggrin.gif

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My advice? Make sure you're good at oral, and make it up to her with lots of it. Unfortunately, unless you're willing to have surgery to enlarge it, there's no hope for you. Hey, at least I'm honest. I guess you just gotta stick with what God gave you. Sorry guy. cwm36.gif

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My advice? Make sure you're good at oral, and make it up to her with lots of it. Unfortunately, unless you're willing to have surgery to enlarge it, there's no hope for you. Hey, at least I'm honest. I guess you just gotta stick with what God gave you. Sorry guy. cwm36.gif

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also learn to find the girl's g spot with your finger...not all girls are comfortable with oral, so learn how to pleasure her w/ your fingers too...foreplay is very important (no matter what your size).

or, maybe you'll find a girl with a tiny little pussy that's just right for you!

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With women, it's more about doing it to their minds than doing it to their bodies. You need to mentally seduce a woman before you do anything else. Men that care too much about schlong size are usually the jackasses that don't know or don't care about how women like to be treated.

Try finding out whatever the particular girl you're with is into, and concentrate on pleasing every part of her body with every part of your body, not just your dick. It ain't all about just stickin' it.

P.S. how do you measure a dick, anyway? I've never done it.

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Originally posted by rparadox:

With women, it's more about doing it to their minds than doing it to their bodies. You need to mentally seduce a woman before you do anything else. Men that care too much about schlong size are usually the jackasses that don't know or don't care about how women like to be treated.

Try finding out whatever the particular girl you're with is into, and concentrate on pleasing every part of her body with every part of your body, not just your dick. It ain't all about just stickin' it.

P.S. how do you measure a dick, anyway? I've never done it.

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Originally posted by rparadox:

P.S. how do you measure a dick, anyway? I've never done it.

Oh, come on rparadox, you can't fool us! cwm1.gif

First of all- relax! I'm not going to lie and say size makes zero differnce. HOWEVER, there are more important things, as well as ways to work around it. Oral sex, for starters. Personally, if I could find a guy who would eat it like he means it, I wouldn't care if he had a three inch pecker.

I've been w/guys who were very well hung and had no idea what to do with it; I've been w/guys who were prob. about your size, and enjoyed myself. If you have the moves down that's the most important thing. How to get the moves? Work w/the girl and pay close attention to what she enjoys. Or let her take control and SHOW you what she likes. The woman has to take responsibility for her pleasure too. If she's not that tight she can do Kegal exercises to get a firmer grip.

And follow rparadox's advice! I think it's about time your sex realized the penis isn't NEARLY as important for a woman's pleasure as most men think it is.

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Dude, you're on the verge of something huge (no pun inteneded). Those of us guys who are a little older had to get it through our fat heads that it's not all about the cock. You're being forced to learn it earlier which means you're going to be way ahead, my man. The women would probably agree that most guys aren't nearly as good in the sack as they think they are. Open yourself up to what they want, and you'll have so many women after you, everyone will want to know your secret (and the irony is, they'll all assume you must be hung like a monster).

Focus on your other qualities, too. Not only are we not as good in bed as we think we are, we're not as interesting as we think we are. The best advice I could give is read a book! Anna Karennina got me laid. No lie. The woman found it so enticing that I could carry on a semi-intelligent conversation about something other than sports, beer, etc. that she basically took me and had her way with me. (It's a damn shame we didn't live in the same city... but that's another story). Tolstoi may be a little heavy, but read Hemingway (quite the cocksman, himself), Fitzgerald, Kerouac...

Get your head out of your pants and work on the things that matter to women (not men). That other shit just makes you turn into a lame-ass, macho, got-something-to-prove idiot. And remember that every woman's most sensitive erogenous zone is between her ears.

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Dude, you're on the verge of something huge (no pun inteneded). Those of us guys who are a little older had to get it through our fat heads that it's not all about the cock. You're being forced to learn it earlier which means you're going to be way ahead, my man. The women would probably agree that most guys aren't nearly as good in the sack as they think they are. Open yourself up to what they want, and you'll have so many women after you, everyone will want to know your secret (and the irony is, they'll all assume you must be hung like a monster).

Focus on your other qualities, too. Not only are we not as good in bed as we think we are, we're not as interesting as we think we are. The best advice I could give is read a book! Anna Karennina got me laid. No lie. The woman found it so enticing that I could carry on a semi-intelligent conversation about something other than sports, beer, etc. that she basically took me and had her way with me. (It's a damn shame we didn't live in the same city... but that's another story). Tolstoi may be a little heavy, but read Hemingway (quite the cocksman, himself), Fitzgerald, Kerouac...

Get your head out of your pants and work on the things that matter to women (not men). That other shit just makes you turn into a lame-ass, macho, got-something-to-prove idiot. And remember that every woman's most sensitive erogenous zone is between her ears.

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use foreplay to make her want you so bad that any size will do

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Bottom line: The deciding factor of whether a girl keeps YOU or not shouldn't be your dick size. Sadly, some girls DO use that as the final criteria.

If you happen to meet those types of girls, leave 'em.

It's not dick size that matters. It's not even the technique. I wish more guys would realize that.

Most girls would LOVE to have a decent conversation with a clean-cut guy that lasts longer than 5 minutes.

Treat women like ladies. Be a gentleman. You'll be rewarded in due time. Eventually, your dick size won't even matter if a girl REALLY likes you.

You'll be fine. Don't worry 'bout it.

Besides, what does that say about YOURSELF if ALL THAT YOU ARE boils down to how big your dick is?

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Originally posted by tharef11:

Alright guys. LOL Im new to this board but I got a question (good way to build up a good rep eh?) My dicksize is about 5.2 inches when im fully hard. Because of this im pretty fucking self-concious about whippin it out with chicks! Can I please get some serious input from Girls and Guys about what my options are and what I can do to make up for this problem or improve it? Thanks alot. Please be serious!HEHE.. jus be happy its not u with the small dick..Payce

_thaReF

PS: Im 17 years old is it possible my shit is still gonna grow?! biggrin.gif

First of all everbody else may not be that much bigger. A recent study by lifestyles (the condom people) came to the conclusion that the average is actually under 6 inches. Here are a couple links to reports about the survey.

http://www.lifestyles.com/news/031901.shtml

http://www.joeromance.com/Pig/index.asp?file=condoms&category=Pig

As for improvement at least size-wise there are two things you can do...if you're overweight lose weight (fat may be covering up some length) and you can shave the pubes around the base to make it look a little bigger (most male porn stars do this. [And if you're taking roids or anything like roids, stop]

However, the biggest thing you need to do is change your attitude. You refer to your size as a "problem", and you're concerned about what chicks will think when the they see you.

if you have no self-confidence you are even more screwed than you would be with a two-inch dick...why do jerks and bad boys get more women?...because they come across as being more confident & women are looking for guys who are (or least seem) secure + are happy with themselves. SO SNAP OUT OF IT!

You're 17? Everyone-especially girls mind u--have self-esteem issues when you're that age. Even the hot girls you go to school with probably think of themselves as fat or ugly.

I agree with everyone else who said that there are women out there for who size does matter...but for these women...it really matters...and most men won't do the trick.

As everyone else has suggested start working on technique and learning everying thing you can on making girls happy. www.menshealth.com and www.askmen.com are good sites, but my no. #1 recommendation is this PAY ATTENTION TO HER. She'll tell you what she wants...all you have to do is listen.

So go get 'em

P.S. Oh yeah, one last suggestion...if you ever do wind up with a chick who cracks on your size [which i really don't think will happen], say "Why don't you let me do you up the ass then? After all, if I'm so small, it won't hurt that much, right? [Rudeboyyouth may have some suggestion on the wording]

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Originally posted by rparadox:

With women, it's more about doing it to their minds than doing it to their bodies. You need to mentally seduce a woman before you do anything else. Men that care too much about schlong size are usually the jackasses that don't know or don't care about how women like to be treated.

Try finding out whatever the particular girl you're with is into, and concentrate on pleasing every part of her body with every part of your body, not just your dick. It ain't all about just stickin' it.

P.S. how do you measure a dick, anyway? I've never done it.

rparadox, you got the right idea buddy ..

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Originally posted by tastyt:

[b If she's not that tight she can do Kegal exercises to get a firmer grip.

cwm4.gif It's all in the power of the Kegal

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Just thought I'd pitch in to the topic. It's not necessarily the size that matters. It's how you use it. In my past, you'll run into the same situations with women. Some of them are tight and some are WIDE OPEN. No matter how big your cock is, that punnany will swallow the worm. It goes both ways.

Solution? work on yourself and be comfortable with yourself. Stop concentrating on your size. Instead, work on your skills. Learn those spots that make her lips quench for THE DICK. Once you have that down the rest will follow.

It's like a catch 21. Some love the huge cocks, but hate to deal with the pain. Some hate the small cocks, but love to ride em. Go figure!!

Overall, I have to agree with the others who posted, if that's all that matters to her, dump her and find one that will appreciate you for you regardless of your size.

Good luck!!

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