aboyfrombklyn Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 I don't know what it is with me lately, but every time I'm with my girl, especially when we're doing it doggy, I have this sudden urge to just put it in her poop chute. I really don't think she's up for it, but I know some things take a little convincing. One day, when we were going at it (I mean really going at it!) I slipped and accidentally poked her there, and after we were done, she said that she couldn't imagine how someone would want to go through such pain. Being new at anal, and really curious, I'm trying to figure out how I should go by talking her into it, and how I should go by getting into it little by little so it doesn't hurt. I have a feeling that if I mention it to her, she'll immediately refuse, so I think I have to approach it in a different way. Any ideas??Also, a question to the girls, does it actually feel really good when you get used to it or when it doesn't hurt?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Start off with your fingers and tongue. It can take a while getting used to just being touched there. And I do mean just touching, depending on her reaction you might want to wait for *any* kind of penetration. Try it first while going down on her. If she shrinks away let her know that it doesn't mean you two necessarily have to have anal, just to enjoy the feeling for what it is. Once she gets used to that... And c'mon, there's no way she can't enjoy that... Bring up the idea, implant it in her head, she haaaaas to be curious about it. If it just slipped in like that of course it hurt! Especially if she's never done it before! No, you have to be very sloooooow and careful when starting out. Let her know you'll stop if she wants you to. Some people have to take it in stages, they don't make it in the whole way the first time!And does it feel good once you're used to it??? Yes I'd say it's nice on occassion. The key is to be careful and, again, when going in take it very slowly. Oh, and LUBE, lots and lots of lube, haha! The pain doesn't entirely go away... but pain isn't always a bad thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Damn tastyt, I could tell you were naughty. The more and more you're revealing, the sexier and sexier you're sounding. I think........OMG, alright, I gotta go take a shower. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urallge Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by tastyt Once she gets used to that... And c'mon, there's no way she can't enjoy that...And does it feel good once you're used to it??? Yes I'd say it's nice on occassion. The pain doesn't entirely go away... but pain isn't always a bad thing. I like what Im hearing tastyt...... Nothing like women who enjoy trying new things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Yep take tastyt's advice and use LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE, LUBE IS THE ANSWER LOLalso make sure she is totally relaxed, she cannot be tense.and do it slowly, dont be rushing into it cause in the beginning or the first time she's all nervous so she has to make sure she can totally trust u so that u wont do anything that she wont want u to dowow did that just make sense??? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by romy20 Yep take tastyt's advice and use LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE, LUBE IS THE ANSWER LOLalso make sure she is totally relaxed, she cannot be tense.and do it slowly, dont be rushing into it cause in the beginning or the first time she's all nervous so she has to make sure she can totally trust u so that u wont do anything that she wont want u to dowow did that just make sense??? lol not really. you kinda rambled towards the end. but its ok. i forgive you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by djjonstephen Damn tastyt, I could tell you were naughty. The more and more you're revealing, the sexier and sexier you're sounding. I think........OMG, alright, I gotta go take a shower. Oh, honey, they don't call us the Sex Board vixens for nothin'! Just wait- it only gets better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 i definitly agree with all the ladies...........LUBE is key!! i wasn't too thrilled with the idea of anal in the past: the 1st time i did it was when i was 19 and i was WASTED with my boyfriend at the time. i felt uncomfortable the next day but dont remember pain ... after that we never tried again. then i tried again a year later with a new boyfriend, but he was too big for me and the idea scared me. my bf now wanted to try it and i was reluctant but decided to do it just for him and it wasnt so bad!!! i didnt just let him ram it in with my ass up in the air, we laid on our sides and he made it more romantic-like to get me used to it.... kissed me from behind on my neck so id feel less tense...it was GREAT!!! now i actually ASK for anal....haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 give her a muscle relaxer and a coupla shots! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosultan Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 rude boy youth is a fuckin' anal expert... I am surprised he hasn't put up a response yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by bigpoppanils not really. you kinda rambled towards the end. but its ok. i forgive you OK GOOD YOU BETTER FORGIVE ME!!!!LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by shugabooga give her a muscle relaxer and a coupla shots! LOL!- Yeah, I guess that would help too!Oh yes, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate) are supposed to loosen up the muscles too. I've done poppers but not for this purpose, has anyone ever tried this??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by tastyt LOL!- Yeah, I guess that would help too!Oh yes, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate) are supposed to loosen up the muscles too. I've done poppers but not for this purpose, has anyone ever tried this??? where do u get poppers from Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 I have one thing to say SILK-E Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 apples loves anal... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 Originally posted by romy20 where do u get poppers from Not sure- you might want to try a sex shop. I think it's legal? Comes in a small brown bottle, you inhale the fumes for a few seconds. Gives a really strong headrush, as all the blood rushes to your head. It's a silly drug for crackheads like myself who like to try everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepyarn Posted October 5 Report Share Posted October 5 Hey Buddy, tastyt and shugabooga both gave fine advice. I would recommend a product called wet for lubrication, if you can not find that then k-y makes a " personal lubricant ". Just make sure you warm that shit up before you try and stick it. Let her know it will hurt like buggery, but like t said play it off like it doesn't matter and she will come around Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jaxl Posted October 6 Report Share Posted October 6 I definitely agree with TastyT ---lots & lots of lubricant is key and it has to be done slowly. Personally I prefer the KY jelly to be cool. It makes me crazy when the coolness touches me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted October 6 Report Share Posted October 6 I don't concur, I think the best way to go is sandpaper wrapped around your dick!!...... works for me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted October 6 Report Share Posted October 6 Originally posted by tastyt Not sure- you might want to try a sex shop. I think it's legal? Comes in a small brown bottle, you inhale the fumes for a few seconds. Gives a really strong headrush, as all the blood rushes to your head. It's a silly drug for crackheads like myself who like to try everything. thats rush isn't it??? haha, another lil crackhead here lol its like this liquid u sniff, and yeah blood rushed to ur brain and ur face gets red and it feels like ur heads gonna explode hahaand gives u like a less than a minute high Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted October 6 Report Share Posted October 6 Originally posted by romy20 thats rush isn't it??? haha, another lil crackhead here lol its like this liquid u sniff, and yeah blood rushed to ur brain and ur face gets red and it feels like ur heads gonna explode hahaand gives u like a less than a minute high Its like a whipet, right? or sucking the air out of a whip cream can? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 6 Report Share Posted October 6 Originally posted by gabo I don't concur, I think the best way to go is sandpaper wrapped around your dick!!...... works for me! That's the way....the rougher the better...NOT........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 6 Report Share Posted October 6 Originally posted by tastyt Oh, honey, they don't call us the Sex Board vixens for nothin'! Just wait- it only gets better. Sex is supposed to be fun.... Experimenting is half of that fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wisdom Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 rush sucks not even nearly as good as a whippit. sex is better with out rush, thats how much it sucks(less you also like to huff paint thinner and snort glue)the best way to get her broke in is the finger and tounge technick decussed ealierbut if you really wanna get her into it have her do it to you first, then when she sees how much you like it she'll wanna try it to:D -----------2nd post on my way to becoming an old skool legend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 7 Report Share Posted October 7 i was cleaning my apt the other day and i found of bottle of rush from like a couple years ago, and i sniffed and then i came to the ques of why the hell did i like this shit in the first place??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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