synderella420 Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 I was just wondering because if I was just being fucked I cant reach an orgasm. My clitoris has to be stimulated for me to cum. I tried a lot of positions and different things with my ex but it still doesnt work. He used to tell me to concentrate more and no matter how hard I tried I couldnt cum with just fucking?? Do any other girls have this problem?? Do you know any techniques that might help??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 Yes I usually do, but I've also never had a problem with that...guess I'm just a lucky person Anyway, don't concentrate too much and definitely don't think about it. Try to sit on him, while facing him and vary between sitting up straight and bringing your upper body down towards his face (kiss him or whatever). This is just a suggestion as that usually gets me where I want to go VERY fast (but then again, as I said before...I'm a very lucky lady when it comes to orgasm).Hope you'll get there soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 Originally posted by synderella420 Do you know any techniques that might help??? i know a lotta techniques that might help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girly Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 YES!Every time.. (try getting on top) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted December 8 Author Report Share Posted December 8 Originally posted by quoth i know a lotta techniques that might help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 Yes, I can, but not all the time. I usually cum when gettin hit in from the back;) DOGGY baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missy1026 Posted December 8 Report Share Posted December 8 My clitoris has to be stimulated for me to cumI'm the same way..........i tried just about everything and i just can't orgasm from just sex...... maybe it's the men i've been with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by girly YES!Every time.. (try getting on top) On top yeah but reverse lean forward too...balls stick to the clit and it gets ya off....well...gets me off! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 these positions work great for me:1. him kneeling, me flat on back, my legs either out or pulled up2. doggy style3. me on top reverse4. him sitting, me straddling <--you can rub your clit against his body in this positiondefinitely don't concentrate on orgasm; you never will if you do that. just let yourself go and get a little crazy. sex on drugs sometimes helps you break a threshold Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 just turn me on and i'm all wet.... you just gotta know how to do it right and i'm a slip and slide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by flying_high Try to sit on him, while facing him and vary between sitting up straight and bringing your upper body down towards his face (kiss him or whatever). i usually get off in that close up sitting on him position when i start thinking hes my little whore.....i place both hands over his head and every time i go up push him down ::by his head:: youll get what i mean cause men do it to women all the time, anyway, just think that your the one with the cock inside him and keep pumpin.......the feeling of domination towards him ::even if he is the one with the throbbing hot mass inside u:: will surley get u off.......just squeeze them mush-cles and thrust them thighs, honestly, act as if your doing him, sometimes place your hands on his ass and clench him......dominate girl DOMINATE!!!!!!!:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by synderella420 Do you know any techniques that might help??? try fucking guys with bigger dicks... or that know how to work with what they have... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 i have the same problem... i need my clit stimulated. i find that being on top makes it a lot easier because you have control. also if you get on top in a chair (couch, car) instead of a bed, sometimes that helps, for me anyway. mmmmmmm i love when a guy really knows how to make me crazy though - ask him to rub your clit while hes fucking u, always works for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by dgmodel try fucking guys with bigger dicks... or that know how to work with what they have... Its not even the point of that my ex had a big cock!! And believe me he did know how to work my pussy!!Somebitch: yeah thats what he did all the time he rubbed my clit while we fucked until we came together!! But I just want to be able to cum being fucked with out any clitoral stimulation.. I realized it is so fucking hard tho!! I dont know maybe because he was my first and the only guy I fucked for close to six years. I mean he would always get mad and say I would be so pissed off if we broke up and another guy would be able to make you cum with out the clitoral stimulation!! Well I have yet to try!!Thanks for the advice everyone!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by synderella420 I mean he would always get mad and say I would be so pissed off if we broke up and another guy would be able to make you cum with out the clitoral stimulation!! thats not a healthy sign of a relationship... if the guy is talking about other guys after him and shit, kind means hes not gonna be there for the long haul... maybe i just read into shit too much, but ... IDK... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Okay Mr. Analyzations!! Well that didnt mean anything we were together for close to six years and I was the one who broke up with him so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted December 9 Report Share Posted December 9 this is a rather interesting thread? *rubs chin* *damn i got some serious cravings for fuckin carvels milkshakes, wow that A.D.D. must be kicking in right about now?* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 i never cum just from sex, ughh its so annoying toothe only way i can is with clit stimulation thats itno gspot orgasms for me yet , hopefully soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Originally posted by quoth wow that A.D.D. must be kicking in right about now?* hehe...sounds like something someone told me the other day ::rubs chin:: lmao :confused: :idea: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Try stimulating yourself while hes having sex with youPlaying with your clit during sex can make him more horneyand please you...because well we all know ...no one does it like we do it. So while hes fuckin u while ur laying on ur back play with your clit see if that helps out a bit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Originally posted by synderella420 I was just wondering because if I was just being fucked I cant reach an orgasm. My clitoris has to be stimulated for me to cum. I tried a lot of positions and different things with my ex but it still doesnt work. He used to tell me to concentrate more and no matter how hard I tried I couldnt cum with just fucking?? Do any other girls have this problem?? Do you know any techniques that might help??? you havent had sex with me yet then... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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