OK I have got myself a little problem. I need some feedback on it. I known this girl for the last 5 years, she use to go out with a friend of mine. They broke up at 2 different times in the last 2 years, this time it is over. They are having a messy breakup going to court and sueing each other. I am not tryin to get involed in any of that. I really don't hang out with the guy anymore. I have stayed in touch with her we go out like once a month to see Danny T. I also go to the bar she works at and hang out with her. Ok about a year and a half ago I broke up with my girlfriend and she was broken up with him. I mentioned that we should get together, when we were rolling one nite but she kind of blew it off. Well Sat morning at the club. I opened my mouth again. I should of never taken the last hit, cause when I did, bam I spilled my guts, I told the girl everything. How I felt, how long I liked her, and all the other stuff to make myself look good. So this is going well and she said she likes me too. So all is going well, I really cannot believe I told her, I wasnt planning on telling her. It was I guess I got overwelmed with the hit and just started talking. We even talked about moving away. I think the girl is great and we get along so well. What do I do about the guy? I have to tell him, he is going to go ape shit? Might even want to fight me, I hope not. But I think I should be the one to tell him, there is no need for him to hear from someone else. I am willing to lose the friend for the girl. I really don't hang out with him anymore, but we talk once in a while. But I am also scared, cause there is an unwritten rule about dating ex's but I dont really want to listen to it. I think this could work. Now that I told her I want to pursue it, and I see a change in her too calling and texting me more. SO I think we are on th right track. Damm it ihas been a LONG time since I had butterflies in my stomach when I think about someone. What do you think I should do? Thanks